For one to have a SexFree Relationship, What are things He/She should avoid in Relationships?

Konji

It's really not about what to avoid. It's about mutual decision...if you don't have a strong decision about it, you still won't avoid whatever you think you should avoid.

Next is to be guided by the word of God.

Why s3x free relationship? Are you a learner?

avoid fun raising moments

Jacksparrow0712:
Why s3x free relationship? Are you a learner?

Lol! What does a sex free relationship even means? Body na wood ni.

Only the op would know what that means. Lol. In as much as relationship is not about sex, any relationship without s3x is bound to crumble and fail. S3x shouldn't be underestimated in relationships

ronald4lif:


Lol! What does a sex free relationship even means? Body na wood ni.

Jacksparrow0712:
Only the op would know what that means. Lol. In as much as relationship is not about sex, any relationship without s3x is bound to crumble and fail. S3x shouldn't be underestimated in relationships

Gbam. No sex, no relationship. Without fxck wetin me and a girl go dey do for house nau. Bible study I suppose.

They fail to understand the only difference between them and every other female friends is the 'S3x' involved

ronald4lif:


Gbam. No sex, no relationship. Without fxck wetin me and a girl go dey do for house nau. Bible study I suppose.

Sex free relationship? Well, depends on how much i love the chic. If thats what she wants, then i will respect her choice.................might be shinning another cunja while respecting her choice tho..

Jacksparrow0712:
Why s3x free relationship? Are you a learner?

come again pls

Where am I coming?

shegsky:

come again pls

ronald4lif:


Gbam. No sex, no relationship. Without fxck wetin me and a girl go dey do for house nau. Bible study I suppose.

Wanna be a 'FATHER'

shegsky:

Wanna be a 'FATHER'

You forgot there's a thing called condom and also contraceptives.

No babe can try that with me, not in this dispensation. If it were to be in the 60s, that's woulda been a different ball game

ndcide:
It's really not about what to avoid. It's about mutual decision...if you don't have a strong decision about it, you still won't avoid whatever you think you should avoid.

Next is to be guided by the word of God.

THRASH! then why are we in a relationship in the first place. EXCEPT IF SHE'S THE ONE I PLAN TO MARRY.

It appears these above commentators hold nothing of substance in their relationships. If sex is the pinnacle - the defining characteristic - of your relationship, you're doomed. Point blank.

OP, you both need to lay out some guidelines complete with backup actions to take regarding what should happen should one or both parties 'stray'. The important thing is make sure you're on the same page. In other words, please ensure you're with someone who's ideals match yours. GL.

ronald4lif:


You forgot there's a thing called condom and also contraceptives.

nah. Who owns that ? Who manufacture such things. I dont do such. Okay. Am just kinda blunt,also my religion is against such act when u aint ready to be a father.

ronald4lif:


Gbam. No sex, no relationship. Without fxck wetin me and a girl go dey do for house nau. Bible study I suppose.

Johnnoah1st:
THRASH! then why are we in a relationship in the first place. EXCEPT IF SHE'S THE ONE I PLAN TO MARRY.

Simple, then why going into an affair with someone you cant marry in the first place. ALL THESE TEST RUNNING GUYZ ARE INVOLVE IN WILL SURELY BOOMERANG OOO.

shegsky:

Simple, then why going into an affair with someone you cant marry in the first place. ALL THESE TEST RUNNING GUYZ ARE INVOLVE IN WILL SURELY BOOMERANG OOO.

ooh! so u dont want me to flex b4 marriage?

ronald4lif:


Gbam. No sex, no relationship. Without fxck wetin me and a girl go dey do for house nau. Bible study I suppose.

Not only Bible study. You both could sing SONGS OF PRAISES IN ONE ACCORD TO THE HOLY ONE, Then seek God face in your prayers together.

shegsky:

Not only Bible study. You both could sing SONGS OF PRAISES IN ONE ACCORD TO THE HOLY ONE, Then seek God face in your prayers together.

I don't need a girlfriend for the purpose of singing praises to the holy one. I can solitarily perform that myself.

Johnnoah1st:
ooh! so u dont want me to flex b4 marriage?

You mean FLEX . MY GUY, you will surely flex at the appropriate time. As yoruba adage signifies ' Eni to ba kanju la obe to gbona, a jo ni enu.
To me, i believe your first 30yrs on earth should be use to serve God and achiéve your goals and aim in life without giving room for any form of distraction, and the remaining 70years or thereabout can be use to FLEX with your duly wedded wife.

EnlightenedSoul:
It appears these above commentators hold nothing of substance in their relationships. If sex is the pinnacle - the defining characteristic - of your relationship, you're doomed. Point blank.

OP, you both need to lay out some guidelines complete with backup actions to take regarding what should happen should one or both parties 'stray'. The important thing is make sure you're on the same page. In other words, please ensure you're with someone who's ideals match yours. GL.

Thanks. Although am not in any for now, and i left my ex just for the above reason (sex).she pesters me seriously but i cant just do such now.
And these boils down to the fact that for us to wipe away all these pre marital sex of a thing. Ladies, i mean ladies av a great work to do. When ladies zip up, Most guyz wont have any option as well as to zip up. God help us all.

Johnnoah1st:
THRASH! then why are we in a relationship in the first place. EXCEPT IF SHE'S THE ONE I PLAN TO MARRY.

I understand you very well. I'm a man too. Just that I strongly believe in chastity for both male and female. Hence, I see things from that perspective.

It's just who I am.

shegsky:

Thanks. Although am not in any for now, and i left my ex just for the above reason (sex).she pesters me seriously but i cant just do such now.
And these boils down to the fact that for us to wipe away all these pre marital sex of a thing. Ladies, i mean ladies av a great work to do. When ladies zip up, Most guyz wont have any option as well as to zip up. God help us all.

Get real. Ladies are not the keepers of your breeches, they're not responsible for the personal battle of controlling and curtailing your own urges. There are people out there with your outlook. Find them.

Avoid confinement... If the girl is clingy, forget it. Avoid regular meetings especially alone. Don't talk about it (s3x) too much. Make sure the relationship is engaging in terms of discussion and verbal discourse. A boring or cold attitude might need only se:x to oil it... So engag each other a lot in terms of activities outside emotional stuffs....


This is from experience....

EnlightenedSoul:


Get real. Ladies are not the keepers of your breeches, they're not responsible for the personal battle of controlling and curtailing your own urges. There are people out there with your outlook. Find them.

In English please

Freemanan:
Avoid confinement... If the girl is clingy, forget it. Avoid regular meetings especially alone. Don't talk about it (s3x) too much. Make sure the relationship is engaging in terms of discussion and verbal discourse. A boring or cold attitude might need only se:x to oil it... So engag each other a lot in terms of activities outside emotional stuffs....


This is from experience....

Thumbs up Egbon.

Freemanan:

In English please

Which part needs explaining?

always meet in open places,,don't you dare stay over night coz the devil might be licking his eyes wf his tongue wen deed has been done..