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Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by tommychow(m): 9:42pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
'Testing' does more damage than good. Everyone has their flaws. You need to love the good things about your partner 1st so you can overlook their imperfections. If your hell-bent on feeding your pessimism concerning the relationship, then you'll find what your looking for. Most girls will invite their very sexy friend over to 'test' him. We are talking a 2-week relationship where he doesn't even know her last name. He has nothing to fight for yet. The way he'll eye-fvck the friend, she won't sleep that night. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Donalleh(m): 10:19pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Yes |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by whizqueen(f): 10:19pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
No |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by GaniLAb(m): 10:21pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Yeap |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by 9jatatafo(m): 10:24pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Not necessary, just love your partner the way our great grand parents did. |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by onadana: 10:24pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
It's not worth it...what goes around comes around. |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Samiceman: 10:29pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:Bro no offence, but I have tried searching for the meaning of that word but couldn't find anything.... |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Testing doesn't work.I prefer to do a research about her activities.Both past and present. It had worked fine for me.It's only for those who can control their emotions. |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
that y I do tell my girl that if she ever test me I will intentionally fail everytime cos am smart as to read her motive to know beforehand that am being tested |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by danduchi(m): 10:36pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Immediately I saw ur headline, my mind went to...'This dude wants to test virginity again?' |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by ifewise(m): 10:38pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Always hv it at d back of ur mind that people change & U cant make conclusion about an individual with what u seeing now. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by cornel00(m): 10:47pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Trust remains a double edged sword She must pass series of my test before I could |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by BeeCool15: 10:50pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
In fact, this topic links to a post I read today about checking your partner's phone behind their back. What's the deal? That is the basis of mistrust in relationships. Read the post here - http://thenakedconvos.com/meme-files-inspectyour-gadget/ |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by funlord(m): 10:56pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Only test! Na microphone? This op get time 4 testing testing 1,2,3! Or maybe na exam or jamb? |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by teemy(m): 10:57pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Depending on situations there is no need to 'actually' test one's partner. Habbits have a way of telling us all we need to know. In some cases though when someone seems too good to be true or a hidden warning at the back of the mind keeps ringing, a good look from the person's external surroundings like friends and family might fill in the gap. Above all it is better to look well before jumping in. If the partner vexes about being checked up a simple reply of "I want to trust you fully without having to look over my shoulder and before I take this leap I need to be sure." A sensible person would be appreciative of this. A silly person would take offence. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by freecocoa(f): 11:01pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
You don't need to test people, people will always prove themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Trust...is transient,every1 is capable of making mistakes,no1 knows 2mrw,find sme1 worth d stress n do d best u can 2enjoy it... 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by rildwanullahi(m): 11:09pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Dennygirl:that is what you need, just contact me if you get the drill |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by charijee(f): 11:09pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Testing could be disastrous, coming up with the thought of it shows you ain't trustworthy yourself. ...whoever is worth your love and commitment comes naturally..... 1 Like |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Karleb(m): 11:11pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
No! When you test someone without their consent, they are most likely to fail. But I see nothing bad with some random subconscious test. |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
I don't need to be tested to be trusted. I will just let you know am not to be trusted. Foreal I can't be trusted with Fanny. And if you still want to go ahead and test me...Please don't test me with the likes of Rolly83, Softysparky,ShayneHarvey or MissCastle. Will definitely not pass the test. I can assure you on that. What's the point testing a FannySwindler. Testing is not a tool for Trusting. By the way never trust nobody. Just accept people the way they are or move on. No be by force. |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Twaci: YOU DON'T TEST YOUR PARTNER, YOU ONLY STUDY HIM OR HER TO KNOW THE TYPE OF CHARACTER YOU NEEDED FROM HIM. LOVE IS NOT ALL ABOUT TESTING THIS AND TESTING THAT. THAT'S FOOLISHNESS SHALL, WHO I AM TO GIVE ANY NAIJA WOMEN ADVICE, WHEN YOU ARE ABOUT 30-35 YOU WILL UNDERSTAND HOW THINGS WORK. |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Mcowubaba: 11:39pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
BEST COMMENT OF THE THREAD naijaboiy: [b]Yes we'll test ourselves. We'll both undergo Blood tests,,genotype,,Hiv and other sexually related infections test . That's the only way i'll be able to trust that I can go skin to skin without any problem. Any other test is considered unnecessary and irrelevant,,therefore I proclaim it null and void! THREAD CLOSED |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by liyahwillie(f): 12:07am On Jul 17, 2015 |
Taylor86:LolllllsSss!!!! BADOOOOOO!Badest Guy Ever Liveth |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 12:41am On Jul 17, 2015 |
Test at your peril.. Try using your best friend as the test person and watch her advance it with him. Hehe |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by kiekie1(m): 12:45am On Jul 17, 2015 |
Twaci: Hw have u been switx? We really need 2 talk " 08135031951" |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by letsbet(m): 12:59am On Jul 17, 2015 |
BANGERLEE1: care to explain? |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Mustay(m): 2:47am On Jul 17, 2015 |
Why does this topic/question keep getting re-tested |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Damikevin(m): 3:48am On Jul 17, 2015 |
How do you test someone without tellin the person he or she is being tested, until you receive a negative outcome. If they pass you don't tell em they are being tested, only if they fail. You dey write exam without knowing you dey write exam? Love is not rational so test is a waste of time. Just have to trust with caution and hope with faith. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by Nobody: 4:05am On Jul 17, 2015 |
Not bad,but no perfection in humanity. You shouldnt expect 100 percent perfection from him or her. I think 70 percent is ok. |
Re: Do You Need To 'Test' To Trust Your Partner? by pinky1974: 4:43am On Jul 17, 2015 |
Test ke Abi just Believe. How many of them do u want to tes[/color]t Both sexes are very wise now,some will fall and some will get caught in the web Let's pray n believe. O[color=#990000] |
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