Hmmmmm you still waiting for your family to tell/decide who to marry among your girlfriends

Point 1 solves it all get a good job or be successful in your business and see point 2,3,4 shall be waived aside she will even say she will teach you how to dress well, joke with you a lot to make you laugh and boost your confidence by soothing your ego and telling you sweet things. As long as you are generous and you legally marry her. Happy belated friendship day and happy new month of double blessings in advance .

Oga. That is number one, success. The op mentioned it.

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XavierBlue:
So i decided to counter this lady's thread https://www.nairaland.com/2476413/5-reasons-yet-find-serious, lagmostkuit abeg no vex.

Finding the right lady, is a dream of every man. There are some qualities you need to exhibit before the woman get attracted and come do to your bid. Below are the reasons why you're yet to find the right one.

1. You are not successful:

It no longer rocket science that woman get attracted to rich men even if they're as ugly as sin. A woman won't associate herself with you if you ain't successful, every one want to be identified with a successful man, like in the recent case of obama's visit to his hometown. Am yet to see a woman who wouldn't love to be identified with a successful man, not here in Nigeria.

2. You lack self confidence.

This is another major reason. You're smitten with her, but lacks the moral to walk up to her and express your feeling, isn't cool if you ask me . As your thought probably falls on her reaction. You need to boost your self confidence.

3. You don't Dress well/look good.

A popular saying, the way you're dressed is the way you're addressed, this isn't fallacy at all. Though another says you shouldn't Judge a book by it cover, but women tends to pay attention to the way you dress, they also get attracted. If you dress like a pauper and approach a lady, my dear you're on a long thing, she might even regard you as a mentally imbalanced fellow.

4. You don't look friendly.

Would you woo a girl while masking an unhappy demeanour? Be friendly, smile, joke and be free, don't carry a visage expression of a zombie. If you ain't friendly, ladies might mistake you to being boring. And believe me, some ladies are allergic to nerds.

Am not saying if you follow the stated above that you will come across your woman, you might, or might not. It just the same like being kept in the dark, you probably don't know what you're missing.
Cc. Lalasticlala, ishilove.

Written by moi.

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Bullshıts

Nice piece @OP, point 1 nailed it all. #nomoneynolove

firstEVA:
is that how to show appreciation to your tutor?

Nowadays even mad men in suits get serious women as wives and how do I know...walk into any church, ask for their divorcees meeting and you'll be shocked to find many very good wives among them...

IceDude:
Adonbilivit! Are u a Nigerian?

Yup

Mbkite:
u are beautiful both in heart and face.

Atlantian:
Until your rent is due.

Rexeffiom:
Babe u lie

How Do U Know I Lied

reallest:
Yup

Nigerian ke! I dont even know why am finding it difficult to blv u

IceDude:
Nigerian ke! I dont even know why am finding it difficult to blv u

is not a must for u to believe