O Boy! Postr Poster Postr, its obvious you are never in love. .U are only in LUST cause if you are in love, a couple will nevr dey hide anything now. . . Even if we did, we know that each oher is hiding somthing from another. My bf is readin this and he is calling you a Mumu.


U get annoyed because your wife is cautious about herself and she has a low self esteem. . . Its obvious you have not figured out who and what she is befoe even marrying her. . . It th real hard cold fact, you dont know what you got married to and when you finally knew, you dey want to run away like a yeye fowl

The divorce process could have being over by now instead of opening this thread. Your excuses are very similar to most men. The divorce a woman that can't cook like say there mum for some that can cook pass their mum but would not cook or if she cook does not know how to dress properly or spend all food money on clothes. Why dont you be the change you want to see in people like the popular saying be. I will advise you not to treat women be wrapper, if they are not good throw them out them out and go and buy another one. No one is perfect her oyinbo does not make her childish or not good in bed, you might bee too old or not good inbed youself. Things are better done when communication is sound and adaptation is welcome. You can marry the whole women in the world and one thing or the other will be at fault. check yourself and lean to appreciate what you have you can marry a sex symbol and all you will complain about is that she si too demanding on bed. You need to wake up you can go for divorce before you start getting too agreesive as coward men will do.

Best of luck

annoyed, have you ever discussed any of these things with your wife?

sex is not just a matter of a couple of minutes at night in the bed.
do you give her enough attention during day time? do you make her feel wanted, attractive and desired?

I cannot have fun in bed with a man who does not care about me all day long and then wants me to be a tiger as soon as he turns the lights of.

romance and erotic must be built up slowly.

or do you just want to get rid of her now that you have your residence permit?

How did you know she had any issues with keeping a man

What does looks have to do with quality

The fact that she even asked you are you finished says a lot. Have you asked her if she is pleased with ur performance and what you can do please her?..She is not frigid...you cant Bleep.

davidylan:

You will be an idiot to throw her away for the other reasons you mentioned. It is VERY HARD to come by a woman with the qualities i outlined in your post.
The problem i see here is YOU. Have you sat her down and talked to her about your fears? What job does she do? If she had one and a family to juggle she'd be too busy finding time to giggle with her friends.

You married her at 20 and you knew all these . . . dude, man up and take control of your home. Do you go places with her, do you do stuff together or you just leave her alone with her friends all day and then turn around to complain?

About what she's like in bed . . . na you go rectify that yourself. I'd rather a woman who wasnt a freak in bed but had everyother qualities than a porn star who is useless. Sex isnt all there is to life.

Strikes me like you married her for her face and skin color and nothing else if not why are you complaining about her now? Fix her up! Divorce is not always the answer, you will regret it later.

U said it all. He has to fix his home right now b4 it goes against him. A lot of men would kill 4 the kind of woman he married. Just so they have peace at home. Ur wifey sounds like a saint compared 2 other wives that men marry. Work on ur wife, speak 2 her, experiment with her. take her out alot, spend time with her. U will see that she will definitely mature up and may spend less time with her friends. B4 careful, when her friends see she has grown, they may want a peace of u. I know cos I walked a friend of mine down that road a feww months back.

Una funny o.after 3 years una still comment put

Patsey: May we safely infer that through your marriage to this white girl/woman, you have, like several other immigrants, indefinitely settled yourself in the white man's land?

And what is wrong with that?
Some people stay, others go home. Some stay until retirement, then go home. Others stay only a year, then go home.

You should live in the place and country that makes you happy.

My guy....

Na I be Oyinbo, born and raised - through and through. I don dey read this ur post and fear say u nor sabi wetin u get for ur hand ooo. e b lyk say dis ur wife dey try oo - I knw say na our 'Oyinbo' style na different culture from ur own, 9ja, wife wey sabi cook, clean, love and look after u, na correct babe.

I nor fit shout, but abeg, see wetin u get and knw say na gold.

Any girl, from any culture go yarn silly things - dis na woman talk (any age too sha) so make una go see ur guys when she come get her friends for house. No worry urself by listening, afterall - na woman talk!

Grass nor always greener another side ooo.

No trade this ur diamond for stone ooo!!

Yours, Oyinbo Princess

OyinboPrincess:
My guy....

Na I be Oyinbo, born and raised - through and through. I don dey read this ur post and fear say u nor sabi wetin u get for ur hand ooo. e b lyk say dis ur wife dey try oo - I knw say na our 'Oyinbo' style na different culture from ur own, 9ja, wife wey sabi cook, clean, love and look after u, na correct babe.

I nor fit shout, but abeg, see wetin u get and knw say na gold.

Any girl, from any culture go yarn silly things - dis na woman talk (any age too sha) so make una go see ur guys when she come get her friends for house. No worry urself by listening, afterall - na woman talk!

Grass nor always greener another side ooo.

No trade this ur diamond for stone ooo!!

Yours, Oyinbo Princess

Pidgin!!!!
Cool.
and neat too
i'd love to hear that

Edited: okay i just saw your YouTube video
OMO see yansh!!!
cool..
its a yoruba-ish kind of pidgin

annoyed:
I am a naija man and I am married to a beautiful oyinbo girl for the last 3 yrs.
However there are 2 things about her which I cannot stand and I am seriously considering a
divorce.

1. Her friends
    My wife has the same group of friends since she was 12 . They all went to high school together.
    They're is nothing wrong with these girls. They are not riff raffs or anything. It's their childish
     and immature thinking that gets to me. They act like 16 yr old schoolgirls, my wife included. All
     they care about is who has the latest handbag, painting their nails, how they look, etc. These
     bimbos come around to my house every week and have a catch up with my wife. The conversations
     they have are unbelievable. Making snide remarks about random people and giggling away to them
     selves. They are truly nothing more than a shallow bunch of Barbie dolls and its getting on my
     nerves. I admit that my wife was also like this when I met her but that was 5 yrs ago and I thought
     she might grow up. But shes just turned 25 and I am really tired  i want to start a family soon but I
      don't think I can when she's a child herself.

2. The sex we have is extremely boring. She seems to have no interest. I admit she was also like this
     when I started dating her but I thought I would turn her into a freak in bed. I am always the one
     doing the work yet she just lies there saying " are you finished yet?'' I think she's a frigid or some
     thing. I was wondering why white men left this beautiful girl to waste. Now I can see why.

     Other than that she's a very good wife, very respectful towards me, cooks my meals, would do anything
      for me and very reliable. I love her in so many ways. But I still want a divorce and get a matured woman.
      My family will not agree as they love her so much but I can't live like this anymore
      Any advice??

"oyinbo wife"... why can't you just say wife and be oblivious of color or race after all she is a woman abi? My dear don't divorce her, man up and make your marriage work people like you running out if it gets a lil too hot to handle who asked you to marry someone with the intention of changing her?shouldn't you love her for who she is and if the person she is, is not one you can handle then leave instead of going ahead to marry her thinking about "oh if this doesn't work I'll just get out" oga op sit her down and tell her how you feel and you both reach some compromise on what you're going to do there is counseling and prayers that helps too. Besides nobody said marriage is easy irrespective of the race you're married to.

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