Afroconnect:
Forget dating these days,just keep playing them,when you are ready for marriage is when u take a woman seriously-and for naija ladies that means taking care of their bills.

@op dis is ur Messiah, original street boy. It works like magic

@Milly02 don't break up or confront her, just take her closest friend to you out to a movie or something. It's better you screen shoot the conversations on her WhatsApp so you can use them as evidence when the wahala starts.

Ps. She's no longer your girlfriend, just party as you go now

The only way I can help you brother right now is to laugh at you!


Leave her without a word or even a notion please.

Milly02:
I caught my girl chatting on whatsapp and telling a guy that she loves him. she was even kind of saying it feels stupid to ask a guy out but that she just have to do it cause of the love she has for him.

Guy, run for your lifeeeeeeeeeeeee!
Infact thank ur stars say u never marry am.

You are a teenager


True/false

And u here calling her ur girl! Are u a learner?

Olodo you better wise up and do the needed

Milly02:
I caught my girl chatting on whatsapp and telling a guy that she loves him. she was even kind of saying it feels stupid to ask a guy out but that she just have to do it cause of the love she has for him.

Now, this is fine coz you can still figure out something but with this girl, it's all over!

femidejulius:
And u are still calling her your girl.

It should be your "ex-girlfriend"

She was never her GF. Probably her sex partner.

Even if you are a learner lemme put you through.. .but you dull oooooo
Ifbu feel emotional about it,confront her and know where the problem is and leave her?

But if u wanna do messi with her, I think she got a best friend plz guy go for dat best friend and don't tell her nor confront her about anything. .....
Just screen shot it, save it to your phone for future reference
Do as if you don't know anything I trust gurlz her friend would accept you but don't tell the friend why you want to date her,just go for her and after that

You are welcomed to the world of PLAYERS.. No more heart feeling..apart from her friend..go outside and date some random chicks also.........funny you. I can tell you that there is a girl out there that is dying to date u... U are just clouded with the love of that first girl that you were not able to see it....

Thank me later

Look...dis is not a forum where u can get a good advice...so many people on this forum are immature and fake....the girl was not into u in d first place..she was just dating u because she needed to be in a relationship..but now,she has found someone she has feelings for..it happens..forgive her..don't be too hard on urself .....move on....love will find u..trust me.

WREX

femidejulius:
And u are still calling her your girl.

It should be your "ex-girlfriend"

dont mind him he was just trying to be loyal

Cutehector:
I can't even call a gurl my girl until I hav paid her bride price... So if I see smth like dat, I will hav all rights to beat the shit out her stupidity..

She is not your girlfriend so who gave you the right to beat her? Even your wife, you have no right to beat her. Grow up, little boy. Whatever happens to break up with her instead?

Cutehector:
I can't even call a gurl my girl until I hav paid her bride price... So if I see smth like dat, I will hav all rights to beat the shit out her stupidity..

lmao

my bro. she aint ur girl

Cutehector:
I can't even call a gurl my girl until I hav paid her bride price... So if I see smth like dat, I will hav all rights to beat the shit out her stupidity..

Alomo Bitters

MzMay:

lmao

lol people think personalities in nairaland and in reality r dsame. That's why dey will always be mistaken... Me dat will not even hurt a fly.. All na yarns

I'm disappointed at you for calling out for help , you just displayed your uselessness here. The truth is you are beyond help. For your grill to not only secretly admire a guy but goes ahead to toast him , do you think there could be redemption for you ? My guy abeg move on
Dis kain thing dem no dey talk am out.

Never give your heart to a woman you aren't married to...move on already bro,

sorry o,be a man and do smething better wt ur life

golddeejay:
u also ask another girl out, balance d equatn

Na algebra we dey solve

And you still call her your girl? Smh

Milly02:
I caught my girl chatting on whatsapp and telling a guy that she loves him. she was even kind of saying it feels stupid to ask a guy out but that she just have to do it cause of the love she has for him.

Everyone her has asked you to run blah blah blah
You obviously still have feelings for the girl and this doesnt just turn off like a light switch.

The reality is you obviously cant continue loving this girl. Trust is gone.

However so that in two years time when you remember this relationship you feel good with yourself, heres what you do.

1. screen shot that conversation on whatsapp.
2. Call the girl (its taking a lot off of me not to call her stupid right now, i swear) hang out with her like normal and midway when she seems to be having fun. Tell her you really dont think you want to continue with her in the relationship.
3. Make sure its coming out of no where so she doesnt have anything to hold on to as a probable reason. Please please please do not confront her on the messages you saw like i said shes not particularly wise and would want to use that to feel cool with herself that youre jealous.
4. Dont insult or quarrel with her when you drop the bombshell, say it as calmly as when you say i like the dress youre wearing. She will enter a state of shock. when she starts to ask why? Let your mind go somewhere else. Give absolutely no response. She will begin to question herself and talk different things.

Two things are needed for this to work properly, make sure theres no issuee on ground so she doesnt see this coming, dont raise your voice or show any sign of stress in your delivery of the message. You must never ever show sign of anger. Best illustration, you know how you tell a girl youve had enough of to go? Thata what you want to do here.

Make sure the issue is not resolved on that day.

Give her like a week or two.

Two things will happen the quest to understand why youre doing this becomes the major thought process for her making her to think less of that other boy. Thoughts of you doing this will begin to make her realise you were actually a great guy.

Dont ask me why, look around and see why women still stick around with guys who are not very nice to them...or men love bitches. Its the same theory.

Note of warning though i really dont think you should continue planning to love the girl, the essence of this is to downgrade her to side chick (konji na bastard and you wouldnt like it coming with no where to...you know?) So you make her lose the boy, reset her thinking, get steady smashes...and get yourself another reasonable person to spend your resources on. trust is gone in this relationship. Lets not kid ourselves anymore.

Your pride however must be intact.

Dude step ûp ur game maybe she wan test u
*modified*
Bros Run for your life o... But have this @ d back of your mind dat d new guy and her wouldn't last 2geda 'cos when she finds amore cute dude... She go still leave d nigga #ToastBread

Milly02:
I caught my girl chatting on whatsapp and telling a guy that she loves him. she was even kind of saying it feels stupid to ask a guy out but that she just have to do it cause of the love she has for him.

Olowo gba iyawo ole

I feel it is d boyfrnd of d gurl askin me out dat posted the message,,,,God!!!!!! she bugs me like hell

Cutehector:
run go where, abeg come bak jor.... Try meetin me in person at least

Loool u want her to meet u in person so dat u wud still come bak on nairaland to seek advice on how to mend a broken head.

That's why she is ur gf not ur wife, na friend she b now, she can decides who to befriend

@OP Milly02

keep her for chopping sake and divert your emotions to a new bae or baes. No time for rubbish...

That shit can be so annoying.

DIS IS WAT YOU GET WEN A GAL DO THE ASKING OUT IN A RELATIONSHIP.... SHE DUMPS UR SORRY ASS WEN SHE SEES A MORE FRESHER DUDE... and on the other hand she may just be flirting wit dat oda guy... gals are good at faking tins

mencade4:
hahaha


peggy friendzone kermit?

I don't think so. They've been together for over 40 years. I think he got tired of Piggy's physical abuse so he moved on.

Oh his new boo is Denise, she's a model. Kermit is on a roll man!