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Is Your Wife Complaining Of Painful Sex Excessively? by wimgohealth: 11:45pm On Jun 06, 2015
PAINFUL SEX!
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Sex was originally created for man's enjoyment and procreation (Reproduction ) by God. Sex has that power to either scatter or build a home. Therefore, sex is a very vital part of human existence. It is as old as man itself. Although, It's just so unfortunate that a whole lot of us are yet to understand what is called ENJOYMENT when it comes to sex as humans. Some complain of not having feelings for sex at all. The other percentage has feelings but right on the acting scene, it's another story...
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Greater percentage of those affected are women. The primary cause according to them is pain instead of pleasure derived from it. But they fail to acknowledge that so many factors can contribute to the pains no matter how lubricated (wet ) they may be.
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MAJOR FACTORS INVOLVED.
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(1). VAGINISMUS: This is otherwise called FEAR OF joystick. We have it that no matter how wet (Lubricated ) You may think you are , if you are in anyway afraid of your man's joystick, the following natural ANATOMICAL phenomena will take place...
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(a). Your pc (Pelvic muscles ) will tense up (contract )..This phenomenon is a nice analogue of kergel's exercise.
(b). As a result of your pelvic & vaginal muscles constricting, your vaginal lumen (Opening ) will become more smaller in size and narrowed. At the end of the day, friction between your ALREADY WET VAGINA and your man's joystick will be the resultant effect. And We know what friction can produce -Pains and burning sensations that is capable of leaving You in conscious cry.
...N/B: This is not the case in MASOCHISM were a woman has that natural ability of converting sexual pains to pleasure and maybe cry out /scream unconsciously out of intense waves of pleasure. Amekob?..nko unwanga ?
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(2). WOMAN'S PRESENT PSYCHOLOGY:
Sexual enjoyment for women are borne both out of mind and the body. But in men, only the body is ideal. In a situation were a woman's mind isn't at ease, sexual enjoyment for her will be a mirage no matter how hard the man tries. Her mind MUST be free of worries,undue fears /negative anxieties before she can get into that realm wholeheartedly. Take note.
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(3). HISTORY OF SEX INFECTION (STI):
Some experiences pepperish and burning sensations on their Instruments (Sex organs -joystick /Vagina ) immediately after sex. Most often, this can be as a result of underlying chronic or poorly treated sexual infection and not just an hyper pepperish meal. And on till such is treated, the fellow (Man or woman ) can never enjoy sex. The resultant effect will be PID and finally infertility problem. So be guided accordingly please.
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(3). ANATOMY OF THE VAGINA /joystick:
Some VAGINA anatomically has a sharp ending leading to the cervix. Therefore deeper penetration will certainly leave the woman in pains. In like manner, length of the joystick matters a lot. The width may not matter since the VAGINA can easily expand when fully aroused. But no matter the arousal, an average 3-4cm VAGINA can not extend in length beyond 7cm. So imagine what will happen when a man with Iroko tree joystick is on duty. Undue long joystick is not worth it!
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(4). WRONG SEX POSITIONINGS:
Widely used sex positions today are:..
_Wheel barrow
_Missionary
_Scissors
_Woman on top
_Spoon
_Rear entry, AKA Doggy and
_Sideways.
Most often the depth of penetration is determined by these sex positions. It is the depth that will determine your pleasure or pain. For instance, rear entry position will always allow for a more deeper penetration while the missionary style ensures a more shallow penetration. So Therefore, it is pertinent that You choose a style best compatible with You.
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(5). LUBRICATION:
Inadequate or absence of lubrication result from inadequate pre-intimacy. In other cases, the vaginal batholith gland is malfunctioning or congenitally abnormal.
Hormonal imbalance also induces same.
The use of alum salt for vaginal tightening is dangerous as it predispose the VAGINA to temporary to permanent dryness. Smoking inclusive.
Therefore, always make sure that lubrication is adequate.
For menopausal women, We recommend the use of water based lubricants.
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Conclusively, we should always make sure that sexual pleasure is mutual _two sided..A sane husband will never be able to enjoy sex if the wife is complaining of pains and vise versa.
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Therefore, be guided accordingly as you go back to try something new #wink.
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Re: Is Your Wife Complaining Of Painful Sex Excessively? by tutaboi(m): 12:01am On Jun 07, 2015
Strictly for married couple .... Bf / gf should stay away... grin
Re: Is Your Wife Complaining Of Painful Sex Excessively? by GeneralQuamdeen: 5:19am On Jun 07, 2015
She do cry when we are in action but i dont know if it is a cry of joy or cry of sorrow
Re: Is Your Wife Complaining Of Painful Sex Excessively? by wimgohealth: 12:30pm On Jun 07, 2015
Sometimes, it can be a cry of pleasure
Re: Is Your Wife Complaining Of Painful Sex Excessively? by Dranatomy: 12:45pm On Jun 07, 2015
Front-page things!
Re: Is Your Wife Complaining Of Painful Sex Excessively? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jun 07, 2015
Hmmmm
Re: Is Your Wife Complaining Of Painful Sex Excessively? by Dranatomy: 4:17pm On Jun 07, 2015
Yes o o
Re: Is Your Wife Complaining Of Painful Sex Excessively? by natas22: 4:20pm On Jun 07, 2015
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Re: Is Your Wife Complaining Of Painful Sex Excessively? by wimgohealth: 3:00pm On Jun 10, 2015
We shall discuss
Re: Is Your Wife Complaining Of Painful Sex Excessively? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jun 10, 2015
if u are not marry don't do this

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