i love my girlfriend a whole lot ut find it difficult to trust her cos of the things she has done during the period of our relationship. am still dere cos i love her and funnt enough she told me of these things herself if not i wouldnt have known. pls advise,am i missing out?

baby boy, i would advise you to focus your attention on your studies. forget about love this and love that or else you will be lost.

guy i don graduate ohh,i day go serve now. i ll kip ur talk in mind sha,thanks

It doesn't mata wat she's done b4 but rada, wat she's doing. . .
See me talking as if I know any. . .

But d fact that she had d guts 2 tel u 'bout her past warrants sum 'justice tempered with mercy'. . .

if you truely love her,then u'll trust her

Love without trust ain't love

BlueDiva:

Love without trust ain't love

Not necessarily true, some people destroy the trust and once the trust is gone, irrespective of the love, the relationship is doomed

I Love My Girlfriend A Whole Lot But I Dont Trust Her

sorry it happen at time
too much love cause that
at time

8inch+:

Not necessarily true, some people destroy the trust and once the trust is gone, irrespective of the love, the relationship is doomed

How can one love without trusting?
Can't figure

since she told u herself it implies she decided to come clean and start afresh, apparently she realizes she loves u more than she thought she had, so she probably did that to clear her conscience. how wouldn't such an act from her earn your trust. dude, she told u and not that u found out. bsides u neva suspected anytin, so wuld u start looking at her wit doubtful eyes and suspecting her for her every move and words.
if u continue with ur ways u may end up loosing the one true love of your life, because sumday u both wil have an arguement (its inevitable in all relationships) and d day u voice out sometin u tink she myt have done, and she didnt do, then , dats d day u wil lose her coz she wil realize u neva trusted her

It's very possible to love someone and not trust the person. They're two different things.

Datz ryt Radiant. Just dat love grows stronger when there is trust.

@ poster,
I dont blame u dat u find it difficult to trust her. . . it's just normal cos of d things u said she did while u guys were dating. What u need to do is forgive her. When u forgive her, u find it easy to trust her again. And plz stop giving d excuse dat u r still in d relationship cuz u love her. If u cant bring urself to trust her again, then u beta think of calling d relationship off cuz u will be hurting her a great deal.

Tgirl4real:

Datz ryt Radiant. Just dat love grows stronger when there is trust.

True.

Tgirl4real:

Datz ryt Radiant. Just dat love grows stronger when there is trust.

@ poster,
I dont blame u dat u find it difficult to trust her. . . it's just normal cos of d things u said she did while u guys were dating. What u need to do is forgive her. When u forgive her, u find it easy to trust her again. And plz stop giving d excuse dat u r still in d relationship cuz u love her. If u cant bring urself to trust her again, then u beta think of calling d relationship off cuz u will be hurting her a great deal.

Bravo, you ain't never lied

Ose o iyalode. Enu eyin agba bayin na lafin ko ogbon

U loe her but you dont trust her OK. . . For me, I love him but I dont trust him and once I dont trust him, I betta just leave him. ,

T.girl wat language is dat?
Plz speak wat every body will understand.

@poster

Same thing here, I have one African American lady friend I don't trust either. The best thing to avoid skepticism is just withdraw gradually.

@ cyanider,
I am just saying thanx to d poster ahead of me

@ Poster,

Talk things through and learn how to trust her. Believe me, to be trusted is even a better compliment than to be loved.

@ poster

A kiss and confess type? Dump her ass coz she thinks she is smarter than you and she obviously is.

Paranoia's now the order for the day.almost the whole world's got trust issue.

Trust