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Low Self Confidence by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Am a guy of 23yr old wit low self esteem issues, i feel like falling when walkin in public,my friends mak fun of my walkin step and find it hard to talk wit pple, Bcuz of dis i missed my Jamb exam last 5 yrs wen pple were going foward to submit, i was sitting at da back nd was afraid to walk to da front so i left my script on my table nd followed da backdoor to escape .unluckily for me da invigilator didn't pick my script (yes,it really happened) i've been to a doctor nd he said i will outgrow it but nw am gettin older. Now my frnd said we should go to a babalawo house nd get sometin to boost my confidence, wat shud i do now? |
Re: Low Self Confidence by horexy(f): 5:26pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Babalawo? Are u serious? Tho I av a feeling u made ds story up (i.e not submitting ur exam sheet...i mean who does dt?)...but if u are really ds shy...then u need help! Firstly, love ur self. If u love urself, trust me, u would av a great boost of confidence and a high self esteem... Secondly, u can get shades so dt u don't trip when walking...with ur shades on, u can look and pple, i mean gaze at them...without 'em really noticing...from here, u start boosting ur self worth. Tho, u might look off wearing shades on a cool evening or under a building, bt hey, who cares? Later, u can replace d shades with nerdy glasses...and b4 u know it, u are so cool without glasses. Meet pple, laugh, be free, a simple 'hi' won't hurt, above all, make friends wit pple who won't in anyway make u feel less of urself. I wish u d very best... P.S: If u try dt shii (not submitting ur exam sheet) wit my dad and he finds out, he wil slap d shyness out of ur system 5 Likes |
Re: Low Self Confidence by jamex93(m): 5:29pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
funny thou but DAT is not the solution maybe u should b forced to teach teenagers for like some months y not u start from there 1 Like |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Elkewwty(f): 5:30pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Nigerians and babalawo. Smh |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
jamex93:Sounds like suicide mission. |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Agbawotosabi(m): 5:31pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
The best way to overcome ur fear is to face is. U will get over it when u try to meet more people n socialise. Also try to chew some chewing gum when walking, it boost one confidence, try it, it works like magic |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
if u masturbate u loose self confidence so stop it if u do n re u a virgin? Lolzzz |
Re: Low Self Confidence by jamex93(m): 5:46pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Durent: u just have to do it I don't like seeing guys DAT can't stand bold in the public if I get friend like u, I go always dey set u up |
Re: Low Self Confidence by SMREXY(m): 5:47pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Face it at once... read articles on how to build self confidence, try relating more with the female folks and stop seeing yourself as being inferior to others. 2 Likes |
Re: Low Self Confidence by meimoks(f): 6:00pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Babalawo in this jet age? Dont try it oh that will just worsen your case. Try to socialize more not online though |
Re: Low Self Confidence by shammahyaro(f): 6:00pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
unfortunately i also have the same problem.I really liked a church so i decieded to visit it,on getting there i entered the gate,i was almost inside as i was about to step inside...boom!!...i left immediately,i didnt know what caused it.I was really interested in the church sha,,,sorry bro...bt d jamb tin was rili...stewwwpid |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Peachess(f): 6:01pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Wow, that serious. Well, I'm agoraphobic, I'm scared of public places. I don't like crowed areas because I feel someone's gonna talk about me. It even got to a point I became a snub, I hated myself so much. OP, I'll tell you face your fear if you have any, it worked for me. I'd advise you to change your friends if they make you feel bad about yourself, remember real friends don’t make you feel bad about yourself, they encourage you. Meet new people, just be free don't think about what they think of you. Just have this in your mind, you're wonderful. *sorry for my long post* 2 Likes |
Re: Low Self Confidence by churchkilo(m): 6:01pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
if u are a Christian,u can ask the Holy spirit to help u .if not give ur life to Jesus and the Holy spirit works it out for u,it's lot easier with Him cos He gives u the spirit of boldness and sound mind 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Low Self Confidence by kullozone(m): 6:09pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
ROTFLMFAO oh!!! this guy don make me sh!t for parlour sha. you no want make people look ur yansh for exam hall abi wetin funny dude...I use to feel it too but not like yours sha. But I've outgrown it like that Doc said. maybe you should paying too much attention to it. |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
mrsefan:Wetin concern masturbation wit confidence.. 1 Like |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Peachess:Thank u, dis is nice |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Peachess(f): 6:32pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Durent:You're welcome, + try to break out of your shell. |
Re: Low Self Confidence by lepasharon(f): 6:38pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
visit this site http://peopleskillsdecoded.com/ .....and buy his guide,he is really good |
Re: Low Self Confidence by kokoA(m): 6:39pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Na from village dem dey do you. Sorry, no solution for you until that oldwoman dies. |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
kokoA:f*vck you, i dey go babalawo nd he go gv me cure |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Johnnoah1st: 7:44pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
kokoA:GUY U SHOULD HAVE TRY AND PRETEND LIKE U GET SENSE NAA. |
Re: Low Self Confidence by amosade30(m): 9:38pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Elkewwty:u patronize dem too? |
Re: Low Self Confidence by SMREXY(m): 9:43pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Peachess:Good advice! 1 Like |
Re: Low Self Confidence by hottest111: 11:12pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
churchkilo:best advice ever |
Re: Low Self Confidence by MisterLongman(m): 1:41am On Jul 26, 2015 |
Can't stop laughing......... So Your friend thinks babalowo is solution, in short he believes that your problem has spiritual connotations.. Effect of watching too many nollywood movies especially the yoruba genre |
Re: Low Self Confidence by MisterLongman(m): 1:42am On Jul 26, 2015 |
Elkewwty:Na nollywood cause am |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Elkewwty(f): 9:18pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
amosade30: MisterLongman:Really? okay then.. amosade30: No, I don't. |
Re: Low Self Confidence by amosade30(m): 10:13pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Elkewwty:r u a muslim gal? Bsds op u doin gud |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Gurgle(f): 10:45pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Durent: Do you get nervous in public places? Like do you start sweating, heart starts beating very fast, hands start shaking Do you feel like when you talk you will embarrass yourself? When you are around people do you find yourself trying to figure out what they are thinking about you? Do you conclude that they think you are stup!d, uneducated.. When you go home from somewhere do you go over the event in your mind and pick all the negative aspects of it? Like if you stumbled over your words or stumbled in front of some people, does it bother you for a long time? |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Nobody: 1:24am On Jul 27, 2015 |
churchkilo: What has holy spirit got to do with this ? You have a bigger problem than the OP |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Richy4(m): 4:10am On Jul 27, 2015 |
So how do you go shopping if you cannot submit simple exam paper? that means you don't have bank account because i knew how crowd troop into bank as if the world wants to end. The only advice i can give you is 1. Get a mirror that shows your full length. Stand in front of it look at yourself and tell yourself that you look good both inside and outside. 2. Do not over dress but look presentable everytime. Make sure there are no color riots in what you are putting on. 3. A little deodorant will equally help when you intend to meet people you don't know even people you know. 4. If you are a Christian, try and join the ushers or any church group. If you are a Muslim, i guess their must be a group in the mosque that welcome people or reception or something. Just join them. By meeting and talking to people everytime in this process, the zeal to meet people will be great. Goodluck |
Re: Low Self Confidence by Nobody: 8:23am On Jul 27, 2015 |
Alexpissu:help me ask am oh |
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