I am directing this to the kokolets (chicks) in d house. I wnt you to please tell me wat can do to show that am caring, I really to tell I luv her. Waitin 4 ur replies

Do you call her often, hug her when she's around you tell her you care about her or buy her little gifts. If not then you might want to try doing that. 
And please don't call girls kokolets, i don't know what it means but i'm sure it's not a very polite word.

Damsal:


And please don't call girls kokolets, i don't know what it means but i'm sure it's not a very polite word.

, and perhaps that's one of the things that makes your girlfriend think you're uncaring

@iice


Have to hit the sack now, you have a good night sweetheart. Thanks for being such a wonderful friend. you REALLY DO TOUCH ME

Guys am really greatful for all your post I heard all you said.Thanks

I think the problem is that am afraid of the girls outside now really when you buy them gift and do other things to show that you care it goes into there head and they start 2 behave funny. Also waitin 4 the girls in the house.

Pay more ATTENTION to her sincerely and make her feel your world revolves around

Thanks ememju

Try to be natural , you don't need to pretend.I think u have to give her more attension and make her realise that she can be proud of you , and you share something in common , which is love .No stress boy! just be nice to her and handle her softly and tender.I think she will be confuse that she is not in love with wrong man.

think hard and search deep down urself.

maybe u really are not!

Call her as often as you can, I'm sure she'll also appreciate it if you sms'd. Buy her gifts, they don't have to be expensive. Tell her how you feel about her and don't asume that she knows so you don't have to say it.

shilling:

Call her as often as you can, I'm sure she'll appreciate an sms. Buy her gifts, they don't have to be expensive. Tell her how you feel about her and don't asume that she knows so you don't have to say it.

Dude,

If you try this, you'll just see your honey slip away. Don't call her often.

Like myself, most girls say I am very naughty, crazy, wild,etc but I rarely call them

after making the first few moves. They be the ones doing the calling cos the attraction is

there. You just have to have your games tight.

Don't be a wussie man. Got to show her that she messes up, there 1o1 other

shawties lining up to be yours. Then you've got her in your palms.


The more you care about what your girl thinks, the less of control you have over

her. mess this lovey-dovey shit. Have a life and be just the real man for your

sweetheart.

@ naawee

He said his girl said he isn't caring. He's trying to up his game here. How can you tell him not to call her? He shouldn't call her like 10 times in a day, but at least he should try to call often. Even if it's for a minute, believe me, it would be appreciated. Ladies in the house, am I wrong?

shilling:

@ naawee

He said his girl said he isn't caring. He's trying to up his game here. How can you tell him not to call her? He shouldn't call her like 10 times in a day, but at least he should try to call often. Even if it's for a minute, believe me, it would be appreciated. Ladies in the house, am I wrong?

Men, you talkin' sense. But still call her the minimal number of times you can.

shilling:

@ naawee

He said his girl said he isn't caring. He's trying to up his game here. How can you tell him not to call her? He shouldn't call her like 10 times in a day, but at least he should try to call often. Even if it's for a minute, believe me, it would be appreciated. Ladies in the house, am I wrong?

You are correct.

It is the little things that matter.  

"Baby you look really good today"

The unexpected touch in the small of the back

The unexpected note in her wallet or purse or pocket

The no reason gift

The hug or kiss that catches your breath and makes you feel the love that he has for you

cooking a meal for her

surpurise lunch dates

just a few of the things you can do to show her you love her.

@ naawee
We're now on the same page then? Make that "Girl, you're talking sense", if you know what I mean?

naawee:

Dude,

If you try this, you'll just see your honey slip away. Don't call her often.

Like myself, most girls say I am very naughty, crazy, wild,etc but I rarely call them

after making the first few moves. They be the ones doing the calling because the attraction is

there. You just have to have your games tight.

Don't be a wussie man. Got to show her that she messes up, there 1o1 other

shawties lining up to be yours. Then you've got her in your palms.


The more you care about what your girl thinks, the less of control you have over

her. mess this lovey-dovey shit. Have a life and be just the real man for your

sweetheart.

This dunce dosent understand the post. Maybe the poster should but 'f**k' somewhere in there and I'm sure it'll sink well.

Someone's being accused of not being caring and this one is talking about . . . _{what is he talking about sef?}

naawee:

Dude,

If you try this, you'll just see your honey slip away. Don't call her often.

Like myself, most girls say I am very naughty, crazy, wild,etc but I rarely call them

after making the first few moves. They be the ones doing the calling because the attraction is

there. You just have to have your games tight.

Don't be a wussie man. Got to show her that she messes up, there 1o1 other

shawties lining up to be yours. Then you've got her in your palms.


The more you care about what your girl thinks, the less of control you have over

her. mess this lovey-dovey shit. Have a life and be just the real man for your

sweetheart.

Ain't this the same guy who thinks Nigerian girls are ugly and stupid, who thinks girls are mere intimacy gadgets, thrown in the trash can if they don't fulfil his sexual desires?

@ poster, this guy doesn't have any regards or respect for the feminine folks, he simply thinks they are toys and games to be played with. I'll strongly advice you to ignore his advice and try to find ways to make your relationship work for you. Sisterwoman made some nice points and any girl will appreciate that.

You might want to see this to understand what this guy thinks about women.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-175745.0.html#msg2851683

This is why i love Nairaland, the tackles and bagles,
i feel sistawoman is correct. just do those small things that would make her always have you on her mind. with that there would be no space for her to think of someone else.

mikesleek:

This is why i love Nairaland, the tackles and bagles,
i feel sistawoman is correct. just do those small things that would make her always have you on her mind. with that there would be no space for her to think of someone else.

When a woman questions if her man really loves her it is those small things that we call to mind to KNOW that he loves us. These things can be faked to an extent but most can not and when you KNOW someone loves you, you feel it.

When the road gets ruff we look back on these things and smile.

Respect her every decision, and see what happens! shikena

hey any good and intelligent girl over there--am a nice cool easy going man,am looking for a serious relationship with a serious gal,who live around ibadan, any serious gal she may be---can give me a call on my mobile number or send me sms and i will call back---- 07032354217

I am directing this to the kokolets (chicks) in d house. I wnt you to please tell me what can do to show that am caring, I really to tell I love her. Waitin 4 ur replies

I even applaude you for starting this thread because that shows you love her and surely don't want to lose her. so kudos to you I'm impressed.

sistawoman said it all

It is the little things that matter. 

"Baby you look really good today"

The unexpected touch in the small of the back

The unexpected note in her wallet or purse or pocket

The no reason gift

The hug or kiss that catches your breath and makes you feel the love that he has for you

cooking a meal for her

surpurise lunch dates

just a few of the things you can do to show her you love her.

Ujujoan:

This dunce dosent understand the post. Maybe the poster should but 'f**k' somewhere in there and I'm sure it'll sink well.

Someone's being accused of not being caring and this one is talking about . . . _{what is he talking about sef?}

@uju
who let the dog out?

she meant to say, your dikc is not good enough for her pussie.

SHe means yo are not laying the pipe appropriately you have been hitting the wrong spots

Caring has only one meaning

Please! Do guys even know the meaning of caring?
You'll never get it.

j-girl:

Please! Do guys even know the meaning of caring?
You'll never get it.

Huh

j-girl:

Please! Do guys even know the meaning of caring?
You'll never get it.

Caring" A feeling of one or many of the following: compassion, empathy, sympathy, anger, vehemency, advocation, intention, sadness, fear, happiness, protection, enlightenment, love, or passion in direct correlation with the plight/triumph of another human being/entity/idea/culture/population.

Caring is an internal reaction to the above and is often coupled with a sense of need to help physically or emotionally, in an attempt to offer support in a visible way


J-Girl so whats urs? becos na u know everything

@j-girl

waiting for an answer