bobolizim:
His mum has broken up with his dad some years ago amd since then..she has been a single mother,just of recent he found a pack of condom in her bag..a lot of questions is running through his mind,what should he do?cos there is rage burning in him..

oyin17:
Na only condom you see and u dey burn. let her be body no be firewood. she need oiling you know.

bobolizim:
seriously,as if i am d only one observing that...i dont get...cant she be disciplined?must one satisfy one's body?

ireneony:
hmmmm
pls change the topic to my mum have condoms in her bag instead of lying on ur friend's head

Illuminatus:
You've got to understand that your mother is an adult. She is single. For whatever reason can choose to have condoms in her bags. You need to respect her wishes and boundaries just as you expect her to respect yours. If you have a good relationship with her, you can causally ask her about it. Otherwise, forget that you saw this and mind your own business. It doesn't even concern you if there's a guy out there younger than you who's banging her. Like someone said, your dad might be doing worse, would it have provoked the same reaction from you? That said, I'm curious as to how you found the condom... Snooping isn't cool.

UjSizzle:
Look the other way. What your parent does in privacy is none of your business.

bobolizim:
His mum has broken up with his dad some years ago amd since then..she has been a single mother,just of recent he found a pack of condom in her bag..a lot of questions is running through his mind,what should he do?cos there is rage burning in him..

bobolizim:
ah ah!!!sexuality education for her bag?which planet r u from?

Fourwinds:
hmmmm. women dey vex ooooo. dat confirm dey wana feel nature.

Emodeee:



Don't mind them. One said "she needs oiling" the other said "she is a human being nt a wood."

from their statement u can decipher dat they are non virgins.



U know what? Dis generation is crazy about sex.
So what is d biggy about being a non virgin and d topic smh



All the girls that av commented above are non virgins.

arsetalks:
No vex me. Which kain Mumu question be this? I know that guy wella, he no dey wait till his mother travels. He dey knack like no tomorrow. His mile don talk taya. I no fit even trust am with my grandma.

Very silly naughty boy, he no wan mile to enjoy wetin hin be dey enjoy.

adellam16:
u r selfish! She has been a single mom for some years! If ur dad got married again it wuldnt have been an issue! Is ur mom ur girlfriend or wife? Even if u saw a D ildo in her bag is dat ur concern? Free d woman nd stop acting like a jealous lover or do u see ur moom in a romantic way! U need Jesus!

danbrowndmf:
If u care about your parents,there wellfare,well being,secret is ur business...sometimes this things we africans call "RESPECT" is totally blinding ous to the fact....what is wrong if he ask his mother how come about the condom? Am so close to ma mum that i could easly ask her that,if she was not with my dad...a good mother will eventually seat her son down and explain...."RESPECT" should not blind our eyes to a certain interaction we ought tto have with our parent.... #MyOpinion

ademoladeji:

Counsellor doing her thingz...

bobolizim:
nd wat its with her consent nd she has forgotten...she is keeping d condom in the bag unko?

agarawu23:
if you are free with your mum, you wouldn't mind searching her bag for items to steal

UjSizzle:

This is different, Dan. What else does a condom in a mother's bag signify if not the obvious? She's playing safe and she's obviously having sex.
Besides this isn't a kid trying to 'correct' or 'understand' his mom. He just said he was really angry with her....for what biko? Having sex after divorcing his dad? The young man is a brat not a concerned child. It doesn't take rocket science to have it figured out.
Again, what parents do in their privacy is their business. When it becomes obvious their action is affecting their lives or their children's negatively, then intervention is required. Still, I'll advice a child employs the help of a parent's best friend or a trusted member of the family to get their parents out of dicey situations.
Respect is a fragile thing in our culture. You don't want to mess with it.

mizlynda:
Cant judge tho, i never really had a mom.

danbrowndmf:
Well it depend on our upbringing....Goodluck to him on his quest to know who his mother is sleeping with.

adellam16:
Don't mind d greedy child. He is claiming friend whereas d topic is about him! Naughty boy!

ireneony:
hmmmm
pls change the topic to my mum have condoms in her bag instead of lying on ur friend's head

UjSizzle:

Lol that's a foolhardy quest.

Shortyy:
you are gay

fellis:


Every embarrassing problem is usually the nairalanders 'friends' problem, never the OP's problem.
Nairalanders friends don suffer no be small.

@OP, so you found condom in your moms bag and then came to Nairaland to ask other people what you should do abi? Take am blow blomblom naa.
Mumu children everywhere.