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Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Tamakay(m): 11:15pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Its pretty voluminous but d points raised kept me glued to my phone till d end. Nice one there Op 1 Like |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Gerrard59(m): 11:16pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
All I see is a misogynistic person on rampage. It's very ridiculous of you to entirely blame the inability of some men to marry on women empowerment. The Nigerian economy is clearly dominated by men; be it construction, oil and gas, manufacturing, IT, shipping and even medical where one would have thought that women would take the lead. The MNCs you accused of dis-appropriately employing have such policies from their home countries, even at that men are still more employed than women in the United States. Take for instance Silicon Valley, the proportion of men to women in tech firms is high; and efforts are being made to ensure that females are also employed by ensuring females take joy in STEM courses, what you should be advising young Nigerian men is to study hard enough to be at least QUALIFIED for the vacancies in such firms, as these firms employ strictly on merit. It's totally illogical for you to ORDER firms who are competitively outwitting themselves in the consumer market/economy to employ unqualified people simply because they MUST employ men. It's by merit, people should learn to work hard. Tell me why should a company employ an unqualified person{ male or female} in a recruitment process that's strictly based on the principle of meritocracy. So because MEN should MUST be employed, say HITACHI shouldn't employ someone like this>>http://www.punchng.com/entertainment/campus-champion/i-once-read-for-12-hours-nonstop-oshunmakinde/.. I always advise my fellow lads alike to work hard,network, avoid unnecessary expenditure, plan your life, hope for the best and prepare for the worst and not blame your failure on another gender; which constitutes your mom, sisters, nieces, future daughters. The benefits of women ACTIVELY participating in the economy is ginormous, we need more women in the economy to drive our economy to becoming one of the biggest in the world. Japan is actively pushing for more women in its workforce, ditto for Korea and even INDIA . In Modi's recent trip to Silicon Valley he outlined the benefits of 50% of the population joining the economy and pledged reforms aimed at reaching that goal, here in Nigeria, wetin man dey read? A recent survey by Mckinsey showed the way the world's economy could grow at a faster and more organic way by 28 trillion dollars http://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2015-09-24/mckinsey-says-gender-equality-would-boost-gdp-by-28-trillion . And a grown man is against such. Ridiculous to say the least. 8 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by holocron: 11:19pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Most of this is balderdash. The said jobs you allege young women have taken from young men are all clerical and administrative of which women have a comparative advantage. In Engineering ànd construction industries, the preponderance is male. Any accidental female sticks out oddly. Its unfortunate that our young generation of males are becoming effeminate to the extent of contemplating subjecting themselves under a woman breadwinner. Young men should go for manly careers in engineering, construction, fabrication, mineral exploration, etc where women fear to thread and you will see your only competition will be tougher males. As for those ladies who allowed themselves to grow above marriageability, I dont advise any young man to subject himself under them. If you are manly, you will surely regret being spoonfed by a woman; except you are not. Those ladies are best served being single mothers. Society should be realistic enough and accept it. A wife is a helper, not the other way round. The only thing stopping young men getting married is unneccesary ambition and cowardice. As soon as you can feed yourself and can afford that one room apartment, you are set for marriage. Those 45+ managers and bosses also started from humble beginnings. I mean life in naija was as tough as hell in the late 1980s and 1990s, compared to the seeming paradise ( 21st century oil boom) of Now. 8 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by CandyBar: 11:19pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
A hungry man has time for Sèx and No time for Love. No be who chop belleful go call babe ask "what's up"?? Even tweeting and facebooking doesn't come cheap in Nigeria. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by afroxyz: 11:20pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
[quote author=naijacutee post=38480343] You're right. I only used the Bible as a point of reference on this because it is likely that people will quote from the Bible (be fruitful and multiply) as a reason to pressure themselves into marriage. From a biological perspective: in a well populated world, there is no biological reason to marry & reproduce the same way we have biological reasons to feed, for example. Coming from a female, you nailed it! 1 Like |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Nobody: 11:20pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
naijacutee:- adventure is fine when it is not stupidity. The sheep that broke out and far away from the Shepard's watch will have herself to blame when beasts come knocking .... I hope u know what I mean? 2 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by bodee(m): 11:22pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
naijacutee:hmmn, quite true, but the bible says it is better to marry than to burn(sexual feeling). Please how will you justify these assertions? Thanks. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by bqlekan(m): 11:23pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Omo, the post long, but I read am... Nice write-up man.. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Pidggin(f): 11:27pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
[b]@OP, wow! kudos on your biased opinion. However i observed you mentioned most multinational companies employing women, you didn't take the time to actually verify your opinion, you only used one scenerio and one state #Lagos, how reasonable are your conclusions since you used unverified stats. That said, i don't see more women working in oil and gas or other technical fields, i don't see as many females as males in IT departments, as airline pilots, in shipping, in military, in paramilitary, in politics, in farming and other notable professions. The issue is, you need to broaden your scope. I want to assume females are more in fields that suit our capacities e.g Marketing, Customer service, Teaching, why not focus on other areas if you are having difficulties getting employed in these fields. As a lady, i know i will not be given preference over a man if i choose a career as a Merchant Sailor, we still haven't reached that level of equality yet and i am not bothered by it, if i really want to be a Merchant sailor, i'll have to take my chances knowing what is on ground. Please redirect your frustrations somewhere else as i really don't think single ladies are responsible for your issues.[/b] 4 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by basille(m): 11:27pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Why can't you all just let the female folks be? 1 Like |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by richt75: 11:30pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
More girls are rude recently than before. They hardly give you attention if you're not driving a car humilitypays: 2 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by freecocoa(f): 11:32pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Just imagine! So women should lower their standards because you couldn't get a job? How about creating jobs for everyone? So those women couldn't have gotten the jobs on merit? Only men get jobs on merit, and people are shouting kudos? such misogyny. Smh. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by engrlarex(m): 11:32pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
honestly u made my day. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by gnykelly(m): 11:35pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
coming. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Adaeze003(f): 11:36pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
freecocoa: I was looking for the words, I just couldn't find them. Like what do I tell this "wailing wailer"? I guess he goes home with the CEOs to watch them sleep with the female staff. Well, I won't be surprised if he washes the sheets too... I think it'll be better if we just stayed home and forget school or work, I think that will make them(Nigerian men) happy! But wait!!! They also want independent women, not liabilities Confused lot... As for those ladies who allowed themselves to grow above marriageability, I dont advise any young man to subject himself under them. If you are manly, you will surely regret being spoonfed by a woman; except you are not. Those ladies are best served being single mothers. Society should be realistic enough and accept it. Uhhm.... how shallow can a human get? 2 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by frenchboy(m): 11:41pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
This write up shud be on facebook too |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Funnyguy83: 11:41pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
gud Writup. Wish They Can See Dis |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by holocron: 11:45pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Adaeze003: If its shallow then... what would you advice the ladies do - before menopause arrives? Feel free to think outside the box. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by 234GT(m): 11:47pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Genotype follow dey there o. I have lost two good girls because of AS genotype. AA ladies can PM me abeg! 1 Like |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by freecocoa(f): 11:49pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Adaeze003:Just see the nonsense he is spewing, I find out that men like him are very insecure, lazy and broke, just see how a person thinks in this century. They want a woman that's hardworking but sees them as a god and literally worships them, that way they can cage the woman to do whatever they want, very selfish, inconsiderate and ugly people, the thing dey annoy me sef. What rubbish, some women struggle hard to get a job and this mofo is here saying they had to sleep their way in. I don't even know what to say about the women, singing his praises. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Adaeze003(f): 11:50pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
holocron: Trust me, I had more than that to say to you but tried to be as respectful as possible given the situation. So, on that note, I think you should tell all the girls you are related to to stay idle and not go after their goals just so that they can get married(again, how shallow can a human get?!). Also extend my sympathy to those that will listen. You lot are just too sad. 2 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by porka: 11:54pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
[size=13pt]Why can't those CEOs marry those ladies as second or third wives? Many of them are responsible for these ladies' pregnancies which they are made to abort to protect the guys' marriage. [/size] 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Adaeze003(f): 11:58pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
freecocoa: Ugly humans indeed!!! Like WTH? These guys have not talked about what's disturbing them! They're still searching for control like their brains have not evolved to the 21st century. Shallow, tiny minded people. Mtcheew... lemme leave here abeg. 1 Like |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Nobody: 12:00am On Sep 29, 2015 |
naijacutee:Babe are you from usa As far as you a nigerian starting a family is necessary. If you not married as a man OR woman at a certain age it goes along way to show you irresponsible |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by UnaDonStart(m): 12:00am On Sep 29, 2015 |
tensazangetsu: Guy, I don dash you one like,I come still quote you.wait for this,I come happy with this your comment sotay I come go follow you.Thank you for this post, anytime wey I see or hear all these marriage noise,na this kind of your post I dey always reason. 3 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by porka: 12:05am On Sep 29, 2015 |
Pidggin: [size=13pt]He actually said jobs outside engineering. Plus, you'll notice he narrowed it down to graduate employments within the 'marriage ages' of 25 - 35 years. [/size] 2 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Nobody: 12:07am On Sep 29, 2015 |
humilitypays:It seems your eyes are just opening. Thank God they are now opened and I hope more eyes will open. I was already aware of what you posted some years back. I brought up this issue on Nairaland years ago but I was attacked for hating women. I recommend that women in Nigeria SHOULD NOT be given juicy employments until further notice when the mindset of Nigerians have changed to understand that men and women should both have an obligation to pull each other out of poverty. Every juicy employments for now should be reserved for males so they can get the money to TAKE CARE of women since ladies want a man who can take care of them. When ladies are given lofty positions they have too much money in their hands and wouldn't bother to help a struggling guy. In this situation wealth is not distributed to those who have little. But when a man occupies such high paying positions, he can easily marry a poor girl and taking her out of poverty which helps to distribute wealth and minimize poverty in the society. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by holocron: 12:11am On Sep 29, 2015 |
Adaeze003: Far from it. I am pro feminism. Just responding to rapidly changing social realities. What goal is more grand (for a human being) than the replication of yourself. Every goal ought to be subordinated to that religious and biological injunction. The ultimate goal of all life forms on the planet is to reproduce themselves before their inevitable personal demise. Think about it. The most brilliant, strongest, creative individual on earth has ultimately failed (evolutionarily speaking) if they fail to deposit offspring that inherits and manifests their wonderful talents. 1 Like |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by drmikeadams(m): 12:13am On Sep 29, 2015 |
initialize:I don do invitation card,I never see woman wey I go put her name there..I don taya, 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Edusouls(m): 12:17am On Sep 29, 2015 |
see yes you made some good great points which is true..but the problem is much more complex than this, the african woman is not a loving woman they are too greedy,too materialistic,love personalities in a person more, too bossy,nags a lot, dishonest, and very myopic they want action quick but never think of the future,these traits complicates their problems the more..so u dont blame the top men,they know what these girls want,money,and they cant just resist it, so they take their advantage so easily...10years from now women would be begging to be 5th wives,because being 2nd wife would even be so scarce to get., so brace urself's the worst is yet to come... 9 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by fitinwell: 12:18am On Sep 29, 2015 |
It cud'nt have been well said than dis... Big thumb up..! 1 Like |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Titidi(f): 12:18am On Sep 29, 2015 |
Interesting facts Op..... but one lazy blogger is gonna copy this and will be credited for what he stole |
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