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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 1:13pm On Sep 03, 2015
Blizzyblinkzy:

ok thanks.
So my boyfriend loves me?
hmmmm...it feels good to know someone you love feels same way also to you.
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:16pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
I know

You have no idea.....trust me

Btw, how's the squad? wink
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 1:20pm On Sep 03, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


You have no idea.....trust me

Btw, how's the squad? wink
So cool smiley...gist me what's new
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:25pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
So cool smiley...gist me what's new

Apart from the fact that I'm now a glorified junkie..... nothing is new.
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 1:47pm On Sep 03, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


Apart from the fact that I'm now a glorified junkie..... nothing is new.
Huh? shocked shocked....meaning what exactly?
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:52pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
Huh? shocked shocked....meaning what exactly?

What does "junkie " mean?.. Lol.....

Oh I forgot to add....I dey look for who get 50k wey them no dey use grin
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 1:57pm On Sep 03, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


What does "junkie " mean?.. Lol.....

Oh I forgot to add....I dey look for who get 50k wey them no dey use grin
Don't get you at all....Speak the language I'll understand
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:58pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
[i][Don't get you at all....Speak the language I'll understand/i]

I'm on drugs
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 2:12pm On Sep 03, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


I'm on drugs
Seen it?
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:31pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
Seen it?

Yup
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by iamrealdeji(m): 2:32pm On Sep 03, 2015
Op's writes this like Tosyne2much

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by erusen: 3:20pm On Sep 03, 2015
and still life goes on
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by tosyne2much(m): 7:34pm On Sep 03, 2015
iamrealdeji:
Op's writes this like Tosyne2much
Oh seriously ? cheesy
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 9:21pm On Sep 03, 2015
zadok60:

hmmmm...it feels good to know someone you love feels same way also to you.


yea its a nyc feeling. Thanks
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 8:13am On Sep 04, 2015
Glowstone:
n then u know u'v been friend zoned and scammed
grin
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by Nobody: 9:09am On Sep 06, 2015
zadok60:
We all fall in love for someone at least once in a
lifetime.Love is that indescribable and unmeasurable
feeling of joy that fills our entire body.It’s an
amazing feeling that can bring us the happiest
moments in our lives, as well as the worst.

You dedicate completely to that person to the point
that all your needs are second place compared to her
needs. But what happens when that person doesn’t
love you back?

1. The pain will come
You’ll start feeling that the world is tearing apart and
you’ll feel like every single piece of you is shattering
into pieces. You can’t believe that after everything
you’ve done and all you’ve been through, someone
else got that place in her heart. Pain will slowly take
possession of your body and eventually you’re gonna
cry. Yes, you’re gonna cry no matter how tough you
are, because you really loved her and losing her
wasn’t on your plans.

2. …and then the denial
You’re gonna deny the fact that she’s in love with
someone else. You’re gonna try not to face the truth
about the situation and will try to convince yourself
that it’s just a bad dream. Every part of you knows the
truth, but you won’t face it and that will make you
feel even more pain. Probably you’ll ask her to have
lunch together and she’ll tell you that she has plans
with her date and you will be in that awkward
moment when you’re left speechless and you will tell
her how happy you’re for her, but you’re going
through a heartbreak that will make you cry again.

3. She’ll be closer to you than ever
To add salt to the wound, she’ll be closer to you than
ever. She’ll tell you everything about the guy she’s
dating and how nervous she is about him because
she’s really into him and you’ll be like “please stop,
don’t you see I love you and it hurts me to know all of
this…” She’ll tell you how much she needs you right
now and even though you don’t like the idea you will
support her just to be near her and to make her
happy. Her smile will motivate you and little by little
the pain will be replaced with hope that someday
maybe she’ll be interested in you.

4. One day she’ll introduce you to the guy
The day you meet the guy will be a tough one. You’ll
question yourself why she chose him over you. It will
be really hard to be neutral with your comments,
because you’d want to tell her she’s making a terrible
mistake, but you won’t do it because you want her to
be happy even if that means to let her go.

5. And then comes the moment of truth
Either she will be the guy’s girlfriend, or she’ll change
her mind and leave him. Let’s be honest, the first one
is the most probable option. You will still be hurt, but
the wounds will start healing, and the fact that she’s
happy will make you feel a bit better.

6. Someday you’ll find someone else in which you’ll fall for
You’ll eventually heal, but you’ll always remember her
and that will haunt you for some time. You’ll be
scared to let love come to your life again. Calm down,
it’s normal. When something or someone hurts us it’s
difficult to forget it and we tend to be scared, but
someone will eventually help us heal. Someday you’ll
meet another girl that will make you fall for her and
the feelings that once belonged to another girl will
awaken and fill your heart with hope. And at that
moment, you’ll make a tough choice between giving
yourself a chance to love again, or not. Hopefully that
person you fell for will love you too.
very true
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by malele(m): 11:01am On Sep 06, 2015
zadok60:
We all fall in love for someone at least once in a
lifetime.Love is that indescribable and unmeasurable
feeling of joy that fills our entire body.It’s an
amazing feeling that can bring us the happiest
moments in our lives, as well as the worst.

You dedicate completely to that person to the point
that all your needs are second place compared to her
needs. But what happens when that person doesn’t
love you back?

1. The pain will come
You’ll start feeling that the world is tearing apart and
you’ll feel like every single piece of you is shattering
into pieces. You can’t believe that after everything
you’ve done and all you’ve been through, someone
else got that place in her heart. Pain will slowly take
possession of your body and eventually you’re gonna
cry. Yes, you’re gonna cry no matter how tough you
are, because you really loved her and losing her
wasn’t on your plans.

2. …and then the denial
You’re gonna deny the fact that she’s in love with
someone else. You’re gonna try not to face the truth
about the situation and will try to convince yourself
that it’s just a bad dream. Every part of you knows the
truth, but you won’t face it and that will make you
feel even more pain. Probably you’ll ask her to have
lunch together and she’ll tell you that she has plans
with her date and you will be in that awkward
moment when you’re left speechless and you will tell
her how happy you’re for her, but you’re going
through a heartbreak that will make you cry again.

3. She’ll be closer to you than ever
To add salt to the wound, she’ll be closer to you than
ever. She’ll tell you everything about the guy she’s
dating and how nervous she is about him because
she’s really into him and you’ll be like “please stop,
don’t you see I love you and it hurts me to know all of
this…” She’ll tell you how much she needs you right
now and even though you don’t like the idea you will
support her just to be near her and to make her
happy. Her smile will motivate you and little by little
the pain will be replaced with hope that someday
maybe she’ll be interested in you.

4. One day she’ll introduce you to the guy
The day you meet the guy will be a tough one. You’ll
question yourself why she chose him over you. It will
be really hard to be neutral with your comments,
because you’d want to tell her she’s making a terrible
mistake, but you won’t do it because you want her to
be happy even if that means to let her go.

5. And then comes the moment of truth
Either she will be the guy’s girlfriend, or she’ll change
her mind and leave him. Let’s be honest, the first one
is the most probable option. You will still be hurt, but
the wounds will start healing, and the fact that she’s
happy will make you feel a bit better.

6. Someday you’ll find someone else in which you’ll fall for
You’ll eventually heal, but you’ll always remember her
and that will haunt you for some time. You’ll be
scared to let love come to your life again. Calm down,
it’s normal. When something or someone hurts us it’s
difficult to forget it and we tend to be scared, but
someone will eventually help us heal. Someday you’ll
meet another girl that will make you fall for her and
the feelings that once belonged to another girl will
awaken and fill your heart with hope. And at that
moment, you’ll make a tough choice between giving
yourself a chance to love again, or not. Hopefully that
person you fell for will love you too.

I have been in this shoes.
Atimes it can take 5 to 6 months before u can move on.
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by malele(m): 11:04am On Sep 06, 2015
Ladies and gentlemen, only give 100% love to ur truly wedded spouse.
Don't release much love in relationships else u in be hurt

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 2:39pm On Sep 06, 2015
tosyne2much:
Oh seriously ? cheesy
you da Boss grin
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 2:41pm On Sep 06, 2015
reminiscing:
very true
I can guess you've been a victim.. grin
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 2:44pm On Sep 06, 2015
malele:

I have been in this shoes. Atimes it can take 5 to 6 months before u can move on.
I used to tell people it's not easy to move on just like that..

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