She is 30 been married for 6yrs with 3kids. She noticed hubby stopped kissing her after she had her last child......

Whenever she tries to kiss him,he just pecks her on the lips and that's all...and if she complains......he says its for the younger generation that she should forget about it........

When she tries to talk about it, he says she's nagging and being childish and looking for trouble where there's none.

Now its been over a year and she been fantasizing about it, recently she ran into her ex and one thing led to another and she had a very passionate kiss but nothing else happened.

She has been feeling guilty....her ex has been calling her but she has refused to pick his call because she never intended to cheat on her husband.......

Hubby has warned her not to bring up the issue of kissing .....now she is fantasizing about kissing....

Is there another way to communicate it to hubby?

so na because of kiss u wan use take spoil ur marriage

Is her breath okay?
Age should not be a reason to stop kissing.Some elderly people still do.
There must be something the hubby is not telling her.If he won't budge,she should get a doll to kiss.

germainediva:
She is 30 been married for 6yrs with 3kids.........she noticed hubby stopped kissing her after she had her last child......whenever she tries to kiss him,he just peeks her on the lips and that's all......and if she complains......he says its for d younger generation that she should 4get about it........she tries to talk about it.....he says she s nagging and being childish and looking for trouble where there's none........now its been over a year and she been fantasizing about it.......recently she ran into her ex and one thing led to another and she had a very passionate kiss but nothing else happened....she been feeling guilty....her ex has been calling her but she has refused to pick his call cos she never intended to cheat on her husband.......hubby has warned her not t bring up d issue of kissing .....now she is fantasizing about kissing....is there another way to communicate it to hubby.........

Nawa o. Because of kiss u risk your marriage. What if it was SeX You sure must have been longing to be with your ex, it can't be because of kiss alone. I refuse to believe this is real. You mean after 3 kids you jeopardise your home for a kiss

Kudos to you!!!

Maybe the man has been infected with mouth disease from outside and he doesn't want to infect the wife

Beesluv:
Maybe the man has been infected with mouth disease from outside and be doesn't want to infect the wife

I guess so.


For one whole year no kiss , Haba nau and she's just 30 years .


Future hubby please don't ever think of trying this o

Wow,
Your husband didn't do well,...

But you self!!..haba you are a married woman oh!...Jeez.

Why keep tabs with your ex in the first place? Especially an ex who will not hesitate to take advantage of your problems.

Tell her to brush her teeth thoroughly. Again the man may have been suspecting that his wife mouth is public toilet and she proved him right by kissing another man. What an evil woman!

elantraceey:



I guess so.


For one whole year no kiss , Haba nau and she's just 30 years .


Future hubby please don't ever think of trying this o

I won't, haba now! na u go tire sef

CHM11:
Wow,
Your husband didn't do well,...

But you self!!..haba you are a married woman oh!...Jeez.

Why keep tabs with your ex in the first place? Especially an ex who will not hesitate to take advantage of your problems.

You couldn't have said it better. And some people on nairaland will tell you how there is nothing bad in keeping in touch with an ex and just being friends.

As far as am concerned, an ex is a TABOO!!! Either good or bad or worse.

taryour:


You couldn't have said it better. And some people on nairaland will tell you how there is nothing bad in keeping in touch with an ex and just being friends.

As far as am concerned, an ex is a TABOO!!! Either good or bad or worse.

Its trouble keeping tabs with ex especially when you are engaged or married.

Me I will dump you ass if I find you still communicate with your ex and you are not willing to grow up oh.

Some will say it doesn't mean, its maturity and all....spare me that sh1t!!....most exes will bleep each other if the opportunity presents itself.

Cutehector:
so na because of kiss u wan use take spoil ur marriage

aren't you the same people that rant that if she doesn't give it to him he'll get it outside anyway so if you don't want her to CONTINUALLY get it outside why does he not just give her what she wants and respect her feelings


abi he don catch ebola for mouth

thorpido:
Is her breath okay?
Age should not be a reason to stop kissing.Some elderly people still do.
There must be something the hubby is not telling her. If he won't budge,she should get a doll to kiss.

BINGO!!

@bold though

Let d lady check her breathe. Nothin I hate like halitosis! Should watch wat she eat and avoid excessive proteinuos or acidic or high scent foods and beverages. If breathe is still bad, should drink water well enough befor and afta each meal esp ind moning. Most badbreathe is from d galls not d mouth esp if brushed well. Excessive Smoking or drinking do too. Heat or bacteria in d stomach also cause halitosis. Overhaul yur system by sequence of treatments, starting wid stamach cleansing(be careful and seek proper medical advice here). Immediately after, drink plenty of water and very little of food for like 3days, follow up with antibiotic and malaria drugs for a week(eat well during this time wid lots of water. Thereafter maintain a good food/water intake habit. If he is still bent on no-kiss, maybe he is unhappy wid d lady or wid life or both! At dis point, let d lady search deeply. Gudluk

Your ex won't notice coz of packaging prior to your meeting.

BRUSH DAY & NIGHT, FLOSS, USE MOUTHWASH AND SEE A DENTIST FOR ROUTINE CLEANING EVERY 6 months.

Oh drink clear fluids (5litres) and swoosh your mouth all times.

Are you sure there are no breath issues?

Anyways, try andd make yourself more attractive so hubby can start falling in love all over again.

Meanwhile, kissing your ex makes you guilty of cheating so you already cheated.

germainediva:
She is 30 been married for 6yrs with 3kids.........she noticed hubby stopped kissing her after she had her last child......whenever she tries to kiss him,he just peeks her on the lips and that's all......and if she complains......he says its for d younger generation that she should 4get about it........she tries to talk about it.....he says she s nagging and being childish and looking for trouble where there's none........now its been over a year and she been fantasizing about it.......recently she ran into her ex and one thing led to another and she had a very passionate kiss but nothing else happened....she been feeling guilty....her ex has been calling her but she has refused to pick his call cos she never intended to cheat on her husband.......hubby has warned her not t bring up d issue of kissing .....now she is fantasizing about kissing....is there another way to communicate it to hubby.........

Try this method buy a pack of Tom-Tom and give some to him and also put one in your mouth after some proceed to engage in the kissing game and see if he will agree or not.
Let me know if this method worked or not because i have another one for you

gostartit:


Try this method buy a pack of Tom-Tom and give some to him and also put one in your mouth after some proceed to engage in the kissing game and see if he will agree or not.
Let me know if this method worked or not because i have another one for you

Disgusting

ireneidiva:

Disgusting

Why?
I think it's a very good idea.
Haven't you exchanged sweets with a kiss before?

5minsmadness:
Why? I think it's a very good idea. Haven't you exchanged sweets with a kiss before?

Hell no!

She or you? Say the truth o

taryour:


Nawa o. Because of kiss u risk your marriage. What if it was SeX You sure must have been longing to be with your ex, it can't be because of kiss alone. I refuse to believe this is real. You mean after 3 kids you jeopardise your home for a kiss

Kudos to you!!!

Lmao!!
She cheated because of kiss... This generation is messed up. For real

Ewuro4:


BINGO!!

@bold though

Abi now,if the kissing hungry am like that.

The lady in question neither has bad breath nor mouth odor...............hubby said he never liked kissing but was just doing it accassionally then to please her but that he can't do it anymore

germainediva:
The lady in question neither has bad breath nor mouth odor...............hubby said he never liked kissing but was just doing it accassionally then to please her but that he can't do it anymore

Isn't she aware of this before going ahead to the altar with him That's her cross to bear since she choose the part. That's not a good reason to cheat. Be CONTENDED with what you have.

taryour:


Nawa o. Because of kiss u risk your marriage. What if it was SeX You sure must have been longing to be with your ex, it can't be because of kiss alone. I refuse to believe this is real. You mean after 3 kids you jeopardise your home for a kiss

Kudos to you!!!

Seriously? I'd like to think kissing is very essential, I can only imagine how the woman must be feeling.

It's not right to cheat ofcourse but I'd be worried as it might mean that hubby is no longer attracted or even in love with the woman.

So she kiss her ex passionately?? Wow, the truth is the man might have lost interest in her, she should leave the marriage if she really want kiss. Nonsense

ireneidiva:

Hell no!

Hehehe
Don't worry, when you begin kissing you'll love it.

ireneidiva:

Hell no!

Then you probably are not a passionate/sensual lover.

thorpido:
Is her breath okay?
Age should not be a reason to stop kissing.Some elderly people still do.
There must be something the hubby is not telling her.If he won't budge,she should get a doll to kiss.

The woman should go mad?

germainediva:
The lady in question neither has bad breath nor mouth odor...............hubby said he never liked kissing but was just doing it accassionally then to please her but that he can't do it anymore

It will be interesting to know how these two got married and the circumstances in which it happened.

There are kissers and there are non kissers.

A kiss is a very sensitive part of a relationship. It shows involvement, commitment, it's a signature of personality between two people. That's why prostitutes usually do not want to be kissed while doing the deed as it makes the buisness personal (this I learnt from heresay oh and the movie "pretty woman" ).

If her husband is no longer kissing her as much as he used to then it's either the lady has bad breath or bad teeth, or he no longer loves her. Or it could be that the passion in the marriage has died down.

It is a serious matter. When last did they have sex?

germainediva:
She is 30 been married for 6yrs with 3kids.........she noticed hubby stopped kissing her after she had her last child......whenever she tries to kiss him,he just peeks her on the lips and that's all......and if she complains......he says its for d younger generation that she should 4get about it........she tries to talk about it.....he says she s nagging and being childish and looking for trouble where there's none........now its been over a year and she been fantasizing about it.......recently she ran into her ex and one thing led to another and she had a very passionate kiss but nothing else happened....she been feeling guilty....her ex has been calling her but she has refused to pick his call cos she never intended to cheat on her husband.......hubby has warned her not t bring up d issue of kissing .....now she is fantasizing about kissing....is there another way to communicate it to hubby.........

I have always seen guys on NL saying that a woman should be blamed if her husband falls into the arms of another woman because she is not focusing on him enough and i will use this opportunity to give the same advice, the husband should be blamed for letting his wife fall into the hands of another man. Since he doesnt want to be romantic with his wife, let her find happiness elsewhere.