tpiadotcom:
all nlers seem to go to restaurants- i wonder who goes to buka.

just thinking out loud, off topic. . . . . .

I take my girl to buka sometimes

naijaboiy:

I take my girl to buka sometimes

xynerise:

So far you are footing the bill, she doesn't mind. Me and babe don go bread and beans joint na

HaHaHa....

The main thing be say she chop belleful. Just make sure say the place dey neat and comfortable.

Na buka dey reign for school here na. Once in a while we go reach eatery.

naijaboiy:

HaHaHa....

The main thing be say she chop belleful. Just make sure say the place dey neat and comfortable.

Na buka dey reign for school here na. Once in a while we go reach eatery.

xynerise:

Na beginning of semester person dey go eatery na. During exams period famine dey always dey school

Exactly!

MissSlimbody:
Must a date be @ an eatery or a restaurant?

A guy came looking for me sometime in May. Choi! I carry am waka ehn!

There's an eatery close to my house, but I insisted on taking a stroll.

Na wen the guy start to complain, we branch one local restaurant take soft drink and water

Kolade354:
YOU WICKED OOOOO

bestestgirl:
The other OP was not saying that the guy should never ever invite the girl to his house, she was annoyed with the fact that most guys do it right from the chatting stage, sometimes, the house offer is even proposed as the first date.
The submission of the other OP is that guys should woo the girls slowly and thoroughly seduce her, they should be in a defined relationship and then naturally, they would begin to hang out at each others' houses.
The first dates of the relationship does not necessarily have to be in restaurants (since your major complaint is expense), what happened to long drives and picnics in parks, what happened to walks on the Beach, movies, concerts, art shows, museums, carnivals, circus acts, etc.
The truth is that the guys these days have absolutely no creativity and they are in a hurry to have sex (so as not to be called a maga or friendzoned). And I really don't blame them because the girls have seriously lowered their standards.
So OP, every girl who has finally agreed to be in a relationship with a guy will DEFINITELY want to go to his house, not when the guy is still a 'toaster'

Whew! *drops pen*

bestestgirl:
The other OP was not saying that the guy should never ever invite the girl to his house, she was annoyed with the fact that most guys do it right from the chatting stage, sometimes, the house offer is even proposed as the first date.
The submission of the other OP is that guys should woo the girls slowly and thoroughly seduce her, they should be in a defined relationship and then naturally, they would begin to hang out at each others' houses.
The first dates of the relationship does not necessarily have to be in restaurants (since your major complaint is expense), what happened to long drives and picnics in parks, what happened to walks on the Beach, movies, concerts, art shows, museums, carnivals etc.
The truth is that the guys these days have absolutely no creativity and they are in a hurry to have sex (so as not to be called a maga or friendzoned). And I really don't blame them because the girls have seriously lowered their standards.
So OP, every girl who has finally agreed to be in a relationship with a guy will DEFINITELY want to go to his house, not when the guy is still a 'toaster'

Whew! *drops pen*

francababy:
I am creating this thread in response to another thread on fp on guys telling girls to come to their house.

1. It is better for a guy to have a date at his house rather than an expensive restaurant given the unthoughtful was of today's nigerian girls. Imagine my cousin invited his new girlfriend for a date at an expensive restaurant. She came with her friend. They ate like that was their last meal. After that, they remember their flat mate who they promised to get something for when coming. My cousin both them the takeaway. After that, while they were leaving, they remembered that their cab man has being waiting outside while they were eating. So they order for snacks again for their cab man. Now, if it was my cousin's house, would all that nonsense take place?

2. When a girl meets a guy that looks well to do, deep in her heart, she wants to explore and assess everything. She wants to check out his crib. She wants to know if it's comfy enough for her weekend getaways. Ladies, we should stop lying to ourselves.


3. If a guy does not take a girl to his house and always takes her to a hotel, she would be the one shouting and complaining. Is he married, that's why he can't take me home? Does he take me for a who.re? Does he take me seriously?

Luckygurl:

@ emboldened
Huh!! But all what you listed there still can't be accomplished without some doughs..

bestestgirl:
yes but the girl will be more unlikely to show up with a friend. And even if she does, it's a cost you can control, movie ticket is 1500, even if she comes with two friends, that's just 4500.