why are girls taking valentine more serious than the normal love?
i have come to realize that alot of or 2/3 of the girls all over the word takes valentine much more serious than any other time ment for sharing of good times or love. its now a crime for a guy if he happiens not to take his girl friend out on valentines day, i think this has to stop please lets look for away out cause its really really becoming unbeareble

place you opinion now!!!

thanks

Valentine addresses the fears and insecurities of an average Nigerian girl. I these days of ZERO TRUST in relationships, a girl will do all just to spend Val with her guy. That bequeaths on her OWNERSHIP STATUS over the other girls that might be. I remember in our undergraduate days, God save a guy if u spend val away from ur babe. Even if u are in critical state in a hospital with a NO VISITORS sign on the door, she must find her way there; at least to keep the nurses abay!

Most girls feel that Valentine’s day is the only day their guy would empty his bank account on their behalf. so she would do anything to make sure she and her guy don’t miss that day.

Everyone seems to support the idea of having friends but not everyone knows how to keep their friendships healthy and growing. This article describes three mistakes that people do which harms or destroys their relationships.

NOT COMMUNICATING IN A HEALTHY MANNER - Communication requires effort. Assuming what the other person is thinking or doing can be very deceptive and can lead to incorrect conclusions. In order to understand the perspective of the other person, you must be willing to ask good questions, show respect while the person explains and then discuss the situation. Sometimes, miscommunication requires that the individuals forgive themselves and each other before they can move on. One of the consequences of poor communication is stress for not only the individuals but also for the friendship. The best thing to do to avoid this, is to have honest and frequent conversations with the other person,

TAKING IT FOR GRANTED - Often we don't miss something until it disappears. There is no maintenance in life. Things are either growing or stagnating and this concept applies to all things including friendships. When you take a relationships for granted it is usually because you have forgotten the value of it or have forgotten to value and treasure it. It is not wise to assume that a person or relationship will be there at our convenience. Being thankful for your friendship needs to be a constant attitude - present not only in your own mind and heart but also in the conversations you have with and about your friend.
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Everyone seems to support the idea of having friends but not everyone knows how to keep their friendships healthy and growing. This article describes three mistakes that people do which harms or destroys their relationships.

NOT COMMUNICATING IN A HEALTHY MANNER - Communication requires effort. Assuming what the other person is thinking or doing can be very deceptive and can lead to incorrect conclusions. In order to understand the perspective of the other person, you must be willing to ask good questions, show respect while the person explains and then discuss the situation. Sometimes, miscommunication requires that the individuals forgive themselves and each other before they can move on. One of the consequences of poor communication is stress for not only the individuals but also for the friendship. The best thing to do to avoid this, is to have honest and frequent conversations with the other person,

TAKING IT FOR GRANTED - Often we don't miss something until it disappears. There is no maintenance in life. Things are either growing or stagnating and this concept applies to all things including friendships. When you take a relationships for granted it is usually because you have forgotten the value of it or have forgotten to value and treasure it. It is not wise to assume that a person or relationship will be there at our convenience. Being thankful for your friendship needs to be a constant attitude - present not only in your own mind and heart but also in the conversations you have with and about your friend.
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To Read the conclusion of this Log on to www.moneyspills.com/forum and go to the romance and dating board

thanks for your contribution am on my way to you are forum