Have you ever lied to keep the peace? They say ignorance is bliss. Is it easier to let someone remain ignorant over a matter than to give them truth and thus create friction?

What do we do? If love is the satisfaction of the laws, are we justified in lying to be at peace with man?

We're taught that to be at peace with man (the ways of man) is to be at enmity with God.

ammamat:

Have you ever lied to keep the peace? They say ignorance is bliss. Is it easier to let someone remain ignorant over a matter than to give them truth and thus create friction?

What do we do? If love is the satisfaction of the laws, are we justified in lying to be at peace with man?

We're taught that to be at peace with man (the ways of man) is to be at enmity with God.

mmm is this not stretching truth? how does not being in peace with our fellow human beings make peace with God?

this is what the bible says "Because the carnal mind is enmity against God; for it is not subject to the law of God, nor indeed can be. So then, those who are in the flesh cannot please God [size=16pt][/size]

", to be spiritually minded is life and peace. Because the carnal mind is enmity against God; for it is not subject to the law of God, nor indeed can be. So then, those who are in the flesh cannot please God. But you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. Now if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he is not His. And if Christ is in you, the body is dead because of sin, but the Spirit is life because of righteousness.
"But if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, He who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who dwells in you. " Romans 8:6-11

I mean , i will say that always stay faithful no matta what
Thats to my point of view

it depends
if im in no mood to make noise i will
tho im rarely
moreso ignorance is more often bliss in the case of men no offence.

Nope!
I'd tell him.
If he can handle it, fine.
If he can't, oh well!

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Being the sort of person i am. . .I just can't keep things bottled in. . .Cus i feel its very dangerous. . .especially to your well being. . .that's kinda of impossible. . .If he can't deal with the truth being told to him. . .then that's his cup of tea. . .cus I ain't gona put myself in an uncomfortable situation for anyone.

De question is; do women ever tell the truth?
Women are natural born liars!

hmmmm . . .

Depends on what the issue is.

At least they know they are liars, that makes dem somewhat truthful

iice:

Depends. . .somethings are not worth the effort

i agree with that too, i will admit to stretching the truth sometimes if i know for sure that it will cause this huge fight btw me and my hubby or other family members. i'll say wat will make u happy just to avoid argument cuz i hate being in an argument which will lead to both of us being pissed off at each other and not speaking. i do not think its worth the time.

It really depends on the situation and my mood.

Hi,



Do NOT lie.

Just tell him the truth.  He'd respect you the more for telling the truth.  You'd be found out if you lie and that's going to make matters worse for you.

In saying that, you shouldn't be doing things that would warrant your wanting to lie to your fella.



kiwi992.

if na 2 bring peace hmmmm i would try 2 decorate my utterance with the opposite of the exact situation(okay i mean i fit lie small)
but days later when the issue might have died down i'l definately tell him the truth by passing the message in a much more romantic scenerio

how can lie ever bring peace?

Somethings are not worth the effort like someone said. Let us be real, it all depends on the level of understanding between both parties. Also there is something "like telling the truth but not the whole truth" And also what mama don't know wont hurt mama right *wink*

I could lie but i speak the truth when am tired or sleepy so i wont even bother lying cos i may not be able to keep it up Why put myself thru agro to make some man happy?

If he can't take the truth and deal with me maturely for what ever reason then I assume it's just not worth it . . . . .

I won't lie but he would get only half truths.

Hollysmile:

De question is; do women ever tell the truth?
Women are natural born liars!

Amen