A female lecturer of ours, while gisting with us in the course of her lecture, once told us how very ''non-understanding'' her hubby is in bed, pointing that 'most times, she's forced to start the play before the man queue in. This she explained is a result of her saying NO to his advances, hoping the man will understand that the NO is actually a YES.

She told us this and concluded that; NEVER SAY NO WHEN YOU MEAN YES.

Fast forward to present;
Ladies are known to say one thing but mean the other. Take for instance, you meet a Lady crying, you try finding out what's wrong, then she Tells you......Nothing.... When it's obviously SOMETHING.

These words and opposit of theirs most times lead to their own undoing. One will not know when to fire on or break! This again makes rapists(not the rape by strangers though) feel, ''it's their usual stunt, she's enjoying it''.

You're in a room with a Lady who craves for your touch, yet, she pretends to want to be further away from you. You just sit there confused, not knowing either to GO or remain where you are. Then she gets tired of your lack of swimming deep into her mind to find out what she wants, then leaves your house, never to return, labeling you, 'Chaff guy'.

The bad guys, when caught in this kind of scenario decide to 'zoom in' whether the light is GREEN or RED. Then we call it rape.

Ladies, learn how to tell men when the Light's either GREEN or RED and stand by your words/actions.
Only say what you mean!

<Stevedure.

I like a gurl dat says yes to me and no to others

Am here

No means No and Yes means Yes.....



Nobody gives a hoot about what women mean when they say them.