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Men dislike whining and can't differenciate between confiding in someone and whining. You shouldn't tell your man everything about you, abeg. Tell your best friend or mom, better yet, kneel down and tell G*d. If u continue to tell ur man he'll use it against you one day. If he was ur husband it would be better.

Mayb u do it often n dont put it in d right way, notwitstandin, he shud b ready to listen 2u, thats y he is ur partner.
Anyweis u can try me, m a good listener

I dnt tell him evrytn..d tin is evn aftr xplainjm tu him wat I am tryn to say...n he nw unsdstnds....e stl isnt of any help....sayn sory fr blastn at me is a no go area...d next tin he says is he has herd..does dt mean I cam nevr dscus smtn bodrn me wt him?

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This ur short hand writing is becoming to much o. One can't even comprehend what u are talking about easily!

Op your English sucks!
Go back to school.

Op go back to school!
Your English sucks!!!

The English is so poor!!!

chomytex:
Op your English sucks!
Go back to school.

You dont have to make such comments..i asked for suggestion on something...yes I used short hand..but I am sure you understood waht I was sayn

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izaray:
This ur short hand writing is becoming to much o. One can't even comprehend what u are talking about easily!

I am sorry,i was trying to type fast because I was busy.i am sure you got the mesage I was trying to pass across...your sugestion would be appreciated..thanks

Op, first of all, your english may not be poor, but your writing, at the moment, is quite incomprehensible. Please work on it.

Regarding your post, it might mean one of two things. The problem could perhaps be on your manner of presentation. Maybe you come on too strong, or you raise your voice, or talk in an insolent way or sarcastically, could also be that the complains are too frequent, or its usually on financial matters when he is not your father...
On the other, it could be that your man is impatient or not the listening or caring type. My only advice to that is to zap! Now there is time. Because if it could be this way when you're not yet married, it can only get worse with marriage. There are always better men out there. But first of all, be sure you are not the one at fault.

Good luck...

U people should leave op's language challenges alone, haba! You're all as bad as her boyfriend!

Op sorry about your predicament. You have to consider that your boo may not be all that into you or might be an impatient person. That said, no one likes someone who complains too much. For now, share your probs with your close family members.
Take care.

akwemose:
I dnt tell him evrytn..d tin is evn aftr xplainjm tu him wat I am tryn to say...n he nw unsdstnds....e stl isnt of any help....sayn sory fr blastn at me is a no go area...d next tin he says is he has herd..does dt mean I cam nevr dscus smtn bodrn me wt him?

If u cannot confide in ur man,who will u now confide in?





But I'm wondering,if its just trivial issues.
Let me ask, what type of things do u talk to him about??

5minsmadness:
U people should leave op's language challenges alone, haba! You're all as bad as her boyfriend!

Op sorry about your predicament. You have to consider that your boo may not be all that into you or might be an impatient person. That said, no one likes someone who complains too much. For now, share your probs with your close family members.
Take care.

Thanks..i apreciate

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If u cannot confide in ur man,who will u now confide in?





But I'm wondering,if its just trivial issues.
Let me ask, what type of things do u talk to him about??[/quote
just normal issues...say may be I am trying to get a target at work..and its nt forth coming,and its weighing me down...I tend to wanna talk about it so as to feel better..dont know if you understand?

dulux07:
Mayb u do it often n dont put it in d right way, notwitstandin, he shud b ready to listen 2u, thats y he is ur partner.
Anyweis u can try me, m a good listener

Tnx..lol

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I understand.


Couples are supposed to help each other,listen to each other and render support when needed.


He's probably the type of guy who's got all that he has through hardwork,maybe he's the lone wolf kind of guy and just expects u to be like him. Maybe he expects u to fix ur problems and not complain about them. I could be wrong tho.


U can't do anything about it.

Thanks guys...your suggestions has helped a great deal...everything is sorted now..1 love

Uwaafid!