Sapphire06:
Hello nairalanders, I've been around for a while but this is my first topic here. My bf of over 4years broke up with me April though we just graduated recently from the same university. His reasons being we can't end up together in the long run, there will be distance between us during service year, he is a man and has to hustle and he's not ready to plan his future with anybody so our relationship is just limited to school. He started calling this month and day before yesterday he said he had an interactive session with his mom. He wants us to sit down and review things, he misses me and wants me back. I can't deny the fact that I still love and want him but I'm scared and worried that he will find an excuse and leave again. Though we had series of breakups during the relationship and he kept coming back. Females in the house that might have been in my shoe before, would it be wise of me to accept him back ?. Males in the house, is he being serious and sincere ?. Please Advice generally, I don't wanna make a mistake.

publicenemy:


If you are still single accept him back, and if another guy woo you say yes and observe them both before choosing one. If you not single accept him back and start watching both guys before deciding who to dump for the other.

Beamborla:
OP, run fr your life now that you can.

Anger issues and frequent break ups do not sound cool except you don't mind getting separated and coming together in marriage.

Who cares if he had an interactive session with all his family members? That does not guarantee anything, my dear. He can still walk away if he wants to

But then, the choice is yours to make in the end. Do whatever makes you happy. It just that the risk is just too much and you would be at the receiving end. If he turns out a monster in marriage if you eventually get married, people would only advice you to 'endure, communicate with him, there are challenges in marriage, try to make it work'. While you suffer in silence

it's better to be on the safer side. A responsible, reasonable and decent lady would always have guys coming for her.

Sapphire06:
Hello nairalanders, I've been around for a while but this is my first topic here. My bf of over 4years broke up with me April though we just graduated recently from the same university. His reasons being we can't end up together in the long run, there will be distance between us during service year, he is a man and has to hustle and he's not ready to plan his future with anybody so our relationship is just limited to school. He started calling this month and day before yesterday he said he had an interactive session with his mom. He wants us to sit down and review things, he misses me and wants me back. I can't deny the fact that I still love and want him but I'm scared and worried that he will find an excuse and leave again. Though we had series of breakups during the relationship and he kept coming back. Females in the house that might have been in my shoe before, would it be wise of me to accept him back ?. Males in the house, is he being serious and sincere ?. Please Advice generally, I don't wanna make a mistake.

Truckpusher:
You unlocked that chain to soon, didn't you?

cc
Enegod, you expertise is needed right here.

Gurgle:


wow. at least youre honest.

so did you leave after you got what you wanted

softysparky:

Gbam! He entered town and realised nothing is free.

Truckpusher:
Exactly, When the desirable becomes unavailable the old and reliable becomes the desirable.

softysparky:

Where have you been?

Enegod:


The dude is coming back to enjoy more goodies.

A man gotta do what a man gotta do

Slimzjoe:


What I wanted??

Lol

What I meant is I always go back to My 1st Ex whenever I have breaks in Current Relationships and she always accept me cos She Loves me

Gurgle:


that's terrible don't you feel bad

Truckpusher:
That relationship won't end well because someone is only coming back for something and not for any form of genuine comeback but it is totally her choice after all the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

She might end up in the arms of another guy who's just in it purely for the fuccking and that's bad for her considering the fact that she sounds like a family oriented girl with a good persona.

But at the end of the day - it is her call,her puccy and her life and not mine.

Slimzjoe:


Well, we Kind of Have Differences that we Can't settle..

She Doesn't want to change some Particular things about her for me and I also don't want to Change for her.....so no need for a Serious Relationship again

Enegod:
I'm sure she also needs the pounding... that'shat's why she is confused

Gurgle:


so now what

anyway I shouldn't drink Panadol for her headache. im sure she knows what she's doing but nawa

cant you change like one of them? whats the point?

Slimzjoe:


The Point Is that we Love Each other but we can't be together because of our Differences.
And that's Honesty between us

Truckpusher:
That could be a factor too.

I have heard girls saying something like : Mtcheeew ! ''if to say him no sabi fucck sef, I for dun leave am tay tay''.

These girls are simply unpredictable.

Sapphire06:
He has anger issues, so any small fight or misunderstanding, the next thing is to break up.

Slimzjoe:


The Point Is that we Love Each other but we can't be together because of our Differences.
And that's Honesty between us

Sapphire06:
But you can work towards the differences na

Vikky014:
dt guy wont marry u stp waisting your tym. read buygala'd advice wella

Sapphire06:
Thank you all for all the Advices, encouragements and the silly talks..smiles

I would surely do the right thing..*kisses and hugs for you all*

agarawu23:
yes! he might be serious this time around. it isn't easy to forget someone you love and care for. the memories will still be there and I am sure he has searched around but couldn't find someone like you. we guys are like that

if I tell you how many time I do break up with my gf eh!, you go open mouth but the love is still there .

Beamborla:
OP, run fr your life now that you can.

Anger issues and frequent break ups do not sound cool except you don't mind getting separated and coming together in marriage.

Who cares if he had an interactive session with all his family members? That does not guarantee anything, my dear. He can still walk away if he wants to

But then, the choice is yours to make in the end. Do whatever makes you happy. It just that the risk is just too much and you would be at the receiving end. If he turns out a monster in marriage if you eventually get married, people would only advice you to 'endure, communicate with him, there are challenges in marriage, try to make it work'. While you suffer in silence

it's better to be on the safer side. A responsible, reasonable and decent lady would always have guys coming for her.