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| How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
SUMMARY I did not know him before... We became buddies when I moved into one of the apartments in the same block as his' and his sister. How he started staying with me: He was initially staying with his sister until he fell out with her over some trivial issue. He immediately moved into my apartment owing to the fact that I stay alone. That night he slept in place and in slow succession it became a tradition and step by step he started staying together with me. But since he moved in, I've had countless dreams in which somebody will always come to warn me that I should ask the guy to leave my apartment cos he is laced with ill luck and that he isn't ordinary which will start affecting me especially in the aspect of my job. I wouldn't have mind him staying with me until my financee comes except for these incessant nightmares filled with warnings about him. Now my quest on this thread is sourcing for ideas on how to go about asking him to leave? Nlanders I need clues and hints. Cc: RoyalRoy and lalasticlala 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by boombay(m): 1:11pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Lie to him that you're an occultist  #••Thank me later! 48 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Pray to God to take away your dreams. God doesn't allow people suffer for being good. That guy could be the next president of this country and devil could be very interested in seeing you two sever your friendship ties. But bros do you watch Nigerian films alot? 92 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Mayour11(m): 1:15pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Tell him about it straight away 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Mayour11: What will be my excuse? |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Mprex(f): 1:31pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
you don't owe him any explanation. Simply ask him to leave. Better still, tell him your fiancee is coming and ask him to leave. 32 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Mprex: Yes I thought about that too... but I was thinking of what he will think since she won't be coming anytime soon. If he leaves and she didn't show up anytime soon it will show that I purposely drove him out. |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Mayour11(m): 1:45pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
emmyrichie: There are more than one thousand and one excuses. You may decide to talk about it with someone who will disguise as a family member, who will call you and lambast you on the fact that you have started moving with bad friends. The person will then go further to say that you have also harboured them in ur house, and he should threaten you that he'll report to your parents if you don't send him out. Make sure he's at home when the person will call o. I dey come 8 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by ULSHERLAN(m): 1:47pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
I think you have to handle this thing carefully. In as much as u owe him no explanation still u never can tell where u will meet in life again. Youve already started well by allowing him stay so end it well by giving him reasonable reasons. U might say ur family or fiancee is coming to stay with u. You can even inconvenience urself by leaving the house to a frnds place for like 2days to make him think you traveled to do something or so. 38 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Mayour11: Lol... this is hilarious. It will make me look like a mummy's boy na. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Mayour11(m): 1:55pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
emmyrichie: okay consider this, prepare a letter of threat from maybe a group asking you to release their property in your possession. thank me later 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by RoyalRoy(m): 2:06pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
emmyrichie: Get any of your friend you can stay with for about 3-4 days. Tell your "unwanted" new housemate that you are travelling and would like to lock up your house while you away. And when you come back dont call or inform him at all. He should get the message. 21 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by jashar(f): 2:48pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
emmyrichie: Excuse me sir. Please, who pays the rent? Whose name is on the lease? I really dislike confrontation also but dude you have to man up and say no to this person. Forget lies and strategy, come out plain. Tell him you need your space and that you're not really comfortable with him staying with you. You don't owe him any further explanation. It might be hard though, but stick to your guns. 36 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by raumdeuter: 5:27pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Go and get a live in girlfriend who loves to walk around nude 9 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
raumdeuter: No need. Just pay an average Naija University babe to do that for 4 days. Dem be olosho....they will do it for peanuts. 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by ShakurM(m): 5:54pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Ur house rent no dey due??  Place a fake eviction notice on your door! No thanks. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Use your head  Your HAPPINESS first......Period!!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Ishilove: 5:55pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
 No dey look face. Tell him your mother is moving in. Or girlfriend (if you no get go hire one). On a more serious note, things like this is why we always preach to people that they should attend regular deliverance sessions so that any evil stranger lurking in their lives will clear away. He has a bad spirit following him up and down and that is how this demon will cause him to be rejected anywhere he goes. His helpers, like the op, will keep running from him because he is demonically possessed. You are being warned because whatever is troubling him wants to punish him and if you keep harbouring him, you will be oppressed until you are forced to eject him. It is already happening since you are contemplating ejecting him. He needs deliverance. O ma se o. OP, for your own good please eject him any how yagayaga before he uses his own reggae to funk up your blues. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by chiscodedon(m): 5:55pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
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| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by BUSHHUNTER: 5:56pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Tell him you are HIV positive If he doesn't leave sue me 23 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by RichDad1(m): 5:56pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
chiscodedon:King Kong 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by hotswagg12: 5:56pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Okay |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Afrocatalyst: 5:58pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
I don't want you in my life again. And that includes my house. Shikena. |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by shalomm: 5:58pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
op, someone has a misunderstanding with his sister, and you took him in. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by spanishkid(m): 5:59pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Tell him to simply get lost. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
If the guy is not a breach to your peace, i'll advice you leave him. The nightmares you had are as a result of the ill feelings you have towards him. To that guy, you are his messiah and trust me, he will never forget you. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by fotadmowmend(m): 6:00pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Sometimes its better to be blunt. Tell him frankly, do not lie. I am sure that he has been expecting you to ask him to leave but taking his chances that you might not talk. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Egwuda33: 6:00pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Brother, I personally believe you should get him out of your house ASAP. those dreams ain't jes dreams. they are warnings. but be careful the way you go about it. the guy may be Dangerous and Harmful. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Gabrielwilliams(m): 6:01pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Interesting.... I used to have a dude like dat. Funny tin is dat I ended up moving into another house. I left him in the house. (Rent expired a week later) 8 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by samuelson06(m): 6:02pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
emmyrichie: What does he do for a living? What nature of people does he associate with? How does he contributes to your personal growth? What trivial issue led to him leaving the sister? What are his educational qualifications? Does he has a girlfriend? 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by wellmax(m): 6:02pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Tell him you have ebola 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nicepoker(m): 6:02pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
,ask him out. He will certainly run from ur house 17 Likes |
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