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You Dont want another heartbreak?

Are you serious?
You will tell yourself that you are in love, you will continue with the meaningless and undefined relationship, hoping and expecting he commits to you even though he has made it clear in no uncertain terms that he can't be with you.

keep lying to yourself! you will DEFINITELY have another heartbreak if you Dont leave him.


Many single, nice and amazing guys are out there and you are gumming yourself to one that is already involved!


welcome.

lilspiceyy:
Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your opinion in my situation . I had a terrible break up 3 years ago and I never opened my heart to any guy until recently I met this guy and he was so nice to me that we became best friends. Two weeks ago, he made his intention known to me that he is attracted to me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her. Although, they are thousands of miles miles apart but they've done a mini introduction and she visits his mum on weekends. I also have the same feelings for him but am not letting him know because, I feel it's not right. Whenever we are together, he talks about her all the time and at the same time acts like my boyfriend which is sending away other male admirers. Am confused because I don't want to experience another heart break. But, I want to keep our friendship.

U are a side chick,get another guy now.
Or hv u lost ur self esteem?
Forget him already!

jackyraw09:
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U didn't read but u dey dance.
This is epic

lilspiceyy:
Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your opinion in my situation . I had a terrible break up 3 years ago and I never opened my heart to any guy until recently I met this guy and he was so nice to me that we became best friends. Two weeks ago, he made his intention known to me that he is attracted to me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her. Although, they are thousands of miles miles apart but they've done a mini introduction and she visits his mum on weekends. I also have the same feelings for him but am not letting him know because, I feel it's not right. Whenever we are together, he talks about her all the time and at the same time acts like my boyfriend which is sending away other male admirers. Am confused because I don't want to experience another heart break. But, I want to keep our friendship.

He will chop you and leave you. Guys like side chicks without serious attachment. Who told you that he is not in love with that lady in question? By the time he is fed up with sleeping with you, he will silence all the questions you raise in the future with - 'didn't I tell you that I am in relationship in the first time?'.

If you succeed in dating him, another lady will succeed you too because karma is there for you. All in all, you will have yourself to be blamed, honestly.

lilspiceyy:
Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your opinion in my situation . I had a terrible break up 3 years ago and I never opened my heart to any guy until recently I met this guy and he was so nice to me that we became best friends. Two weeks ago, he made his intention known to me that he is attracted to me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her. Although, they are thousands of miles miles apart but they've done a mini introduction and she visits his mum on weekends. I also have the same feelings for him but am not letting him know because, I feel it's not right. Whenever we are together, he talks about her all the time and at the same time acts like my boyfriend which is sending away other male admirers. Am confused because I don't want to experience another heart break. But, I want to keep our friendship.

I think he's about to put you in the friends with benefit zone , the thing is most guys can do sex without love but ladies usually have feelings when they sleep with a guy. He knows what you want and how to make you feel love towards him , if you think he doesn't know how you feel about him then you're as naive as they come. Eventually if he sleeps with you then you'll just be a statistic to him.
Your best bet now is to get a proper relation with another guy , you could start as friends and build it as it progresses , limit your involvement with your friend as anything other than the friendship you share will lead nowhere ( only heartaches for you ). In time your dependency on him will fizzle out.

MrCork:



...so u want to break a guys heart coz he live 1000miles away & didn't introduce u to his mum?..... sweeery no ofeinse but why are u homebase fermales usualy cold blooded?

Seriously? pls read my post again.

neoapocalypse:



I think he's about to put you in the friends with benefit zone , the thing is most guys can do sex without love but ladies usually have feelings when they sleep with a guy. He knows what you want and how to make you feel love towards him , if you think he doesn't know how you feel about him then you're as naive as they come. Eventually if he sleeps with you then you'll just be a statistic to him.
Your best bet now is to get a proper relation with another guy , you could start as friends and build it as it progresses , limit your involvement with your friend as anything other than the friendship you share will lead nowhere ( only heartaches for you ). In time your dependency on him will fizzle out.

Thanks so much for this wealth of information.

Ephemmm:


He will chop you and leave you. Guys like side chicks without serious attachment. Who told you that he is not in love with that lady in question? By the time he is fed up with sleeping with you, he will silence all the questions you raise in the future with - 'didn't I tell you that I am in relationship in the first time?'.

If you succeed in dating him, another lady will succeed you too because karma is there for you. All in all, you will have yourself to be blamed, honestly.

I know it isn't the right thing to do since he has a babe he loves. Am working on my feeling for him. I believe with time, it will be history.

Freemanan:
Op.

well, most advice I have been seeing are what is expected. Since the guy already came clean, it's more appropriate to move far away from him as far as possible because you wouldn't want a lady to do same to your man.

Now on the otherhand, I won't advice total cut off. I know the pain Op is foreseeing in the process of this total cut off. So I will advice that you tell him straight that you can't date number or be his girl or anything intimate. But that your friendship remains untouched. I value friendship than dating so I understand Op's position in trying to save their friendship. So dear do not be foolish by being a side chick but stay as a friend. and I trust you know the limits of friendship.

Dats exactly my point! My friendship with him is more important to me dan dating him. We have the same goals and I believe being friends with will help me actualize dis goals in terms of sharing ideas. Although, he just made his intention known and nothing has happened yet, am glad I came here for help in terms of advice. You all brought me back to reality so, it will be just friendship Btw us and nothing else! it isn't right of me to do dat to anoda female wen I knew wat I went tru in my last relationship. So, thanks ladies and gentlemen I really appreciate.

lilspiceyy:
Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your opinion in my situation . I had a terrible break up 3 years ago and I never opened my heart to any guy until recently I met this guy and he was so nice to me that we became best friends. Two weeks ago, he made his intention known to me that he is attracted to me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her. Although, they are thousands of miles miles apart but they've done a mini introduction and she visits his mum on weekends. I also have the same feelings for him but am not letting him know because, I feel it's not right. Whenever we are together, he talks about her all the time and at the same time acts like my boyfriend which is sending away other male admirers. Am confused because I don't want to experience another heart break. But, I want to keep our friendship.

Not all d@ glitters is GOLD!! If he has done introduction with d other girl and talks about her all d time..walk away and don't look back otherwise u will get the same result u previously had in ur last relationship. Am talking out of experience.

Forgive me but I have to say this ***Nice gap teeth***

lilspiceyy:

Thanks.

Since last year way I don day toast you, you come go day fall for Emeka way no get ya time. Me dat will take good care of u and tlit u like a queen. U come and be tlipping for anoda guy abi?

Sebi U see ya life? E good?

dukeolumde:


Not all d@ glitters is GOLD!! If he has done introduction with d other girl and talks about her all d time..walk away and don't look back otherwise u will get the same result u previously had in ur last relationship. Am talking out of experience.

Forgive me but I have to say this ***Nice gap teeth***

Thanks.

you know what is right to do but you want someone to lie for you so you can lie down on you bed and be smiling. Since you want lies let me give some.

when next you visit the guy, don't wear bra and pant sit on the chair with you legs open, if he doesnt get the the signal throw your phone on the ground as if it fell from your hand turn your bombom up to centre of his prick pretending you are looking for your phone...after everything ask him if he loves you whatever his response come back to feed us back.

Get rid of him asap

Da PHUCK did u just said? They have done mini intro n u come hia for advice
Heartbreak never tire u! UR OWN NA PLAY!!!
NOW MAKE I MAKE U C CLEARLY
+U DON DEI TRIP FOR DIS GUY
+BUT D GUY GET GF
+SHE IS FAR FROM HIM
+NOW HE WANTS TO CHEAT ON HER
+because OF U
+U EVENTUALLY ACCEPT HIS PROPOSAL
+WHAT MAKES U THINK HE WUNT CHEAT ON U
+WHEN HE IS FAR FROM U IN USA,ASO ROCK,NORTH,SOUTH WEREDAFUCKEVER!
DAT GUY DON SHOW U HIM PERSONALITY.U KNOW D PROMISE HIM DON PROMISE DAT GIRL?
GIRL PHUCK DAT GUY! IF HIM VALUE UR FRIENDSHIP EVEN U TURN HIM DOWN U WILL STILL B FRIENDS OBVIOUSLY U LIKE D GUY SATS Y U CAME HIA SEEKING FOR ADVICE HOPING ANYBODY WILL JUST SAY YES DATE HIM SO DAT U GO SAY YES
GIRL BIG NOOOOOOO
U SNATCH A GIRLS MAN N DEY WILL SNATCH URS TOO EVEN IF IT AINT NOW PROBABLY WEN U GET MARRIAGES TO D DUDE
# NOBODY IS ACTUALLY SINGLE U R EITHER SNATCHING OR REPLACING# BUT DIS ONE U KNOW FOR SURE HE IS DATING A GIRL
WHAT WILL U DO IF U WERE IN DAT ODA GIRLS SHIES HOW WILL U FEEL
I KNOW TYPING HEAVEN N EARTH WUNT DISWADE U because GIRL R ALWAYS STUBBORN because D GUY GO DEI LIE U N U GO DEI BLV

Thank god for us! Guys,,,,wiceverphuckin way Gudluck

lilspiceyy:
Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your opinion in my situation . I had a terrible break up 3 years ago and I never opened my heart to any guy until recently I met this guy and he was so nice to me that we became best friends. Two weeks ago, he made his intention known to me that he is attracted to me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her. Although, they are thousands of miles miles apart but they've done a mini introduction and she visits his mum on weekends. I also have the same feelings for him but am not letting him know because, I feel it's not right. Whenever we are together, he talks about her all the time and at the same time acts like my boyfriend which is sending away other male admirers. Am confused because I don't want to experience another heart break. But, I want to keep our friendship.

In the movie, the new girl gets the guy. But this is not a movie my dear. Walk away, else it will end in tears!

This lady in question here needs ur advice,not judging her,my love! wat u have to do is just leave dat relationship nd open ur hrt for some1 specially made for ya dat will not give u hrt break again in ur lyf,gudluck.

Ephemmm:


He will chop you and leave you. Guys like side chicks without serious attachment. Who told you that he is not in love with that lady in question? By the time he is fed up with sleeping with you, he will silence all the questions you raise in the future with - 'didn't I tell you that I am in relationship in the first time?'.

If you succeed in dating him, another lady will succeed you too because karma is there for you. All in all, you will have yourself to be blamed, honestly.

nice advice

ohhhh, story that touches the heart

lilspiceyy:
Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your opinion in my situation . I had a terrible break up 3 years ago and I never opened my heart to any guy until recently I met this guy and he was so nice to me that we became best friends. Two weeks ago, he made his intention known to me that he is attracted to me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her. Although, they are thousands of miles miles apart but they've done a mini introduction and she visits his mum on weekends. I also have the same feelings for him but am not letting him know because, I feel it's not right. Whenever we are together, he talks about her all the time and at the same time acts like my boyfriend which is sending away other male admirers. Am confused because I don't want to experience another heart break. But, I want to keep our friendship.

HV lost my hrt so many tyms

Did one name heart race

lilspiceyy:

Thanks.

The two lovely kids behind in ur.. are they urs??

Deejavuu:
Op you better give yourself brain. That guy isn't going to leave his girlfriend for you,except you want to remain a side chick and experience another heartbreak. Dude clearly wants to eat his cake and have it. Run, run for your dear heart my dear.

Make yourself available for other dates and forget this guy. Don't be inside water and allow soap enter your eyes..

Wanted to say d same till I reaad ur comment

lilspiceyy:
Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your opinion in my situation . I had a terrible break up 3 years ago and I never opened my heart to any guy until recently I met this guy and he was so nice to me that we became best friends. Two weeks ago, he made his intention known to me that he is attracted to me but he has a girlfriend and he is in love with her. Although, they are thousands of miles miles apart but they've done a mini introduction and she visits his mum on weekends. I also have the same feelings for him but am not letting him know because, I feel it's not right. Whenever we are together, he talks about her all the time and at the same time acts like my boyfriend which is sending away other male admirers. Am confused because I don't want to experience another heart break. But, I want to keep our friendship.

Yes, u re truly confused

dukeolumde:


The two lovely kids behind in ur.. are they urs??

Nope. A relative.

chigoizie7:







Yes, u re truly confused

Thanks. Dat was y I came here for advice and I have gotten the information i wanted.

lilspiceyy:

Thanks. Dat was y I came here for advice and I have gotten the information i wanted.

Ok,

Couldn't suggest anything for u, because I was confused as well

Don't let that guy spoil your chances. Delete him fast. Check the guys you have imprisoned in the friend zone and pick one.

chigoizie7:



Ok,

Couldn't suggest anything for u, because I was confused as well

Lol. Thanks

lilspiceyy:
Lol. Thanks

Yea

lilspiceyy:

Nope. A relative.

K.

AfroKnight:
Don't let that guy spoil your chances. Delete him fast. Check the guys you have imprisoned in the friend zone and pick one.

Yep...friends like me