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Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 5:22pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
I have this motto about EXes,which is: Being friends with an EX after a breakup means I was never in love with him during the relationship. I find it awkward to even talk or chat with my ex not to talk of seeing each other... So romancelanders,whats ur take,can you be friends with an EX and still feel comfortable with it? Do you feel like you were never in love with them? Lets keep it rolling in y'all 1 Like |
Re: Friends With My EX? by kossyablaze(m): 5:23pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Hmmm well...its not easy buh I must say you really have to move on for ur best interest...I'm still in good terms with my exs tho buh there's this particular one I couldn't even list as an ex.To me,she never existed and I don't know her even when I'm hanged by the balls,I still don't know her. SEEING,DATING or GOING BACK TO UR EX,IS LIKE LICKING BACK UR VOMITS Now playing :FETTY WAP-TRAP QUEEN I C U Behira Smartkossy 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Friends With My EX? by buygala(m): 5:25pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
I keep being friends with all my exes because one never knows where help may come from in the future .... And yes.... I still have 'accidental' sex with my exes ... That's how they will be like... "Vicky this has to stop, you know I have a boyfriend" And I will be like... "I think so too... I don't know what got over us" .... Yet we get back to fvcking some days later If not for sex with my exes, how could I have survived being single for so many weeks? 15 Likes |
Re: Friends With My EX? by IamLEGEND1: 5:27pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
there is no being "Friends" with ze ex. there is only going on the hunt for new prey |
Re: Friends With My EX? by MyaBriggs52(f): 5:36pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Well it depends on the reason behind the breakup. I don't think there is anything wrong in being friends with an EX if it was mutual. |
Re: Friends With My EX? by bammy777(m): 5:39pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Life with different people. As for me , Ex "till we meet in next life ". Ex don't exist. |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Princeparix(m): 5:40pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
A f**k that has been f**ked can be re-f**ked I still remain friends with my ex but the eating-long-spoon kind of friends 2 Likes |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
MyaBriggs52:hi. Is this mayapop |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
eeeew. Keeping contact with an ex is disgusting,its like sniffing spoilt food,now imagine having sex with an ex,that's eating ur vomit. That's what it is to me sha. If u are my ex don't text me,don't call me,don't wish me a happy birthday,just buzz off! Exes are bad news. Op.its BEIGN not been. 1 Like |
Re: Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 5:54pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
buygala:HAHAHHAHA...a player spotted,gurgle come and see him Cutehector na so u sef dey do o,even black mrcock and john4aguero...or bankyblue. 1 Like |
Re: Friends With My EX? by MyaBriggs52(f): 5:55pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Largas:No am not |
Re: Friends With My EX? by SirShymexx: 5:59pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
ahsekeena: Lol, you're so immature. There's nothing bad in being "friends" with ya exes, but there has to be a limit and you should stay away from seeing each other or spending time together. Apart from these two, everything else can normal - especially phone calls and text messages. Exes are just human beings, who happen to be part of ya journey in life. It just never worked out but that doesn't make them an enemy. 8 Likes |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Pls tell her again. Her comment and way of reasoning almost made me throw up. I am friends with some of my exes, we have a good platonic relationship now, they will always be my friend, some are married with kids now. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Friends With My EX? by SirShymexx: 6:15pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
sinestro24: That's what's up. A lot of exes know more about you and will always care about you more than most people, especially if the relationship was a long term one. So why deny yourself the privilege that comes with getting to know them and bringing them into ya life for a long period? A lot of exes are like bosom friends you had sexual relationships. And once you can negate the sex bit, by not put yourself in a space where it will happen - then there's no harm in keeping the friendship, unless the individual is perverted. 1 Like |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 6:15pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
SirShymexx: And u think u are mature? Becos u are friends with ur exes that miraculously makes u more mature than I am? Well,its ur choice and It doesn't have to be mine. I don't see my exes as enemies,we just stop being friends. Simple 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 6:31pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Re: Friends With My EX? by SirShymexx: 6:31pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
ahsekeena: Lol. Not claiming anything - being vain is foreign to me. Regardless, immature in the context I was alluding to has to do with inability to take responsibility and lack of wisdom, when it comes to judgement. I'll just stop there Err, let's take the "mature" bit out of it since it seems that'd hit a nerve. So why would you stop being friends with someone you once saw as ya other half and someone who probably knows/understands you than most people cos it never worked out? Does it have anything to do with ya inability to take responsibility for whatever role you played in the break-up, or you can trust ya judgement when it comes to folks you were sexually/romantically linked to in the past? |
Re: Friends With My EX? by McBeee(m): 6:37pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
misspicy:same here if i use to be in love with u, even if we didnt date, we cant be friends cos the feelings and awkwardness will be all over the place |
Re: Friends With My EX? by tuffgongjo(m): 6:38pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
I keep 'em as friends cus of emergency Kpanshing. |
Re: Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 6:38pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1:Prey...ha hummmm |
Re: Friends With My EX? by IamLEGEND1: 6:42pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
misspicy:That's how we (hunt)roll #ApexPredators |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
friends with benefits.....cos "once debe, always debe" |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Cutehector(m): 6:54pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
misspicy:misspicy, pls be my ex gurlfrnd |
Re: Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 6:59pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Cutehector:I was never your current gf. What do u tink abt this? |
Re: Friends With My EX? by misspicy(f): 7:03pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Ladyboss...
Farano bae
mr NL tomfrench
And miss NL tophaz Where at y'all |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
PEOPLE MOVE ON! Befriending an ex, invites terrible and unnecessary flashbacks, sandwiched with Depression.. 2 Likes |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
What's wrong with being friends with an ex? Not all, but some personalities and experiences have the ability to inspire a move from relationship to mutual friendship. Although, I gotta say there're some true-born actors out there who'll play the role of a friend rather convincingly, for years, only to pull something funny, so I'd urge you to exercise caution and weed out the bullshyt. I will say that, for me, there're limits to post-relationship friendships that aren't there otherwise. 1 Like |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Gurgle(f): 7:20pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
misspicy: LOL please don't call me again haha mehhhhn |
Re: Friends With My EX? by vizkiz: 7:21pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
ahsekeena: yeah, that is why I always tell you to upgrade! |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Cutehector(m): 7:57pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
misspicy:lol I think I hav to do smth abt it |
Re: Friends With My EX? by boynigeria(m): 7:59pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
b |
Re: Friends With My EX? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
SirShymexx: I'm gonna keep my reply simple. If the person knows/understands me so well,why then did we break up? U'll ask,how about exes I broke it off with,it means I did not know/understand the person as well! What's the point of being friends with someone I do not understand well. U make friends,u lose friends. When dealing with past relationships,I live by one rule;there's no future in the past. Especially when I go into a new relationship, I severe all contact with my ex. Would u like ur gurl calling up her ex boyfriend in the name of "keeping in touch"? Do u know the "okafor's law"? Well,I won't like it if my man calls his ex for any reason whatsoever. U can't date me and still be calling ur ex girlfriend,tori kini? And what do exes have that I cannot get elsewhere? What? 2 Likes |
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