INTROVERT:
Boss please permit me to laugh first......... hahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahhahah



Now, you haven't married the girl and you have hypertension what will now happen when you marry her. She is obviously a deceiver and liar. Cutehector are you back from church, come and help me complete the rest.

dapsoneh:
The lady has broken the bond already, so whtas d guy waiting for? He shld move on since the gal has moved on too

gentlesinna:
D guy Shuld jst move on wit his life bcs d girl is a bitch nd a liar.can u imagine........gettin pregnant frm ur boss nd trying to force it on d guy assuming he is not a virgina.*


Dis is one of d reason y I will never ever fall in lov wit a girl. i wil keep fucking,dumping and kicking dem out after am done wit anyone of dem.(dis is base on wot I pass tru bcs of aa bitch)

agarawu23:
Good afternoon all.

I have an issue of a nairalander that wants to remain anonymous but seriously needs our advice. Since the issue is on his future, I don't think only my advice will be enough for him.
So matured advice needed pls.....

I will just brief the issue cos nobody wanna read long story.

---- his dad and the lady's dad had and agreement on both of them to marry when they were 10.

---- his dad is dead but his Anty is another withness of the vows and promises within both families.

--- luckily for both of them, they liked each other and started dating without being forced(that was year 2008)

---- the guy engaged the Lady year 2011 when both of them heard the promises between the two families (of cus they love each other )

----- problem started when the guy updated his FB relationship status to "engaged" with the lady's name. The lady was angry and broke up with him. (That was when he emailed me for advice). I told him that wasn't enough reason to break up with someone and there is something hiding about the lady which I advised him not to trust her.

The Lady came back to him and they sort things out. The relationship was a No sex relationship cos the guy was a Virgin and he told me the lady was a Virgin too. I told him then to confirm the lady's virginity cos I seems not to blv she is one; but the guy doesn't know how to do that.

---- Now the lady slept with her boss and got pregnant but later did a successful abortion. The lady lied to the her Anty that the guy was responsible for the pregnancy but later Confessed it was her boss.

----- The guy was hospitalized due to shock when he heard the story. He is now hypertensive.

Now the problem on ground which I don't think I can handle alone is

1. The guy doesn't know what next to do.

2. He doesn't want to break the bond between both family cos the lady's father isn't aware of the recent situation.

3. He loved and care for the lady with all his life but he is now confused.

4. He is currently hypertensive cos of the lady.

5. What advice will you give him?

over to you romancelanders

Djboosting:






Things involved....

The guy in question is not sparking any female attraction in the girl.. They only claimed to be "in relationship"..

And the girl wants more...

She wants to explore her sexuality out there before sticking to one man all her life....

She wants to 'feel things'



All that can be observed here contextually is that the "FAMILY BOND" means nothing to the girl...


Girls are emotional creatures, some girls already decided what they wanted and go for it, irrespective of the rules layed...




1.. The guy is obsessed about the girl...

(might be her beauty or whatever reason best know to him since the story is a summary) ...

He seemed to be too clingy to the girl in cost of "she's my already planned wife" ... And it's freaking the girl out (brings us to the Facebook status and more issues between them)

#FAILURE


2.. The guy is needy..

Maybe he is not good with girls outside this girl in particular.. That's why he's sticking to her.

Whatever he's doing with the girl is coming from a place of scarcity and NEEDINESS...

If he's in a place of ABUNDANCE with other girls, he won't worry about one little outcome with one little girl somewhere .... Leading to hypertension..

Urh oh...too bad


I'm not a fan of breaking whatever relationship anyone is having anywhere...

But I'd advice the guy to...

1... Get a VISION and purpose in life where he'll channel all is energy... Cos the guy has no life right now .. At all - NO life..

Hypertension on a girl = NO life..


2.. Find other girls and do things with them, enjoy ur life outside ur comfort zone... Get great people in ur life...

There are one million and one girls out there waiting for u to talk to them...



Finally... To all guys out there...

Don't ever give all ur power to women.. U're a man..

Note this:- the moment a lady completely has ur Love, at that point she STOPS loving you...


***
Got a great day ahead..

#Peace

MRBrownJ:
@agarawu23

1. The guy doesn't know what next to do.
he certainly shouldnt continue marriage plans with this deceitful lady, and instead he should sit down and re-evaluate his stand on life and marriage!

2. He doesn't want to break the bond between both family cos the lady's father isn't aware of the recent situation.
how can he break a bond that has already been broken?! that gal broke the family bond, let HER take full responsibilities for her cheap and whoring actions. the lady's father should be aware of EVERYTHING that has been happening!

3. He loved and care for the lady with all his life but he is now confused.
this man is in love with a dream/ideology that is not real... of course he loves this lady and will do so for a while but time will heal his heart. staying with such demon is certainly not the way to go. that man needs to stop listening/following what his heart is telling him, and INSTEAD listening/following what his brain is telling him to do. if a lady that you are dating goes to fukc her boss, it only confirms ONE thing: she is no good for you!

4. He is currently hypertensive cos of the lady.
there are many treatments out there that cures hypertension.

5. What advice will you give him?
since you are going to live with your choices then its all up to you... but never forget that this lady has NO respect for you, your r/ship or the agreement your parents had. she is deceitful, untrustworthy, disrespectful, cheap, damaged goods, and you should instead find a lady who will value you and your r/ship ABOVE ALL.

dapsoneh:
The lady has broken the bond already, so whtas d guy waiting for? He shld move on since the gal has moved on too

AfroKnight:


End of discussion.


He is now hypertensive because of her. too funny

Things involved....
The guy in question is not sparking any female attraction in the girl.. They only claimed to be "in relationship"..
And the girl wants more...

She wants to explore her sexuality out there before sticking to one man all her life....

She wants to 'feel things'

All that can be observed here contextually is that the "FAMILY BOND" means nothing to the girl...

Girls are emotional creatures, some girls already decided what they wanted and go for it, irrespective of the rules layed...

1.. The guy is obsessed about the girl...
(might be her beauty or whatever reason best know to him since the story is a summary) ...
He seemed to be too clingy to the girl in cost of "she's my already planned wife" ... And it's freaking the girl out (brings us to the Facebook status and more issues between them)

2.. The guy is needy..
Maybe he is not good with girls outside this girl in particular.. That's why he's sticking to her.
Whatever he's doing with the girl is coming from a place of scarcity and NEEDINESS...

If he's in a place of ABUNDANCE with other girls, he won't worry about one little outcome with one little girl somewhere .... Leading to hypertension..

I'm not a fan of breaking whatever relationship anyone is having anywhere...
But I'd advice the guy to...
1... Get a VISION and purpose in life where he'll channel all is energy... Cos the guy has no life right now .. At all - NO life..

Hypertension on a girl = NO life..

2.. Find other girls and do things with them, enjoy ur life outside ur comfort zone... Get great people in ur life...
There are one million and one girls out there waiting for u to talk to them...

Finally... To all guys out there...
Don't ever give all ur power to women.. U're a man..

Note this:- the moment a lady completely has ur Love, at that point she STOPS loving you...

dapsoneh:
The lady has broken the bond already, so whtas d guy waiting for? He shld move on since the gal has moved on too

ggrin:
Pathetic



I went for a wedding last Saturday and this girl that sat beside me just casually brought out fried fish from her bag to put on her rice and I was like

----- The guy was hospitalized due to shock when he heard the story. He is now hypertensive.