godoluwa:
tell that your friend that she is sick. am very sure that shes a dirty gal(obun ni). I prefer to assist my wife instead of employing any fuccking housemaid. most of these housemaid goes extra mile to become madam of the house by force. try & talk senses to her head

Toks2008:
THE MAID FACTOR...A must read for every lady

I just got a disturbing news from my neighborhood about a man who just got their house maid pregnant and this is why i decided to write this article for everyone to read but before i continue i will like to quote this scripture not to justify the act but to lay emphases on how strange it is:

"There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand:The way of an eagle in the sky, The way of a serpent on a rock, The way of a ship in the middle of the sea, And the way of a man with a maid" Proverbs 30:18-19.

I get so surprised when a woman finds out that her hubby is making out with a maid and she uses words like "How could you? a COMMON MAID"

Now ladies open your eyes and widen your reasoning faculty and get this straight.

Men are visual,we think about sex way more than you do as women and we are very polygamous by nature meaning we naturally love to be with as many ladies as possible but if you find a man who is decent and disciplined then such a man is a rare breed.

The Nigerian mentality that your level in life is determined by how much money you make or your educational background is quite honestly annoying; every occupation should be accorded it's dignity, housemaids offer an essential service to the society and should be respected as such.

That stated, when a woman fails to realize that part of the seduction process involves the respect and care she offers her husband I.e in the little things she does, like making him food, paying attention to his attire, etc if she totally reneges on these duties and leaves it to the housemaid, she effectively sets up her husband to be seduced by the housemaid; besides, a housemaid is so awestruck by the attention she receives from the master of the house, she is willing to submit to a lot of things madam no longer deems necessary and if you're a man, you know there's nothing more flattering nor seductive than a willing woman....

In short, it is my opinion that when a man begins to cast a lustful glance at the housemaid,in most cases it's a symptom that madam is neglecting her duties somewhere.

Wait guys, i am not promoting randy lifestyle or justifying the shameless act of sleeping with a maid not because SHE IS A MAID but how can you have your wife in the same house and yet sleeping with a maid? This is arrant nonsense i must say

But then to the women, please if you must get a house maid, do not go for the type with conspicous sexual body features.

Lets leave hypocrisy, if my wife brings home a maid that has sweet curves, i will call her to order and ask her to send the maid back. Prevention is better than fighting temptation.

A maid is human, a maid was born the same way you were born, a maid has the same feminine sexual features just as you have and even usually younger,Stop employing matured maids if you have a man at home to prevent unpleasant situation.

If you like ,start saying you trust your husband, he can not do this or that but by the time it happens, don't say i have not warned you.

Be wise

juanmiguel:

that verse of d bible was actually refering to a man and a woman falling in love. It says d fourth one is 'the way of a man with a maiden' The op shud v even quoted from vs 21 to 23, dats where the bible talks abt a servant woman that takes the place of her mistress and its one of the four things that the earth itself cannot tolerate.

drnoel:


Ten thousands of billion of Billions Blistering Barnacles and thundering typhoons of likes to u sir. A word is enof 4 the wise.

sfx9ja:


"There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand:The way of an eagle in the sky, The way of a serpent on a rock, The way of a ship in the middle of the sea, And the way of a man with a maid" Proverbs 30:18-19.

Nice write up op. But u clearly misunderstood the bible here. That phrase translates to the ways of a man with a girl.

Toks2008:


Better take over because some ladies may come for your head.

remsonik:
Nonsense post op!!
You are advocating for a younger maid but pls are you sure you are not a pedophile. A man like you that can't control his erection will sleep with any lady around him.
May I ask do you sleep with your sisters. Self control bro. I fear for the woman who will marry you with this your write up.
I have lived with my sister for 7 years yet the hubby hasn't looked at me or any other woman despite the fact that I am more endowed than my sis front and back.
Change your mindset!!

Eureka123:



She has said her own nah. But seriously, if a man ever gave me unnecessary trouble via domestic abuse or this cheating saga, the best thing na to introduce rat poison oo. Make the living live in peace. Before person die from wetin person no sabi.

kikilove:
Ok I give my rights of FTC to blessedvisky.

cococandy:


A minor can't work for pay legally.
So whoever you're paying to keep her as your maid is exploiting her with your help.
I'm sure you won't like to give your own child out to work as an underage maid to anyone but will encourage others to do so to children of poorer parents who are ignorant and greedy and won't mind using their kids to survive.

The earlier you learn that self control is the way out, the better for you. The solution is not using children as maids. It's for those guys who have minds like yours to learn to control themselves.

I don't know what's all these nonsense one reads here everyday. We are talking of how to move the country forward and you're busy propagating child labor because in your mind all men lack self control. If the ladies insult you guys with that phrase, you will start crying. But here you are lending credence to the generalization that men have no self control. Are all of them like you?

Do you all sleep with your female classmates and female colleagues because you come in contact with them everyday? So a man can't have an adult female employee without thinking of sleeping with her? Do you hope to one day employ people as a boss or will women be out of the question because you don't trust yourself around them?

What's wrong with you self?

This is not one of those topics that one will be like just ignore them they are talking nonsense. You're actually here propagating child labor. An offense for which people serve jail time in saner climes.

Pls stop this nonsense. It's enough.

LaRoyalHighness:
If I was a man... I would be ashame to read this. Dogs indeed.

Toks2008:


come to think of it.

A maid washes my cloths and that of the baby

makes my food

runs errands for me

Always at my beck and call

makes the bed
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.will it be out of place if i start admiring her?

Toks2008:


Some guys will always say they are different until they come face to face with the situatiion.

Which man will accept that he has the tendency to cheat on his woman? how many ladies have used that phrase...my man is different...just to realize how myopic they have been.

A man no matter how highly placed can decend so low as ladies put it to sleep with a dirty looking maid if she is allowed to do stuffs that madamm should do and that is the message im passing accross.

Toks2008:


i will like to quote this scripture not to justify the act but to lay emphases on how strange it is:

"There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand:The way of an eagle in the sky, The way of a serpent on a rock, The way of a ship in the middle of the sea, And the way of a man with a maid" Proverbs 30:18-19.

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Gemc3:


Admiring her in what manner? Sexual or just admiring her for her good work (like ur boss would admire you for being a wonderful employee)

Mindfulness:
So the solution is to employ kids instead of sending them to school so that men are not tempted because they are weak polygamous by nature?

LadyFiona:
I refuse to quote mediocrity directly sis, I quoted you because the guy you're quoting is an arseeeeee and a hypocrisy personified. ISIS

Hope they will say something similar when wife falls for the driver, gardener and gateman too. Damn!!!!!! Nigerians

LadyFiona:
I refuse to quote mediocrity directly sis, I quoted you because the guy you're quoting is an arseeeeee and a hypocrisy personified. ISIS

Hope they will say something similar when wife falls for the driver, gardener and gateman too. Damn!!!!!! Nigerians

DrGroove:

NOISE MAKER!!!

LadyFiona:
I refuse to quote mediocrity directly sis, I quoted you because the guy you're quoting is an arseeeeee and a hypocrisy personified. ISIS

Hope they will say something similar when wife falls for the driver, gardener and gateman too. Damn!!!!!! Nigerians

2scorehigh:
This article is completely meaningless to me. I don't see any point in it all.

If you want to fhuck your maid; go ahead and do it but don't just come here and try to justify it!

It's like a thief telling people,"Hey, look, I'm a thief and if you don't hide your wallet very well, I'm going to steal it because I can't help it!"

Akuko.

Go to abroad and present this your logic. By the time the divorce lawyers have ripped you apart, torn you to pieces and completely rid you of all you've got, you'll be the one begging your next wife not to hire any maid again!

Self-control is the key. Nothing more; nothing less.

WafiJoe:


Madam, you guys are deceiving yourself. The gardener, driver bla bla bla you mentioned are not known to seduce their madams (unlike the maids). One thing about Nigerian women is that they know the truth within them but they choose to ignore it. Go ahead, get a sexy housemaid but do not come here to cry when the deed has been done by your potent husband.

LadyFiona:
Na!!!, I am not deceiving myself. The bunch of the maids do not seduce but the rabid animals seduces them when madam happens not to be around. It is on rare cases that maids seduces the boss. So my examples still stands.

Gemc3:


Admiring her in what manner? Sexual or just admiring her for her good work (like ur boss would admire you for being a wonderful employee)

peppyluv02:
Self acclaimed randy dogs..and not even ashamed to accept they are one. They can even sleep with a voluptuous mad woman or transgender.....

SAMBARRY:
I'm actually through with the thread. If your wife bring her little cousin to assist.knack am

if she brings her aunt's daughter knack am
if she brings someone who is hiv positive knack am

GOOD MORNING!

InvertedHammer:
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Simple solution.

If you want a maid, bring one from oga's side of the family.

Oga will not sleep with his relation.

That's all.
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LadyFiona:
Na!!!, I am not deceiving myself. The bunch of the maids do not seduce but the rabid animals seduces them when madam happens not to be around. It is on rare cases that maids seduces the boss. So my examples still stands.

LadyFiona:
Then you begin to imagine how flamboyantly stewpid and dumbo they are. It is just like letting yourself low. Because she does everything for you , you've to fall for her huh!!!!? For the sake of common sense, why not seduce your mum too because she does all and more.