olaolaking:
Dear thelish,
Please I beg you in the name of God. Take your son to a psychiatric clinic. I beg you again. Please take him to clinic.
I which my parents knew this in the past. I wouldn't have suffered all the mess.
Your son is not free with you, he is not feeling comfortable in the mist of those who close to him. It is a psychological problem. Please forget about all this people saying everything is ok. Talk to them at the clinic, they will ask so many questions that will make you know that your son is having hormonal problem.
The earlier the better.

I am exactly victim of same condition as your son.
My Dad finally killed me because he scolded me 24/7 because of my attitude. This is an in born and your son is at 80 percent risk of depression.
Take your son to a psychiatric clinic. I beg you again. Please take him to clinic.
cc:thelish

Boxer007:


Boo Boo ,5 minutes with your annus and I can easily make you turn Gay. Boo Boo are your free this evening and how far are you from Banana Island? Gay men make the best lover

Georgekyrian:

Liberty pls make a good inquiry about ur daughter, the friend she roams about with in school,the teacher, ask her, check her to know if she has been assulted/molested sexually in anyway..

Dramadiddy:
Ur child is angry at either u or ur husband.. Dats y he doesn't open up or even feel at home in his own house but he's happy wen he's out or in school or away from u guys.. U can tlk to him to kno if he's offended by anything wich I'm sure he is.. And do not spank him, U need to be his best friend... He is definitely smart and a good boy

thelish:

He can bear pains as well. There was a day, the dad mistakenly jam the door against his hand, every other would scream or shout to alert his dad, but my son kept quiet there bearing the pain while his hand was still strapped to d door. I[b]t was so annoying that I had to spank him for keeping quiet. [/b]

dblaisepascal:
UR JUDGMENT, 14yrs jail term awaits u in Nigeria, highly spirited street guys are patiently waiting to stone u to death immediately u leave khirikhiri ,, d vultures are patiently waiting to feed on ur carcass, strange ants are waiting to feed on ur remains,, as for ur soul, d worse toments in hell, awaits it for eternity..... permit me to say- u look so disgusting....... wasted sperm perhaps

thelish:
Please, how can I help my 4 year old son overcome fear?

He seems to be very free outside, but keep to himself at home.

Before his holiday, I went to his school to confront them, because
he couldn't answer a question from his book, but my son fall my hand
right there. He was reading all what he refused to read at home.

Please I need help. He seems to lack self confidence.

I tried to reduce my shouting at him in order to draw him close to myself,
but there is still no improvement yet.

Thanks

olaolaking:
Dear thelish,
Please I beg you in the name of God. Take your son to a psychiatric clinic. I beg you again. Please take him to clinic.
I which my parents knew this in the past. I wouldn't have suffered all the mess.
Your son is not free with you, he is not feeling comfortable in the mist of those who close to him. It is a psychological problem. Please forget about all this people saying everything is ok. Talk to them at the clinic, they will ask so many questions that will make you know that your son is having hormonal problem.
The earlier the better.
I am exactly victim of same condition as your son.
My Dad finally killed me because he scolded me 24/7 because of my attitude. This is an in born and your son is at 80 percent risk of depression.
Take your son to a psychiatric clinic. I beg you again. Please take him to clinic.
cc:thelish

henryvirus:
my apologies

thelish:

He can bear pains as well. There was a day, the dad mistakenly jam the door against his hand, every other would scream or shout to alert his dad, but my son kept quiet there bearing the pain while his hand was still strapped to d door. It was so annoying that I had to spank him for keeping quiet.

fpeter:



you're a sick mother, you're the cause of the boy's problems. I bet he hates you already...if you don't stop torturing that boy
by the time he's 10, he would not only withdraw emotionally from you but from the rest of the world. You need help yourself
I bet your mother raised you in very harsh conditions so now you don't know how to handle your son rather you're reliving your
childhood experiences.

thelish:
I trip for ur quick judgment ooo. not as bad as u tink dear. he doesn't hate me.

thelish:
I trip for ur quick judgment ooo. not as bad as u tink dear. he doesn't hate me.

thelish:

He can bear pains as well. There was a day, the dad mistakenly jam the door against his hand, every other would scream or shout to alert his dad, but my son kept quiet there bearing the pain while his hand was still strapped to d door. It was so annoying that I had to spank him for keeping quiet.

thelish:

He can bear pains as well. There was a day, the dad mistakenly jam the door against his hand, every other would scream or shout to alert his dad, but my son kept quiet there bearing the pain while his hand was still strapped to d door. It was so annoying that I had to spank him for keeping quiet.

femi4:
i need deliverance

Brandnew2:


STOP SPANKING HIM!



I'm not so fond of telling people what to do but I can tell you the consequences of child abuse.

First off.
He's already withdrawn and afraid to share or voice out his feelings either pain or joy. He trusts his peers more than you cuz they can only do little to hurt him unlike you who always spank him at every opportunity.

Excuse me if I say this but you are only a beast who takes out her frustration on the poor kid.

So you need to STOP SPANKING HIM!

Kids thrive in a conducive environment that is enveloped in love and care and that is what your role as a parent entails. Naturally as a mother, you are supposed to bond with your kids better than the farther whose is supposed to be out there as the bread winner. Instead you have become a cruel police woman.

I'll tell you another reason you need to STOP SPANKING HIM, he might grow up detached from you or even dislike you. He might even start rebelling against you as soon as he's big enough. So you now see why you need to start bonding and become more friendly. Caution him with words and except he's done really done something really bad STOP SPANKING HIM!

thelish:

writetopoker:

including ur parents

thelish:
I trip for ur quick judgment ooo. not as bad as u tink dear. he doesn't hate me.

femi4:
Omo ale jatijati......Aja legbe e
Olodo rabata....parents indeed

kinah:
nice one bro.
u hit the nail on d head wella

thelish:
he can keep quiet for a 2yrs old boy to bite his forehead. anybody, be it junior, agemate, senior can oppress him n take his thing, he will not talk but will be pained inside of him. The whole thing looks like hereditary to me. But how can I help him speak up when he needs to

Ruq:


He will hate you if it continues, I remember always wanting to be on holidays and never going back home.