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Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by eyinjuege: 6:11pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Babymama1: Another culture that needs to be changed. Why should anyone be born to serve others ? . I think in any family, all must contribute and play their part and if peradventure a person can't for legitimat reasons, the others should step in and help. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Chinum: 6:16pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
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Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by freecocoa(f): 6:24pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Na wa o, wetin no be problem for this country, people just feeling entitled recklessly. I'm not calling her no aunty if it were to be me, nonsense. 4 Likes |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
eyinjuege: I'm sure you are just trying to be an.al You know exactly what I meant within context |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by eyinjuege: 7:04pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Babymama1: Yeah, I have the power to read minds There really is no need being insultive and vulger, but then again no surprise there |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by freecocoa(f): 7:14pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
cococandy:Nna lekwa nu o, ya buru mu ihe aru ikpo nmadu aunty by force, oburu kwa onye'm toro ato, tah! Not in a millon lifetimes, culture gbakwa oku. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by bukatyne(f): 7:17pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
yetseyi: Thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Stillfire: 7:19pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Where are the guys that often feign ignorance when we talk about culture disrespecting the place of a wife and women being accomplices and enablers of these kind of degrading institutions? As in this case, it's the women that are bitching and still want to practice this in the 21st century. How did the chic even have the mouth to tell someone older than her to call her Aunty? At least fear will catch me small. 6 Likes |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by freecocoa(f): 7:22pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:Lmao . You are one crazy girl. I hope he's not been deported sha. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by ladynice: 7:39pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Chinum:thanks alot 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by ladynice: 7:40pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: thanks atleast I hv learnt something new 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by SAMBARRY: 8:03pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Chinum:I know na 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by cococandy(f): 8:03pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Stillfire: Are you trying to ruin our beautiful African culture? 3 Likes |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Chinum: 8:14pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
ladynice: Wasere joor |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by SAMBARRY: 8:15pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
cococandy:afi African culture na 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Chinum: 8:15pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Ojare 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by blesoh(f): 2:48pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Dont try that oh,call her by her name,i cal my SIL aunty cos shez older than me like for 10yrs,but d rest who re older than me for 5ys,i call them by their names shikena. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by blessedqueen(f): 4:27pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Msp: I second u |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by blessedqueen(f): 4:29pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Thank u for being honest.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Jahblessme: 6:44pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
This is one of the cultural practices that should be abolished.. It's even women who enforce it funny enough.If the people suffering it are fine,no yawa. However,since you don't like it,you could call the aunty sarcastically..a uu nn ty moomoo,please get me a glass of water. Au nt y moomoo is lunch ready? There are ways to make people regret ever forcing a decision on you.. Good luck 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Ngokafor(f): 8:03pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Stillfire: ....like seriously i know understand those that say that women are usually the champion of atrocious cultural practices against other women.The bitching here is really an eye-opener to say the least. ..Imagine a brat 10 or more years younger than me having the audacity to expect that i call her 'aunty' and even insisting in collusion with her female relatives(as usual)that i do so.. ..anyway i am happy i do not have to deal with that..ever! ..Aunty my left foot..nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by coogar: 8:39pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Stillfire: at least you are not blaming patriarchy for this one. when we say women are the cause of women's woes, you people pull out your daggers ready to stab me. this is your war - men won't fight this one for y'all. |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Stillfire: 8:55pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
coogar: Patriarchy made women to think of themselves as passive, weak and that is why they fear to go against culture even if it's not rewarding to them. In fact it is akin to the slave mentality affecting black people today. The passive trait is just for the patriarchal society not to see them as the rebellious, non-virtuous woman. So Patriarchy is still to blame for every damn thing wrong in Africa today, lol. Bite me. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by cococandy(f): 8:56pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Stillfire:Don't mind coogar. He knows. |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Stillfire: 9:00pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Ngokafor: ...I guess it's because they know our culture will not give them respect as human beings in other areas, so the area small respect is given to them, they hang on to it like a witch on her broom whether at the detriment of others or not. |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by coogar: 9:05pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Stillfire: oh puhleaaaze.... you women should take responsibility for once. what has patriarchy gotta do with calling junior ones aunty/brother? is it patriarchy that forces widows to shave their heads, drink the bath water of their husbands corpses? cococandy: cococandy, if i hear.......... i know what? ain't you an umuada yourself? the chief priestess that deals with erring women in owerri north local government? |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by cococandy(f): 9:10pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
If you can't see the relationship, no need for this discussion. By the way no one is saying patriarchy is the fault of men. Women take part in establishing it and of course abusing it too. So by admitting that, I think we've at (least some of us) taken responsibility. coogar: |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by coogar: 9:13pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
cococandy: lol@ at least some of us. can i have a list of this "some of us" category? i even heard the so much talked about evil FGM was run by women back in the days. they go from house to house to inspect new born daughters and made sure they all got clipped. |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by cococandy(f): 9:19pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
coogar:I number one. I admit women play a huge part in installing the demeaning cultures that are derogatory to women. That's taking responsibility. Oya shift. |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Stillfire: 10:03pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
coogar: Who sanctioned those dead body bath drinking sessions? Definitely a sadistic Chief Priest with a dangling and reckless anatomy in his groin. All these are man's 'generous' gifts to women under the institution of PATRIARCHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And because women are afraid to be tagged rebels (like my proud rebellious honorable self )of the patriarchal system, they follow the rules to the T to please people like you. |
Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by coogar: 10:11pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Stillfire: chief priest? in the matters that concern widowhood? that's not how it works..... read this piece - this is why everyone of us here should be scared of cococandy as the #1 umuada of igbo region.
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Re: My Mother-in-law Hates Because I Refuse To Call My Sister-in-law "Aunty" by Stillfire: 10:28pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
coogar: Women were and are the foot soldiers of the patriarchal system that allowed all of these to occur. |
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