Guy I'm sorry for you, what advice do you need, you are married leave another mans wife and face your own wife.
Don't tell your friend it may destroy his marriage

mkpikpub:
I need an advice fellow Nairalanders. My Friend's wife is making my once easy life very complicated. I have a very close friend. We went through the same secondary school and university.

We are both working for different multinational companies. We are very comfortable and have a very wonderful family. My Friend's wife wants an affair with me. She's so open about it and I have told her it's a big No.

She disturbs me with calls and love text messages. I have not told my wife and I have not told my friend. Recently my friend travelled to US on a training and he called me about 11P.m that I should help take the wife to his company's clinic because according to my friend she was in crises. My wife did not object to my rendering this assistance at that time of the night and I took the risk for a friend but when I got there, the two kids were already in bed. I was expecting to see her in a critical state, but she was not. The next thing she did was to send her maid upstairs to stay with the kids that she was going to the hospital and will lock up. I noticed that she was trying to feign some abdominal pains in front of the maid. All of a sudden, she came up and held me tight.

I manage to take her to my car and I ended up driving her around the streets of Ph. She confessed she wanted to sleep with me and that we should lodge somewhere till morning. I told her to give me time to think about it. This was just for me to return her home. Should I tell my wife and her husband?

Please help I am not myself anymore.

What goes around comes around.

Check how men who took whatever decision you take today ended up.

vfactor:
This is very tricky!


If you tell your wife, I am afraid that she might escalate the issue and confront her about it and it might even shatter the friendship u enjoy with ur friend

If u threaten her that u will tell ur friend. She might just reserve the whole thing and say its u that have been making advances.


I will advice that u tell ur friend but before then, gather enough evidence like text messages, recorded phone calls and discussions and just tell ur friend that this is what his wife is up to. It might cause strains in their marriage, but its better that u re not cause of the strain. Also tell ur friend to handle the issue maturely.

most problems always bow to an age-tested solution, this solution has always worked especially when u don't know what to, the solution is DO NOTHING! don't sleep with her, don't tell your wife, stop encouraging her which am sure u were doing either directly or indirectly, don't tell your friend. stop visiting them and lastly tell her that experience has thought you that nothing can be hidden (which is true my brother), ask her if she has thought of that, continue to say you are thinking. after sometime she will move on and u would have saved the day and yourself. you have your own blames in the matter but this thread is not about u sha

LastProphet:

most problems always bow to an age-tested solution, this solution has always worked especially when u don't know what to, the solution is DO NOTHING! don't sleep with her, don't tell your wife, [b]stop encouraging her which am sure u were doing either directly or indirectl[/b]y, don't tell your friend. stop visiting them and lastly tell her that experience has thought you that nothing can be hidden (which is true my brother), ask her if she has thought of that, continue to say you are thinking. after sometime she will move on and u would have saved the day and yourself. you have your own blames in the matter but this thread is not about u sha

that's all i opened this thread to say. You very likely encouraged her or gave her some funny signals. Better man up and do what you know is right in your heart

That woman no get shame at all. She's not deserve to be an housewife.


I'll advice you tell any of your friend that is a friend with you and that friend of yours that his wife is disturbing you. Cos if you tell your friend in question, he might not believe you and if he ask his wife, you know ladies are deceitful and that may cause a rift between you and your friend

Tjayjosh @least 2 test his fidelity level

Dorrobucci u'll be surprised @d end of d day when things unravel itself

As old as this man,he doesn't know wat to do.ok,let me tell you.start sleeping with ur friend's wife and complicate ur life.u need our advice...mtscw! Rabbish

If I were in your shoes I would tell your wife immediately. There should be no secrets between you two.

My brother,dnt tell any of them,it ll degenerate into another thing,just keep posting her woman like that are very desperate they can go to any length,if possible work ur transfer to another region,my guy I deal with similar case like urs,I just relocate that end the whole yawa,they desperate,desperate,desperate,

Pour her acid.

Mznaett:
Tjayjosh @least 2 test his fidelity level

Is that what you think? If you were my wife, and you do that to me, and find out, Sorry for you!!!

dperon:
I am also in PH and really in need of a job. Studied Petroleum engineering.
Thanks.

send me ur email pls

jabojafa:
nice on sis, bt i wudnt mind if u cud add me to d job link in PH or AkwaIbom

send me ur email pls

SpencerLewis:


Beautiful oyibo with beautiful answer. Nne u too much 'MAKA CHUKWU'

tanx u

zeusdgrt:
nice heart cutie, U can still add me to that request.hp U nt angry don?

lol, why i wan angry.

if i can help i will always be glad to help.

send me ur email pls

kayalla:


lol, why i wan angry.

if i can help i will always be glad to help.

send me ur email pls

Emmaro4u@yahoo.com,07032399448.tnks cutie

When I tested the fidelity of a girl I wanted to marry,she failed woefully. Yet, some stupid nairalanders bashed me like hell. Women! Fear them n thy life shall be long.

kayalla:


send me ur email pls

edidiongjaphet@gmail.com thanks

kayalla:


send me ur email pls

edidiongjaphet@gmail.com thank you.

joganut:
gbese re oooo.... ur story be like movie..... i will advice u do somtin drastic fast b4 ur friendship turns sour...

abeg oooo,, what's the meaning of ya signature

octopusfreaky:
abeg
oooo,, what's the meaning of ya signature

swthart talk is cheap let me show u dat u wud make a pleasant single mother.... hahahaha

kayalla:


lol, why i wan angry.

if i can help i will always be glad to help.

send me ur email pls

kayalla may God bless u as u have decided to help ppl,may u keep experiencing success in ur endeavours...kudos and keep it up

CertifiedFreak:
Dude, this is such a non issue. Give in to her advances. You get a dose of fresh punnany and a break from the monotony of marital life.

Even if he wanted a break frm the monotony of married life, there are millions of beautiful girls around and definitely not the wife of a very good friend. Finding out your wife is cheating is painful let alone finding out it is your friend. That would be devastating. Put yourself in that shoes.

Ricswagger:

kayalla may God bless u as u have decided to help ppl,may u keep experiencing success in ur endeavours...kudos and keep it up

tank u and u too

kayalla:

tank u and u too

uwc,i 4 apply sha o lolz,but na nxt yr i go round up

potolistic:

Gold digger

Am not begging for money neither am I trying to reap where I did not sow, am only asking for an assistant. I dont understand why u are calling me a gold digger or maybe u just heard about the word for the first time in ur stup¡d miserable life. Silly goat.

kayalla:


i will check with my sisters they re both in PH

Thanks, u can reach me on rico3stars@outlook.com

DonCortino:

bros am looking for work and am in ph too, can u assit a brother?

What did u study?