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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nicepoker(m): 8:50pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
simplex2:he wont |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
@Op..Is there any big deal in going over to his Sister's apartment with him and settling the rift so he can move back in with his sister? Just do that and save yourself all the stress of bad dreams and coming to NL to gather intelligence as if you want to evict BokoH from Nigeria |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by jaybee3(m): 8:53pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Tell him you need space geez Why is it so difficult to do? |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by southernbelle(f): 9:12pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
MrLouisVanGaal: hilarious 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Amiee99(f): 9:14pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
He needs help in this difficult time. Having a misunderstanding withnhis sister as most people are saying isn't enough reason to throw him out. And your dreams are because you think about such things during the day. Dont throw him out 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by pBuhari(f): 9:16pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
don't pick his call again
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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
jaybee3: Why? Because in Nigeria, when we turn out umwanted guests or demand privacy in apartments that we own, the unwanted guest later becomes the president of Nigeria or even the ED of a Conglomerate and then we regret turning them out cos they may later chase us out of the country You know, we watch too many Nollywood mis-movies 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by freecocoa(f): 9:23pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Ishilove:Are you really this superstitious abi this one na religious? |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by ULSHERLAN(m): 9:24pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
VenusBetty: Read what i wrote well. I have several reasons to back what i wrote up and not just that 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by jaybee3(m): 9:26pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
standd: phew |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
jaybee3: |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by sunsewa: 9:35pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
emmyrichie: Ur nightmares should not be a solid reason to send him parking,except he is turning into a nuisance, u can confront him on the nightmares,to startle him,and beat him into line if he is going the wrong way through necessary action,cos no one knows tomorrow, but u insist on booting him,u can claim that u want to marry. |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by IceDude(m): 9:37pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
offspec:Dnt conclude like dat o. Some pple are just ungrateful even if u give them ur life. Notin on earth will make me harbour anybody....the tin nor favour my mum at all........Am talking from experience |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by 400billionman: 9:42pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
MrLouisVanGaal: Thought patterns indeed. Haha. I have personally kept such a person in my house for free and when I asked him to vacate after 2 years, it almost ended in a court case. That is to say, I had to settle with money someone I gave a free space to stay in my house before he left. Doing good is not bad but it can kill the doer if he is unwise. Poster kindly ask him to vacate before it runs into weeks. For someone like me after so many bad experiences, I don't care how he feels, JUST LEAVE. Do it fast. Bad comes to worse if he does not have a job. If that guy falls ill or dies in ur apartment, boy you are on ur own. emmyrichie: |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
IceDude:yeah i stated that he should allow him provided he is not constituting nuisance |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
guy..... U see, I wanna receive ma relatives this week...... so pls find another place to stay..... they are coming tomoro........ thanks |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Dis is lyk d most reasonable advice on dis thread all dis oda guys re just tlkn out of ignorance ,its beta to be a chanell of blessings to other than bin a beneficiary of someones blessins ,no one knows tomorrow MrLouisVanGaal: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Lanceslot(m): 10:20pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
I've been in this same situation before and can tell how difficult it is to handle it... I once had a guy who moved in like that and one day devil played game with his mind so he brought a lady to my place and tried raping her inside my apartment, that was how he met his waterloo... Op just be careful, wait for the right time and see nature work things out by itself. |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Ishilove: 10:21pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
freecocoa:You will not understand the mysteries of the world until you experience it first hand. Well, at least past of it. |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by freecocoa(f): 10:24pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Ishilove:Please just give me small irrefutable details. |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Ishilove: 10:32pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
standd:You and business |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Ishilove: 10:32pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
freecocoa:I no get that kain power this night |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by sleekman(m): 10:43pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
offspec:@Ishilove the nightmares are as a result of an evil spirit possessing ur friend or just around him to ensure no one helps him. So if u'll take my advice this is what u must do. Sit him down and let him know about ur nightmares. If ure a spiritual individual tell him ure willing to pray and fast with him so that he can be delivered. If he refuses then u tell him he has to leave ur house. If uren't spiritual then just tell him ure afraid of d spirit(s) around him and u want him to leave. He'll respect u more that way. Tell him to source for help. Watch his countenance and his reaction. If he acts surprised/bemused then implore on him to seek help.. If he doesn't then u have to raise d gear. He just might be d devil himself.. |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by gabazin080(m): 11:09pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Ishilove:His fiancée lives far away. Like you said, I will like the OP hire you. Name your price |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
raumdeuter:hmmm no dat one go come worse pass nah .the dude no go gree wan comot again since im go wan see free view . |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by EazyMoh(m): 11:38pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
emmyrichie:tell him that your gf wants to move in with you, so he shall tell you when is it exactly that he will find a place or get back to his sister. don't accept anything more than two weeks. I understand you are kind hearted and don't want to sound rude. this way if he is considerate about your feelings he would understand. if not just tell him to leave your apartment that you can't accommodate him any longer. nothing wrong with been straight forward. |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
op u must man up nah.tell the dude to im face dat u need ur space and he needs to leave.some guys sef too sabi leech on others.na such ppl James Hardley Chase dey refer to as scroungers. |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Tex42(m): 11:50pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Perhaps u can reconcile him with his sister or help him rent an apartment, that is if u are buoyant enough. Ma opinion though. |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by LeoFish92(m): 12:16am On Jul 16, 2015 |
Collins0609: Bro the phrase you quoted is not a Bible passage, (I know it sounds like one of the proverbs of Solomon) it was coined by English playwright William Congreve |
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by fexyrich(m): 1:10am On Jul 16, 2015 |
God bless you sir..U said it all..Many people talk without reasoning at all..I remember my uncle told me a stoyr about one of these very popular politicians making name in nigeria today..they way he accomodated him while they were in school back then..and how the guy squatted with him for a long time until he got accomodation of his..And the guy being a very brilliant guy then in school and as well how they used to hang out 2geda and d guy would be carried back home drunk..as he was a heavy drinker then in school.Notwitstanding all the odda he still acomodated the guy with him..Cos he was more opportuned to be working and same time schooling..Today that friend of he's is one of the very reputable politicians we hear of 2day in this country and he has occupied very important positions in this country.My uncle becam very rich after struggling for so many years simply because of the kindness he showed dis guy back then in school..He got very big contracts from federal govt as a result of his relationship with that guy who is now a top politician in this country..We never can tell were we would meet each oda 2moro..So if we have d opportunity to be kind to people let's do it..cos the person u look down on 2day..U might one day look up to that person.So pls op whatever u want to do don't do with wisdom..4get about the wicked advise some ladies are givin u here cos women are known to be very inconsiderate and they only look at the now and not 2moro..Dats d same reason a girl would dump her boyfrnd 2day cos he isn't rich not considerin who her guy could be 2moro.. udz: 1 Like 1 Share |
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