Five Things You
Shouldn't Do After A
Break Up


Here is one interesting status update of a friend i
saw on Facebook, i could not ascertain if it's her
own original write up and so i really can state
clearly here who the original writer is, but it's
certainly not mine, but i found it interesting and
worthy of sharing to my faithful readers who
have come to appreciate the kind of quality
articles churned out from the website, i hope you
learn one or two things from the article


1. Don’t Beg:
For God’s sake, don’t beg! Begging after a
breakup only makes matters worse. It makes you
appear pathetic and it can be very irritating.
Maybe you don’t understand why it ended. Maybe
you think it ended for the wrong reasons. Maybe
you’d just rather be in a bad relationship than be
in no relationship at all. No matter what you do,
don’t beg for him/her to return. Deep down, you
know that you don’t want to be in a relationship
with someone you had to beg to be with you.
Besides, if your ex rejects you a second time, it
won’t just hurt; the rejection will sting with extra
humiliation and regret.


2. Don’t Seek revenge:
Don’t seek revenge. It serves no purpose and it
will only make you feel worse about yourself.
Don’t destroy his things, don’t speak evil of her.
The thrill of revenge only feeds bitterness and
hatred. You may have been deeply wronged, but
“getting even” won’t heal any wounds. Forgive
and move on. Carry your head high and spend
your energy on people who deserve it.


3. Don’t Communicate With The Person
Don’t continue to communicate regularly with
your ex. Breakups leave a void in your heart
where your ex once occupied but constant calling
and texting won’t fill that void. Every time you
drop the phone without saying “I love you”, your
heart will break all over again. Many people feel
lost after a breakup; not because they miss their
ex, but because so many of their daily habits
once revolved around someone else. Give yourself
some time to adapt to single life.


4. Don’t Visit Their Facebook Page
Social media can be a heartbroken person’s worst
nightmare. Resist the urge to post anything about
your breakup online, don’t insult your ex on
twitter and don’t be a constant visitor to his/her
Facebook page. Seeing pictures of your ex happy
or with someone else can compound your problem
and make your life more miserable than it
probably already is.


5. Don’t Give Up
Regardless of how the breakup made you feel,
don’t let it destroy your hope. Continue taking
care of yourself. Take some time to refocus and
pursue the things you’ve always loved to do.
Spend time with loved ones. You found love
before and you will find it again. Learn what you
can from the relationship that just ended and
move forward. Don’t give up on meeting your
perfect match. Be thankful that the wrong
relationship ended to free you up for the right one

How about not falling in love at all?
Oh, right.

Okay, noted.

it actually depends on you. how soon do you want to be in the love game depends on you

Blocked the hediot 36 hours after d brkup

6. Don't listen to Celine dion, Adele, Beyonce, Shayne ward, Bruno mars.... I wonder how it helps

the sixth thing....Don't breath when you see your ex

Oh come on i feel free with my ex, and she knows i don't give a damn...and i don't give room for apologies

vizkiz:


seems you are still feeling the pains from the breakup

I loved him and if I don't block him I will b tempted to beg

Ok. Nice stuff to share but u suppose edit ur post well na

Nice OP.

I know you must have gone through a break up before as a guy. There are certain silly things guys do after they get dumped by a pretty girl.

Are you guilty of any listed in the link below?

http://lifestyletonight..in/2015/06/silly-things-guys-do-after-they-get.html?m=0

Hw i wish i knew diz be4 nw :-]