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Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by CharlesPhc: 5:53pm On Aug 20, 2015
The man is an irresponsible man. By the way who has custody of the child after the dissolution?
8 Sexless years for a woman is no joke. The Court would have also asked the man if he had also stayed for 8 years without se.x too. He was busying himself with other women while his wife kept waiting for him

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Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by AreaFada2: 5:53pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:
The men of now don't last again in bed and that's the cause..... , they get over excited and overwhelmed in bed leading to them not satisfying the needs of their ladies
And women who don't satisfy their men. What is the reason? They have tried too many manlinesses and has become to lose and they lie in bed like a log of wood? You think it is fair to generalise all women like that? With sex available easily now, what is there to be over excited about? shockedshocked
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by NemzySeries(m): 5:59pm On Aug 20, 2015
So nw d current Trend is to dissolve marriage,Child rape/molestation or sum orda terrible tinz done by eida men or women?

..........i sha kw dat w'll sum day overcome as well as meet d right pple dat wud b positively significant to our lives
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by Nobody: 6:02pm On Aug 20, 2015
EggovinMma:


Bia nwoke m, carry yourself comot for my side.I don't have any atom of love to give to you.Vamoose!


grin smh
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by ckmayoca: 6:03pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


Am a lady of course. .



You can say that again

Is it really painful when that thing u mentioned happens? How do u feel at that moment gan.
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by SUGARBEE(f): 6:04pm On Aug 20, 2015
AreaFada2:
And women who don't satisfy their men. What is the reason? They have tried too many manlinesses and has become to lose and they lie in bed like a log of wood? You think it is fair to generalise all women like that? With sex available easily now, what is there to be over excited about? shockedshocked

Areafada honey, you would like to go up back again and read to comprehend what I meant
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by Nobody: 6:04pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:
The men of now don't last again in bed and that's the cause..... , they get over excited and overwhelmed in bed leading to them not satisfying the needs of their ladies

Talk about ur bf alone
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by SUGARBEE(f): 6:08pm On Aug 20, 2015
ckmayoca:


Is it really painful when that thing u mentioned happens? How do u feel at that moment gan.

Here's an example.. After you've anticipated for 8 o'clock to clock so you would watch a football match nepa takes light at exactly eight.. How does it feel?
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by ronald4lif(m): 6:09pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:
The men of now don't last again in bed and that's the cause..... , they get over excited and overwhelmed in bed leading to them not satisfying the needs of their ladies

Stop seeing one minute men. Seek for those who can not only last longer but ensure they induce orgasmic pleasure and you'd know that your statement is erroneous and factless.
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by Toks2008(m): 6:13pm On Aug 20, 2015
jnrbayano:
Igando Igando
The famous court for the marriage rascals
lol
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by ronald4lif(m): 6:14pm On Aug 20, 2015
The man excuse for not making love to his wife is groundless. Sex mustn't lead to procreation and if he was truly concerned about her not getting pregnant and going through another CS section he'd have been using condoms or she'll be on contraceptives.

Good the court dissolve the misalliance though. Everyone can now move on with their lives and live it to their own terms.

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Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by Quatermaine: 6:15pm On Aug 20, 2015


So what will now happen to their son?





Wahlai.. Been a while since I was here last.

Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by SUGARBEE(f): 6:18pm On Aug 20, 2015
ronald4lif:


Stop seeing one minute men. Seek for those who can not only last longer but ensure they induce orgasmic pleasure and you'd know that your statement is erroneous and factless.

Hmmm
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by Nobody: 6:19pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:
The men of now don't last again in bed and that's the cause..... , they get over excited and overwhelmed in bed leading to them not satisfying the needs of their ladies
this talk is funny sha... Indomie men in other words
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by Okies27(m): 6:27pm On Aug 20, 2015
Aminat508:
An Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Thursday dissolved the 14-year-old marriage between one Mrs Adeola Adelani and her husband, Olajide, after the wife said she had been sex-starved for eight-years.

Delivering his judgment, the President of the court, Mr Hakeem Oyekan, said that the estranged couple were tired of the marriage and all efforts to reconcile both parties had failed.

“ Since both parties consented to the dissolution of their marriage, this court has no choice than to dissolve the marriage.

“The couple can no longer stay together because the marriage has broken down totally; both parties are no longer husband and wife, they are free to go their separate ways.

“Both parties are to keep the peace all the time; any violation of the order should be reported to the police for redress,” Oyekan ruled.

The petitioner, Adeola, 39, had approached the court seeking to dissolve her marriage to Olajide for allegedly refusing to make love to her for eight years.
She told the court that she was married to Olajide about 14 years ago and had a 12-year-old son with him.

“My husband refused to make love to me for eight years. I want to have another baby because our son is 12-year-old and I am not satisfied with only one child,’’ she told the court.

The petitioner accused her husband of abandoning her and their child for an unknown destination since 2013.

She alleged that her husband had refused to disclose where he lives and where he works, but said that he always sent his son’s school fees and house rent through her bank account.

Adeola said her husband told her pastor that he had married another woman and had children, and that she should find another husband for herself.

The petitioner said she was a sad woman with neighbours referring to her as a “rejected and
abandoned property.’’

She begged the court to dissolve the marriage because she wanted to move on with her life.

In his response, Olajide, 45, a businessman, did not deny the allegation of starving his wife of sex.

He said that he refused to make love to his wife because he did not want her to have another baby because the first baby was born through Caesarean Section (CS).

“I don’t want to risk her life because she gave birth through CS, this is why I have distanced myself from her and I want her to take care of our child.

“Besides, I did not abandon my wife, I only decided to move closer to my work place due to the distance from my house.

“I always squat with my friends and I come home once in a while,’’ he said.

He claimed that he had no other wife nor children elsewhere.

Olajide, however, conceded to the dissolution of the marriage because he was also fed up with the union.



http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/2015/08/sex-starved-wife-secures-divorce-as-court-dissolves-14-yr-old-marriage/
. No need for the divorce. She would have improvised with banana or cucumber ...
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by ckmayoca: 6:30pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


Here's an example.. After you've anticipated for 8 o'clock to clock so you would watch a football match nepa takes light at exactly eight.. How does it feel?

Disappointed and helpless
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by ckmayoca: 6:33pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


Here's an example.. After you've anticipated for 8 o'clock to clock so you would watch a football match nepa takes light at exactly eight.. How does it feel?

Disappoi.nted and helples.s but there is generator grin
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by SUGARBEE(f): 6:34pm On Aug 20, 2015
ckmayoca:


Disappoi.nted and helples.s but there is generator grin
wink

Am anything but unfaithful
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by ckmayoca: 6:39pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:
wink

Am anything but unfaithful

Nne! Get him a viagra. That will solve it.
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by SUGARBEE(f): 6:40pm On Aug 20, 2015
ckmayoca:


Nne! Get him a viagra. That will solve it.

He needs to do it with his own strength smiley wink
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by francizy(m): 6:40pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:
The men of now don't last again in bed and that's the cause..... , they get over excited and overwhelmed in bed leading to them not satisfying the needs of their ladies

Kingtom and Ronald4lif please your attentions are needed here. Someone wants to be satisfied... cheesy
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by francizy(m): 6:43pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


He needs to do it with his own strength smiley wink

There's no biggie in having sex for hours. It's just that when some guys cum, they be like "jackpot" and jump off the girl. Same thing could be said about some few girls tho. All the guy needs is take another round which he'd most definitely last long except he's not a man.
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by SUGARBEE(f): 6:43pm On Aug 20, 2015
francizy:


Kingtom and Ronald4lif please your attentions are needed here. Someone wants to be satisfied... cheesy
.
Lol who are these guys you mentioned?
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by francizy(m): 6:45pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:
.
Lol who are these guys you mentioned?

One is a sex doctor (kingtom) and the other a love doctor (Ronald4lif)... cheesy grin
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by sunnysmile80: 6:46pm On Aug 20, 2015
Aminat508:
An Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Thursday dissolved the 14-year-old marriage between one Mrs Adeola Adelani and her husband, Olajide, after the wife said she had been sex-starved for eight-years.

Delivering his judgment, the President of the court, Mr Hakeem Oyekan, said that the estranged couple were tired of the marriage and all efforts to reconcile both parties had failed.

“ Since both parties consented to the dissolution of their marriage, this court has no choice than to dissolve the marriage.

“The couple can no longer stay together because the marriage has broken down totally; both parties are no longer husband and wife, they are free to go their separate ways.

“Both parties are to keep the peace all the time; any violation of the order should be reported to the police for redress,” Oyekan ruled.

The petitioner, Adeola, 39, had approached the court seeking to dissolve her marriage to Olajide for allegedly refusing to make love to her for eight years.
She told the court that she was married to Olajide about 14 years ago and had a 12-year-old son with him.

“My husband refused to make love to me for eight years. I want to have another baby because our son is 12-year-old and I am not satisfied with only one child,’’ she told the court.

The petitioner accused her husband of abandoning her and their child for an unknown destination since 2013.

She alleged that her husband had refused to disclose where he lives and where he works, but said that he always sent his son’s school fees and house rent through her bank account.

Adeola said her husband told her pastor that he had married another woman and had children, and that she should find another husband for herself.

The petitioner said she was a sad woman with neighbours referring to her as a “rejected and abandoned property.’’

She begged the court to dissolve the marriage because she wanted to move on with her life.

In his response, Olajide, 45, a businessman, did not deny the allegation of starving his wife of sex.

He said that he refused to make love to his wife because he did not want her to have another baby because the first baby was born through Caesarean Section (CS).

“I don’t want to risk her life because she gave birth through CS, this is why I have distanced myself from her and I want her to take care of our child.

“Besides, I did not abandon my wife, I only decided to move closer to my work place due to the distance from my house.

“I always squat with my friends and I come home once in a while,’’ he said.

He claimed that he had no other wife nor children elsewhere.

Olajide, however, conceded to the dissolution of the marriage because he was also fed up with the union.



http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/2015/08/sex-starved-wife-secures-divorce-as-court-dissolves-14-yr-old-marriage/
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by ronald4lif(m): 6:47pm On Aug 20, 2015
francizy:


One is a sex doctor (king tom) and the other a love doctor (Ronald 4lif)... cheesy grin

Love doctor ke? cheesy lipsrsealed

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Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by ckmayoca: 6:47pm On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:


He needs to do it with his own strength smiley wink

But since it's not working nko? He is gonna be heartbroken for hurting u
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by SUGARBEE(f): 6:48pm On Aug 20, 2015
francizy:


There's no biggie in having sex for hours. It's just that when some guys cum, they be like "jackpot" and jump off the girl. Same thing could be said about some few girls tho. All the guy needs is take another round which he'd most definitely last long except he's not a man.

Am no kid.. I know how the first round normally is
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by sunnysmile80: 6:50pm On Aug 20, 2015
[quote author=Aminat508 post=37158467]An Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Thursday dissolved the 14-year-old marriage between one Mrs Adeola Adelani and her husband, Olajide, after the wife said she had been sex-starved for eight-years.

Delivering his judgment, the President of the court, Mr Hakeem Oyekan, said that the estranged couple were tired of the marriage and all efforts to reconcile both parties had failed.

“ Since both parties consented to the dissolution of their marriage, this court has no choice than to dissolve the marriage.

“The couple can no longer stay together because the marriage has broken down totally; both parties are no longer husband and wife, they are free to go their separate ways.

“Both parties are to keep the peace all the time; any violation of the order should be reported to the police for redress,” Oyekan ruled.

The petitioner, Adeola, 39, had approached the court seeking to dissolve her marriage to Olajide for allegedly refusing to make love to her for eight years.
She told the court that she was married to Olajide about 14 years ago and had a 12-year-old son with him.

“My husband refused to make love to me for eight years. I want to have another baby because our son is 12-year-old and I am not satisfied with only one child,’’ she told the court.

The petitioner accused her husband of abandoning her and their child for an unknown destination since 2013.

She alleged that her husband had refused to disclose where he lives and where he works, but said that he always sent his son’s school fees and house rent through her bank account.

Adeola said her husband told her pastor that he had married another woman and had children, and that she should find another husband for herself.

The petitioner said she was a sad woman with neighbours referring to her as a “rejected and abandoned property.’’

She begged the court to dissolve the marriage because she wanted to move on with her life.

In his response, Olajide, 45, a businessman, did not deny the allegation of starving his wife of sex.

He said that he refused to make love to his wife because he did not want her to have another baby because the first baby was born through Caesarean Section (CS).

“I don’t want to risk her life because she gave birth through CS, this is why I have distanced myself from her and I want her to take care of our child.

“Besides, I did not abandon my wife, I only decided to move closer to my work place due to the distance from my house.

“I always squat with my friends and I come home once in a while,’’ he said.

He claimed that he had no other wife nor children elsewhere.

Olajide, however, conceded to the dissolution of the marriage because he was also fed up with the union.

Facts about marrital issues can not be completely revealed by couples, so i can't blame the man outrightly.
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by MissSlimbody(f): 6:51pm On Aug 20, 2015
Flashh:


You are just too stup¡d for my liking.
He is not just stup!d, but extremely STUP!D undecided
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by sunnysmile80: 6:54pm On Aug 20, 2015
Facts about marrital issues can not be completely revealed by couples, so i can't blame the man outrightly.
Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by SUGARBEE(f): 6:55pm On Aug 20, 2015
ckmayoca:


But since it's not working nko? He is gonna be heartbroken for hurting u

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