ireneony:
she is human after let her flex jare and I like d fact that she is with condoms unlike most single ladies that shagg raw..
@op I know by now ur father might have shagged more thab 50ladies, pls leave ur mum alone
if it were dad, will u be asking us this question

smh...gender inequality

Hmmmmmm. Women like dat thing but pretending as if they dislike it. carry on

CSTR2:
Because she is his mother.

She's an adult with needs, if he has issues wif dat let him channel is energy at bringing d parents back together not meddling in her biz. Not like he tells d mum abt all d gals he ..... cos dats nt her biz either. Except he's a teen, let him go find something more useful to do wif his life.

hug her.

She is playing safe.

pbs4real:
stp all dis gender inequality ish,wen u are in rome,u behave lyk a roman,in naija wen a man knacks mre than a woman its normal,buh a woman wld be label a prostitute. . . .its high time u women learn to leave wit that. . . . . .

lols...but that's root of all the matrimonial problems we have in nigeria...rubbish...socio cultural rules

waistaa:
Abeg give her some brake pad,she is sane enough to carry a CD.she is your mother doesn't mean she shouldn't have some privacy.by the way OP how many girls u dey carry come house when she travel

hmmmm. women dey vex ooooo. dat confirm dey wana feel nature.

bobolizim:
so in ur country only 5yrs can be asked ti bring somefin frm one's bag?which scho did u graduate from?nd to ur question...i dont Bleep!!!...not everyone bleeps...its not food...but i am sure u do**please accept jesus before it's too late

You need Jesus more.
Your Akproko no get part two.
I know you don't fhuck,that explains why you are so passed at your mother.
E go better.

ireneony:
she is human after let her flex jare and I like d fact that she is with condoms unlike most single ladies that shagg raw..
@op I know by now ur father might have shagged more thab 50ladies, pls leave ur mum alone
if it were dad, will u be asking us this question

smh...gender inequality

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You got the first part great. She's dating and doing so carefully/responsibly. Maybe the reason she hasn't introduced the dude is because she's not sure how he (and his siblings if any) will take it. You know kids like to see their sweet mummy as virgin Mary.

As for his dad having possibly bedded 50 ladies, it's a gross exaggeration and perception women have. It's a lot easier for ladies to shag lots of men and clean mouth than for men to do so. Only that men make little effort to conceal it.

It takes a lot of energy, time and money running after many ladies. Most men are "getting" far less than they claim among peers.
Whereas an average looking lady that dresses nicely n carry herself well can have 3 toasters (active/passive, serious/unserious included) daily. A non-picky lady can have a new guy everyday.

bobolizim:
must u use ur eyes to see all things everyday?

I asked for pic for me and and fellow "crentious" nairalanders (sagamite 1804)

And know if she really worth to keep the wole pack of Condom.

kilode100:

Just negodu!!

English Please!

Look away...
She's got her life to live

czarr:
lol....na everything be gender inequality?

no...to get cash on their own no folo.

Even family issues are brought to NL! Continu

There are two things involved: used or unused
If used,two things are involved : it's hers or his
If his, two things are involved :love or lust
If love two things are involved :ready to be disowned or join new family.... Add the rest

Bro al u nid to do is confront her abt d abt d stuff den ask wu d guy is.Bro one tin u must nt allow is d guy must be ur agemate...abeg if e be small fight ur mum oooo mke she drop d guy because e go cause prob 4 ouse

respect your mother privacy, leave what you are in doubt,you can't replace her,keep her secret away from third party.

bobolizim:
His mum has broken up with his dad some years ago amd since then..she has been a single mother,just of recent he found a pack of condom in her bag..a lot of questions is running through his mind,what should he do?cos there is rage burning in him..

oyin17:
Na only condom you see and u dey burn. let her be body no be firewood. she need oiling you know.

oiling d generator. she is very free now with it

lightheart:
Wetin you find go yo momma's bag?

to steal money of cos. What else.

FKMagazine:
A friend, saheed says He shud Kill his mum; however, I say he shud calm down and try to forgive her

what has the woman done wrong. To be forgiven or to be killed.

TO ME ITS JUST LIKE SEEING A CAR KEY IN HER BAG. ITS IS NORMAL. YOU @OP HAVE TO BE MATURE ABOUT IT.

Tell him to calm down.

His mum broke up some years ago and is technically a single mum from your description. Too bad the "single user license" the father enjoyed on the mum's bodily assets has expired at the time of breaking up.

bobolizim:
His mum has broken up with his dad some years ago amd since then..she has been a single mother,just of recent he found a pack of condom in her bag..a lot of questions is running through his mind,what should he do?cos there is rage burning in him..

Do to her as you would appreciate her do to you if she is the one that found same in your bag.

sorry, d mama na runs girl **runs outta thread **

her batteries are down. they need to be recharged

bobolizim:
His mum has broken up with his dad some years ago amd since then..she has been a single mother,just of recent he found a pack of condom in her bag..a lot of questions is running through his mind,what should he do?cos t[b]here is rage burning in him[/b]..

Hope say the raging fire never roast u finish?
You found condom in a single mother bag and you dey ask wetin u go do? You fit go tell your dad na...make he for kuku roast your tongue with correct raging fire.

...am just here to SHAGG, if ur here to SHAGG, just put ur hands in da air !!!

JayJustus:
sing with me

*when I see konji, when I see konji, when I see konji I will pass I will pass over you*

if you're a tenor singer like
if you're an alto singer share
if you sound like a frog quote me and choke on fried egg

guy..remember you went to church today oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

bobolizim:
not really...my mum cant do such

I hear you

ireneony:
hmmmm
pls change the topic to my mum have condoms in her bag instead of lying on ur friend's head

Every embarrassing problem is usually the nairalanders 'friends' problem, never the OP's problem.
Nairalanders friends don suffer no be small.

@OP, so you found condom in your moms bag and then came to Nairaland to ask other people what you should do abi? Take am blow blomblom naa.
Mumu children everywhere.

bobolizim:
young?nop...she is a mother...in her 40s

What do you mean she's in her 40s and not young ? So are you trying to say women in their 40s should not have sex

@OP u shld leave ur Mom alone, and mind ur business and stop lying dats its ur frds's Mom.

bobolizim:
His mum has broken up with his dad some years ago amd since then..she has been a single mother,just of recent he found a pack of condom in her bag..a lot of questions is running through his mind,what should he do?cos there is rage burning in him..

Advice her to goan re-marry because wat she's doing is actually fornication. To be candid, u can't expect her not to have sex na,it's part of life and inherent in all humans. And u neva can tell mayb it's ur dad she's seeing again sha,u knw,just to keep body and soul 2geda na. But wat I'm sure of is dat she's having a sex relationship with someone and she's a very careful person dat's why she has condoms in her bag. So just advice her to go re-marry so dat wat she's doing secretly will bcom legal.

bobolizim:
really?nd wat if she is not my mum?nd how do u define embarrassment?

Bringing stuffs like this online is an embarrassment, it's the woman that gave birth to u for God's sake. BTW, ur friend's mom is also your mom

hahahaaaha. The older they are the hornierr.