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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by dinachi(m): 2:23pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Joy1706:Cursed imp, your entire life is sumarised thus: bigoted, twisted,bitter lonely and sad curse paramblating around nairaland. You are the best definittion of misfortune. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by dinachi(m): 2:31pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
creepsyme:A woman who loves and cherishes her husband will see nothing stressful or wrong in serving him the way he wants to be served! This is definitely not an issue worth discussing. Only a woman who has no regard for the husband will make issues out of it. Do you know that most men find absolute joy in eating their wifes meal? Why did our parents teach us that the best way to a mans heart is through his stomach? Only a foolish woman argues about what gives her husband joy instead of doing it! 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 2:34pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
SonOfEl:Church minister huuuh? What exactly do you teach people? You mentioned me and called me all sorts of names because I gave my view on this thread... And to think my opinion had nothing to do with you. .. Anyway, I actually ignored the mention because I don't exchange words with people here, just surprised to see you're a church minister. . God help us..... |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 2:37pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
MrsChima: its unfortunate that some married people come here and give wrong advice. its a shame. you know nothing about marriage. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 2:45pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: who is a church minister? a church minister is one who dedicates time to serve God in a church. WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL? I use my talents in the church too, and to think that you can downplay my talents because i put you in your place is your own business of delusion. I know when I act childishly for fun, cos I don't take things too seriously here. however, I also know when am serious, especially in handling your case. there is wisdom in taking one in their own craftiness, and that's what I do to you and your type. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by TV01(m): 2:45pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Joy1706:Thank you - I absolutely agree that the bible enjoins husbands to love, cherish and honour their wives. No one here has disputed that. Many are disputing that a woman must submit to her husband Joy1706:There is no such scripture . MrsChima:No scripture counteracts what I posted MrsChima:So, does that nullify the commandment to wives MrsChima:I am not writing for the benefit of non-Christinas, non-believers or unmarried couples. As for husbands "who do not honor" Christ - the commandment to wives is not predicated on what the husband does - short of sin. MrsChima:At all TV 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 2:48pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
SonOfEl:So you actually think you put me in my place? ... Suit yourself Oga and all the best to you and your church. .... |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by TV01(m): 2:50pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
blessedtwins:A sensible man does not give an inch to what is unbecoming. As for being chauvinist - to be chauvinist is to be confident in, and proud of your manhood - women love chauvinists . All the best for your union. TV 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 2:52pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: my church? see this one o.....I SERVE IN A CHURCH, not my church, do you comprehend at all? stop misquoting me. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 2:55pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
TV01: thank you my brother, these people try to evade the point....they want unconditional love, but they despise unconditional reverence...thank you again. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Ngokafor(f): 2:56pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Malawian: ....You were baffled? ...how lame! ...you must be from the nineteenth century then 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 2:57pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
dinachi: more feathers to your hat.....I love that... |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Ngokafor(f): 2:58pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
SonOfEl: ..You have been fooling yourself for hours on this very silly topic...get a life please 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 3:04pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Ngokafor: fooling? is that suppose to massage your guts? why are you here in the first place? when we say some people are first class sadistic losers, they we are being too harsh. oya, tell the op to fight and divorce her husband so you can be pleased. you mentioned foolishness right? take a look at the mirror. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by TV01(m): 3:10pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
bukatyne: Why does it pain you ? - Head of my household - tick - Final arbiter possessing veto power in family decisions - tick - My wife is not inferior - She has freewill/agency - She is a loving & submissive wife I wield authority in my home as and when I see fit - and my wife graciously submits. If I ask my wife to serve me end-to-end at every meal, I don't need to repeat that instruction every time I sit down to eat - geddit now!! A submissive wife does not need to be hounded - she learns her husbands desires and preferences and consciously or unconsciously makes the requisite adjustments. That there is no head in your home and you have "equal rights", fine - carry go - nobody is forcing you to live the "Christian model" . As for your sly insinuation that I "edited" my posts and lied, in over 10 years on NL nobody has ever charged me with those or any of the other similar type offences. You are desperate. I never edit for more than quotation, grammar or punctuation. Why are you pained that my wife allows me to be a man in my own home? Or someone so enlightened and privileged eschews feminism . And in truth, you can't know if I command or not - but we all know your husband doesn't don't we? - you proudly told us ! Keep on opening masturbatory threads so you can discuss biblical submission with non-believers, atheists and blasphemers - TV 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Malawian(m): 3:24pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Ngokafor:sorry sister, old school. it is the way of our ancestors wise men those guys were. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Mutaino7(m): 3:37pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
TV01:lemme give you handkerchief the spittle you are enduring is enough to cook soya milk..we dey behind you..continue your teachings let the message be spread no matter whose horse is gored.... 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Ngokafor(f): 3:39pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
SonOfEl: .....You are simply utterly shameless fighting over this very silly topic for the past 24 hrs dude..Your drivel is littered all over this thread already .....You are nuts like the agbaya man in question who is bickering and fighting over whether or not to dish food served and sitting right in front of him.. ..You can divorce your wife since your hands are crippled and cannot dish your food served already and sitting right in front of you... ..Childish and immature things. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by cococandy(f): 3:44pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Malawian: Hehehe These nairlanders won't kill person. So he drives a Camry that makes him above doing dishes. Be baffling yourself there o. Will you have a heart attack if your friend drives a BMW 7-Series and you meet him cooking in his house while his wife is watching television? Na ER straight abi? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by cococandy(f): 3:47pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
I must say the more I go through nairaland, the more I appreciate what I have. Lord have mercy on some kinds of mindset people have. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by babygirlfl: 3:51pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
cococandy: Tell me about it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by cococandy(f): 3:54pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
MrsChima: |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 4:05pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
SonOfEl:That verse was not in reference to intimacy. It means you are answerable to your wife and vice versa. Your wife submitting to you does not stop her from despising you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 4:11pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Stillfire: They already suffer on earth. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Stillfire: 4:11pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
cococandy: A grown ass man throwing a tantrum over dished food, lmao. The part of the brain African men are supposed to use to device techniques to bring their people out of poverty, they have used it to be throwing petty tantrums about food. Give her an inch, she will take a mile Meanwhile give African man an inch, he will run a marathon. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by MrsChima(f): 4:15pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
SonOfEl:And you are one of those "married" people. I am against child marriages for obvious reasons! |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Stillfire: 4:18pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Please go and learn how to love your wives the christian way Save yourself from hell fire. Because many women are willing to look away and condone your excesses does not mean you have the right to act like a self-serving brute. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by MrsChima(f): 4:20pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Malawian: You are right, case is closed when you can't effectively answered my question. I didnt use a bible when I asked you a question. Can you answer my question without using the bible? |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by MrsChima(f): 4:22pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Stillfire: (Pressing 8900 likes) 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by cococandy(f): 4:32pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Stillfire: Lol. I don't know what to say. I didn't think this thread will reach this many pages before we come to the OBVIOUS conclusion that even though her serving the food won't remove anything from her body, him refusing to eat the food right in front of him because the 'service is not complete' makes him a difficult husband. Something this obvious doesn't warrant the length of the arguments following it. I'm frankly surprised. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by cococandy(f): 4:33pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
They no dey see this part of the bible. Stillfire: |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by MrsChima(f): 4:35pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Joy1706: Damn. So you are saying a submissive wife can also despises her husband? That is deep. |
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