Call your friend for a talk, indirectly tell him that a friend of urs told you that his friend's wife is making advances on him, that he does not know what to do. Ask him if he's in such position, what is he going to do? That way u'll know the way forward, you just have to get his reactions first but anything else.

zeusdgrt:
Emmaro4u@yahoo.com,07032399448.tnks cutie

#SCAM ALERT. NAIRALANDERS BEWARE OF THIS 419.
HE IS A M.SC GYNAECOLOGIST ELSEWHERE AND NOW A "BANKING AND FINANCE" GRAD..ENGAGE HIM TO HANDLE UR FINANCIAL (MONEY) SECTOR OR ANYWHERE ELSE @ UR OWN RICK AND PERIL!
BE WARNED.

Cc: kayalla,wisemany2k

Spybradd:


#SCAM ALERT. NAIRALANDERS BEWARE OF THIS 419.
HE IS A M.SC GYNAECOLOGIST ELSEWHERE AND NOW A "BANKING AND FINANCE" GRAD..ENGAGE HIM TO HANDLE UR FINANCIAL (MONEY) SECTOR OR ANYWHERE ELSE @ UR OWN RICK AND PERIL!
BE WARNED.

Cc: kayalla,wisemany2k

When you are done whistling go take your drugs.

wisemany2k:


What did u study?

finance,with banking experience

Hold on to GODS word and walk with peace

H

wisemany2k:


What did u study?

Chem engr.

Run to your pastor and ask him the implications associated with adultery.

DonCortino:
H
Chem engr.

Inbox me ur cv

BRO! Keeping ds as a secret would work against u in the future, believe me she would turn the table around at the slightest......
Your first line of action now should be u trying to record all her calls phone calls and keep her messages, once u have enough evidence intact tell ur WIFE. U urgently need to let ur WIFE know in other to avert the consequence ds would have on ur marriage if your wife finds out on her own. With your proofs on ground she would be convinced that you are telling the truth and thus I don't c y she would be hysterical.
Then let the other woman know your wife is aware of the whole situation and if she doesn back off you are ready to go and tell her husband, so whatever happens she would be the one to loss her happy home when her husband finds out.
If after ds she still doesn back off look for someone close to her ( parent or sibling you report her to) when going to do ds make sure your wife goes with u, so it would be so glaring that u mean it that you ain't interested. When u do ds, she would surely back off out of shame.

wisemany2k:


Inbox me ur cv

Pls ur email.

This write up is somehow complicated and u really need wisdom to tackle this issue. .. can u talk to your pastor about it? But If u think ur wife is matured enough to handle such discussion then tell her because she is a friend and also a wife to you. Just use your head and pray for God directives.

[/b][b]Bros please also help a sister with a Job

delishpot:
Save her sms and other messages. You may need it to clear yourself from her trap one day.

Better yet, tell your wife to warn her for you. Your wife should claim she saw her sms on your phone and she should quit disturbing you.

This advise is costly. Your wife may go out of her way and your friend's marriage stands to be threatened. Pls handle this alone and warn her not to make further advances on you else you would inform her hubby.

delishpot:


Better yet, tell your wife to warn her for you. Your wife should claim she saw her sms on your phone and she should quit disturbing you.

This advise is costly. Your wife may go out of her way and your friend's marriage stands to be threatened. Pls handle this alone and warn her not to make further advances on you else you would inform her hubby.

dperon:
I have sent the mail addy since but I haven't got a response from u. Thanks
horladoyin@yahoo.com

Aw sorry must have missed it.
Will forward addy to u

DonCortino:

Am not begging for money neither am I trying to reap where I did not sow, am only asking for an assistant. I dont understand why u are calling me a gold digger or maybe u just heard about the word for the first time in ur stup¡d miserable life. Silly goat.

Sharap and stop talking like a frustrated mule

mkpikpub:
I need an advice fellow Nairalanders. My Friend's wife is making my once easy life very complicated. I have a very close friend. We went through the same secondary school and university.

We are both working for different multinational companies. We are very comfortable and have a very wonderful family. My Friend's wife wants an affair with me. She's so open about it and I have told her it's a big No.

She disturbs me with calls and love text messages. I have not told my wife and I have not told my friend. Recently my friend travelled to US on a training and he called me about 11P.m that I should help take the wife to his company's clinic because according to my friend she was in crises. My wife did not object to my rendering this assistance at that time of the night and I took the risk for a friend but when I got there, the two kids were already in bed. I was expecting to see her in a critical state, but she was not. The next thing she did was to send her maid upstairs to stay with the kids that she was going to the hospital and will lock up. I noticed that she was trying to feign some abdominal pains in front of the maid. All of a sudden, she came up and held me tight.

I manage to take her to my car and I ended up driving her around the streets of Ph. She confessed she wanted to sleep with me and that we should lodge somewhere till morning. I told her to give me time to think about it. This was just for me to return her home. Should I tell my wife and her husband?

Please help I am not myself anymore.

bros how far, you didn't tell us how it ended

Mkpikpub how has it been with you? and how did u handle the issue??

Mr man, if u want to do, do. if u dont want to do, den dont. Are u a toddler?

Omo tonsho, see whr person papa dey run 4 yash

falconey:
oh brother!

The devil wants to get you through her..........let's pray!

Its not his portion in Jesus name! Amen

Knowing the kind of woman she is, you should have gone there in the first place with your wife. You are acting like a willing accomplice.

Larablink:
loud mouth,your here again running your mouth as usual.if you can't advice why can't you shut up that hole you call a mouth. Coward.

This hasn't called for abuses ok

your situation is really classic...
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if U tell your friend...it might wreck his marriage and he might blame U indirectly for it...
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if U don't tell anyone..U might eventually succumb to the temptation and end up with a life long guilt..
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I suggest U do what Joseph did in the Bible..
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how about changing location?..maybe she might forget U if she does not see U regularly...
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and..be careful..what if your wife sees one of those texts?..
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..hmmmmm