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Reading A Woman’s Body Language by Nobody: 9:54am On Sep 02, 2015 |
There is this little experiment that I want
you to try out. The next time you have a
great conversation with a woman you just
met and feel that she’s definitely attracted
to you, ask her if she remembers what the
first thing you said to her was. Not to
knock your ego or your brilliant opener
here, but the chances are that 90% of the
time, she won’t have a damn clue. Don’t
worry, this isn’t because your opener
wasn’t good enough or you weren’t
memorable enough. It’s because women
pay far more attention to body language
and non-verbal communication than men
ever do.
You see, during the first few seconds of
your approach, a woman could care less
about the actual words you say to her –
unless it’s something incredibly weird or
creepy, that is. The reason for this is
because her mind will be too busy
processing your body language and the
non-verbal cues that you are giving out.
And throughout your interaction she will
always – even if it’s on a subconscious
level – be observing and dissecting these
non-verbal cues.
Now this might sound a bit worrying to
some men, but here’s the cool thing; even
while a woman is observing your body
language, she will be giving out non-verbal
cues of her own that are intended to let
you know if she’s attracted to you or not.
It’s almost like having little sign-posts to
help guide you towards seduction junction.
The trick is in learning to reading these
signs. So in today’s article I want to
dissect and help you understand the basics
of female body language.
HER EYES: There are so many things that
a woman’s eyes can tell you throughout
the entire courtship process.
For example, if you are standing across a
room from a woman that you’re interested
in and your eyes meet, notice if she holds
eye-contact for more than a few seconds.
If she looks away immediately the chances
are she’s either shy or not really
interested. But if she holds steady eye-
contact for more than two or three
seconds, you can definitely take that as an
invitation to approach. And if she locks
eyes with you more than once, she’s
practically screaming for you to get over
there and talk to her.
Even when talking to a woman, her eyes
will tell you a lot about how she feels the
interaction is going. For instance if she
holds strong eye contact while you talk and
while she talks to you, this is a definite
sign that she finds you attractive. If she
goes as far as to occasionally glance at
your lips while you talk, you can bet that
she’s really, really into you.
Sometimes you’ll even notice a woman’s
pupils dilate while she’s listening to you
talk. You see, our pupils dilate in low light
conditions and when we’re experiencing
feelings of intense attraction and desire.
So if you notice this in a woman you’re
flirting with, you’re doing a good job and
should probably escalate things physically
as soon as you can.
On the flipside, if a woman’s eyes keep
darting about while you talk to her or if she
avoids eye-contact altogether, you’re
probably not doing a good job of keeping
her interested.
HER LIPS: The next time you’re flirting with
a woman, pay close attention to what’s
she’s doing with her lips. When a woman is
attracted to a guy, she will usually smile
and laugh much more frequently, regardless
of whether the guy is actually funny or not.
So if a girl always smiles when you look at
her or if she slips in a little giggle whenever
you start talking to her, this is a definite
sign that she’s attracted to you.
Sometimes you’ll also notice a woman
subtly bite or lick her lower lips while
talking to you. Or she’ll sometimes make a
show of putting on her lipstick in front of
you. You see, a woman’s mouth is like a
sexual gateway and these little things that
she does are all designed to draw your
attention towards her mouth. So if you
notice a woman doing any of these things,
she’s definitely sexually attracted to you
and wants you to make a move on her.
HER HAIR: What a woman does with her
hair is also another very important non-
verbal communication that you need to
learn to pay attention to. You see, from an
evolutionary standpoint, a nice, shiny head
of hair is a sign of good health, that we
men are evolutionarily programmed to find
attractive. So when a woman feels
attracted to a man she will often start
playing with her hair, twisting it around her
finger or combing her hand through it, and
more often than not she won’t even know
she’s doing it.
A woman might even occasionally toss her
hair back or hook it behind her ear to
reveal her neck. This is a slightly more
overt move and is a definite signal that
she’s sexually attracted to you.
HER HAND: Quite often when a woman
finds a man attractive she will start
fidgeting around with her hands. She might
start playing with her drink or start fiddling
around with her jewelry. This kind of
fidgeting signals a good kind of
nervousness that she’s feeling and is a
very powerful indicator of attraction that
you should watch out for.
Another thing that you should pay attention
to is if and how a woman touches you.
Quite often when a woman feels attracted
to a man she will “accidently” let her hands
brush against his or even sometimes
innocently touch him on the wrist or
forearm. This is actually one of the more
obvious non-verbal cues and signs of
attraction that you need to learn to watch
out for.
HER LEGS: Women who are not interested
in flirting with you will usually keep their
legs crossed tightly together. It’ll almost
feel as if she’s rejecting any sexual
solicitations from you and protecting her
privacy. Of course, there are exceptions to
this, but usually if a girl is into you she will
often cross and uncross her legs
repeatedly in front of you. This again is a
sign that she wants you to notice her
physical attractiveness and that she’s very
much into you.
Another thing that you’ll notice when a
woman is attracted to you is that she’ll
usually sit in a way that both her feet are
pointed towards you. Scientists that study
human behavior and non-verbal
communication believe that even this is a
subconscious reaction that occurs when
we find another person attractive.
However, if a woman that you’re flirting
with sits so that both her feet are pointed
away from you, you might need to
recalibrate your advances.
HER POSTURE: Often when a woman is in
close proximity to a man that she finds
attractive, she’ll stand tall with a slight arc
to her back. Women do this
subconsciously, and sometimes
consciously, to enhance the size of her
breasts. Again, something that we men are
evolutionarily programmed to find
attractive.
On the hand, if a girl slouches around you
and covers herself up this is a sign that
she doesn’t want you to look and that she’s
definitely not interested.
HER PHYSICAL DISTANCE: Whenever you
are flirting with a woman if you notice that
she seems to be getting closer and closer
to you in terms of physical proximity, take
that as a definite sign of attraction and
comfort. More often than not this is an
invitation to intensify your flirting. In such
an instance open up your posture a bit and
give her the chance to “find herself”
getting closer and closer to you.
However, if a woman seems to be gradually
distancing herself from you or if she leans
back whenever you lean in to talk to her,
take that as a definite sign that she is not
liking what you’re doing.
Her actions
Have you ever noticed how when you’re
hanging out with a group of close friends
that you sometimes start mirroring their
bodily actions? Psychologists actually have
a term for this called “postural echo.” This
is a subconscious reaction that indicates
comfort and rapport and, in the case of a
woman you are flirting with, attraction.
Lean in and notice if she leans as well.
Pick up your drink and watch to see if she
picks hers up too. If she does, this is a
strong sign that she’s attracted to you.
At the end of the day, one meager article
isn’t nearly enough to cover all the
subtleties of female body language and
non-verbal communication. But I hope that
this serves you as a guideline that you can
use to start recognizing these non-verbal
cues and develop your intuition to a point
where you pick up on them on a
subconscious level. https://siomkpo./2015/09/01/reading-a-womans-body-language/ |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by IamLEGEND1: 9:58am On Sep 02, 2015 |
i go come read am wen i get time |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by magabounce(m): 10:00am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Too long bruv |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by Nobody: 10:01am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Body language can be misunderstood sometimes na |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by Margauxluv(f): 10:05am On Sep 02, 2015 |
oga Eh... dts Long.. nd unimportant |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by donholy28(m): 10:09am On Sep 02, 2015 |
I ask my phone to read this out for me and it fainted...dix post reach 10 pages |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by emryxleena(m): 10:09am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Too LoNG.. u need to work on ur own body language before deciding to study others body language.. |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by adewaletb3(m): 10:13am On Sep 02, 2015 |
This post is just full of _shit |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by ShutdownBrown24(m): 10:43am On Sep 02, 2015 |
AS I was reading it, I slept off. Oh Nigerians when will you learn. Copy and past is the simplest school for ignorance. |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by optimism91(m): 11:26am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Body language ke. APC slogan. Sai B...a....B...a!!!!! |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by Maamin(m): 12:48pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
hmmmm, Op were you trying to spell "clue" or "cue" all this while? |
Re: Reading A Woman’s Body Language by Nobody: 12:59pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
hw wil dat help me to make money?ehn op? |
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