Beamborla:

*sips cold water*

I'm too responsible to do that. I don't even beat my younger ones out of provocation not to talk of my man. My best weapon is silence.

if I ever do that, it must be me trying to wake him up from his unconsciousness e.g...staring lustfully at a lady in public

Truth is, I don't entertain such thought.

Good thing you don't do that, but assume you were with a female friend of yours and she hit her man and he walked away or she abused and embarrassed him in your presence and he did nothing. How would you see that man? Would you have any regard for him? Please sincere and unbiased answer.

runzlord:

what is your former moniker?

I am not going to tell you

Mannylex:



Good thing you don't do that, but assume you were with a female friend of yours and she hit her man and he walked away or she abused and embarrassed him in your presence and he did nothing. How would you see that man? Would you have any regard for him? Please sincere and unbiased answer.

I don enter one chance today!

Yes, I would respect him more. it's takes a lot of discipline and self control to do that.

my sincere answer.

Beamborla:

Nah! what is it about?

you need to watch it... and tell me if the man is not responsible

a young lady was married to a man, but she was still in school, she had a bad friend whom is not yet married who advises her, the husband has warned her several times to keep away from the friend. so her friend advised her to use birth control pills so she won't get pregnant and had to leave school, when the husband found out ehn....

screenshot 1: discovery
screenshot 2: she trying to explain
screenshot 3: the slap!
screenshot 4: he f*cked her well after that....

very justifiable!!!

Insidous:

She should have run him down with the car. I would have done that if I were in her place, then cry later

mtseeeew

Insidous:


I am not going to tell you

its cool. just be a good girl now you started a new life on nairaland

runzlord:

mtseeeew

Na trye. I will cry in a corner of my bedroom afterwards. And at the same time consoling myself with the knowledge that I have done humanity a favour

Beamborla:

I don enter one chance today!

Yes, I would respect him more. it's takes a lot of discipline and self control to do that.

my sincere answer.

what you don't understand is other women are not you, so dont base your arguments on what you will do... you actually sound nice and the type that would have a peacefull marriage

runzlord:

you need to watch it... and tell me if the man is not responsible

a young lady was married to a man, but she was still in school, she had a bad friend whom is not yet married who advises her, the husband has warned her several times to keep away from the friend. so her friend advised her to use birth control pills so she won't get pregnant and had to leave school, when the husband found out ehn....

screenshot 1: discovery
screenshot 2: she trying to explain
screenshot 3: the slap!
screenshot 4: he f*cked her well after that....

very justifiable!!!

I see!
he abused her physically and emotionally and you call that just?

He slapped her then raped her.

Here is my view, we got married and I decided to start using a birth control pill cos of my studies. isn't that reason enough?

having kids is not s decision for the diick alone to make... damnit! That is a selfish and insensitive husband.

Bite me...I said it

Insidous:


Na trye. I will cry in a corner of my bedroom afterwards. And at the same time consoling myself with the knowledge that I have done humanity a favour

so you think the man did something wrong?

Beamborla:

I see!
he abused her physically and emotionally and you call that just?

He slapped her then raped her.

Here is my view, we got married and I decided to start using a birth control pill cos of my studies. isn't that reason enough?

having kids is not s decision for the diick alone to make... damnit! That is a selfish and insensitive husband.

Bite me...I said it

so its for the pussssy alone? she did not inform or agree with the husband. then how can someone rape his own wife? and some women actually enjoy sex right after beaten.

runzlord:


so its for the pussssy alone? she did not inform or agree with the husband. then how can someone rape his own wife? and some women actually enjoy sex right after beaten.

Against her will is against the law
battery is against the law... the fact that she is your wife or gf does not mean you can pounce on her whenever you want to.

it's not, I agree. That is why it's wrong of him to slap her. What she did was wrong, no doubt. He didn't handle it with wisdom.


only sick ladies enjoy that.

Beamborla:

Against her will is against the law
battery is against the law... the fact that she is your wife or gf does not mean you can pounce on her whenever you want to.

it's not, I agree. That is why it's wrong of him to slap her. What she did was wrong, no doubt. He didn't handle it with wisdom.


only sick ladies enjoy that.

1. she did not complain. how did you know its against her will?

2. which kind wisdom again? the husband has been using wisdom since, by simply talking and warning here to keep away from her friend.

3. yes there are sick ladies, and they need beating

runzlord:

1. she did not complain. how did you know its against her will?

2. which kind wisdom again? the husband has been using wisdom since, by simply talking and warning here to keep away from her friend.

3. yes there are sick ladies, and they need beating

The antecedent of the sex and the picture says it all. As him come do the thing by force, what if she chooses to abort the preggie.

Gosh! I'm not married yet. I yaff tired. gotta crash

night night

runzlord:


so its for the pussssy alone? she did not inform or agree with the husband. then how can someone rape his own wife? and some women actually enjoy sex right after beaten.

Haba! Husbands and wives rape their mates everyfay. This is not a new occurrence and some are silent because of shame and embarrassment.

please define why you think spouses can't rape spouses?

runzlord:
please read well before you reply

women always call men that beat their wifes coward, well a coward must be he that beats someone for absolutely no reason, not just his wife, even a man that beats his child for little or no reason that does not justify beating the child in that manner. most times a man that drinks, which is very wrong for a family man.

yes, but women sometimes most times fail to realize that the man is the head, especially women of nowadays, they keep attending women meetings and empowerment programs that keeps deceiving them that they are equal to men which is not, for christ sake if not for any reason, for the fact that men has 7 true ribs and women have just 1. and 7 is not equal to 1. however this has made women very disrespectful, some are just disrespectful naturally without having any ego or attending meetings or friends that keep fueling the ego. let me ask a question, what will you do to a child that claim the same rights with you has the elder? with so much stubbornness? this is the case of most women of today that you hear were beaten by their husband or boyfriend. for example, you husband said you should not go to a particular party, then you feel he is your husband and not your dictator, sorry for you, because if it was so i could also tell my parents they are just my parents and not my dictator, and when you come back from the party to meet your husband at home hungry, no food, what do you expect? "sweetheart welcome, how was your day, go and rest you hear"?? then after the man discipline the wife, neighbors wey no know wetin happen go con dey talk, " coward, men that beat their wife, watin she do u now, na so o, every night" and that's the way media would carry it, " man beats wife till bleeding every night - Nairaland" thereby portraying men as evil

what im saying is most of the stories you hear are sometimes triggered by the wife disrespect and stubbornness, a man can't just beat his wife for literally nothing, the only situation where i might fault man is when its taking too far. and actually if a man beats his wife out of discipline, its because he loves her, and sometimes the women realize this, that's the same reason you would hear a women that is always beaten by her husband still stay with him and says she loves him, the same reason why some women admits they are happy when their man beats them. because if as a man i don't love my wife, and i'm seeing someone outside what's the point of beating her when she misbehave? i really dont care!!!

so women don't just learn to love your husband, learn to respect them, take them as your guardian, even the bible said you should be submissive to your husband. what they say is final, you can only make a suggestion and hope it is taking. a man once said that even if he makes 20k and his wife makes 1m, his wife is the one supporting

and men, if you most discipline your spouse, do it moderately, and also don't do stuffs that would make you loose your respect as a man
tenk.

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I think say u dey sleep when u dey type in this ur long essay. Just listen to yourself d bible u were using as an example does not say we should beat women when they do sth wrong but to admonish them in love

Beamborla:

The antecedent of the sex and the picture says it all. As him come do the thing by force, what if she chooses to abort the preggie.

Gosh! I'm not married yet. I yaff tired. gotta crash

night night

not married too.

MrsChima:


Haba! Husbands and wives rape their mates everyfay. This is not a new occurrence and some are silent because of shame and embarrassment.

please define why you think spouses can't rape spouses?

if there was an agreement, its not a rape, a married couple agreement has been made on the day of the weeding

runzlord:

not married too.

And you are already nursing the idea of 'BEATING/DISCIPLINING' her
Good noon

runzlord:

if there was an agreement, its not a rape, a married couple agreement has been made on the day of the weeding

I have never heard of a sex agreement on ANY wedding days and I have been to hundreds!

If a man or woman say no...that's not consent.

runzlord:



not married too.

Then you have no clue about marriage and it's complications.

I laugh in Greek .

MrsChima:


Then you have no clue about marriage and it's complications.

so wrong..... u have never been wright

MrsChima:


I have never heard of a sex agreement on ANY wedding days and I have been to hundreds!

If a man or woman say no...that's not consent.

sex is part of marriage, they dont have to say i agree to f*ck you all the days of our lives till death do us part

runzlord:


so wrong..... u have never been wright

I double dare any unmarried person who has never been married tell me they know what it is like (personally) to be married and I will agree with you!

Beamborla:

And you are already nursing the idea of 'BEATING/DISCIPLINING' her

Good noon

and you are already defending her?

how was your nite?

runzlord:

sex is part of marriage, they dont have to say i agree to f*ck you all the days of our lives till death do us part

Sex is part of relationship period. Some people choose not to partake in it and some choose to partake in it. If a person doesn't want to have sex and it is forced.. it is rape.

MrsChima:


I double dare any unmarried person who has never been married tell me they know what it is like (personally) to be married and I will agree with you!

so you are saying that we must experience something first before we learn? when you can actually learn from others experience?

even my parents are not in exactly good terms, and they always(esp my mom) involve us

so yes, i know what it means

MrsChima:



Sex is part of relationship period. Some people choose not to partake in it and some choose to partake in it. If a person doesn't want to have sex and it is forced.. it is rape.

so u're that type of wife that would leave your husband horrny? thank God for olosho center

runzlord:


so you are saying that we must experience something first before we learn? when you can actually learn from others experience?

even my parents are not in exactly good terms, and they always(esp my mom) involve us

You can't learn from other people's experience. You can learn to apply the advices and suggestions of experienced person but you do not PERSONALLY learn something unless you actually experience it.

That's like a doctor saying he learned how to cut body parts without cutting it!

runzlord:


so u're that type of wife that would leave your husband horrny? thank God for olosho center

If you have gathered that bullshit based on that comment then you are dumber than I thought.

You must be from Mars....if so i cannot understand why you would equate your wife to your child...wait first is she a kid? okay so she comes late and no food for you...it is beating that would solve the issues abi or how did you marry her...am sure you met in a club...please go and think well...Beating your wife/husband is wrong and should be condemned...no Justification for that nonsense.