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6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 6:07pm On Sep 02, 2015
We all fall in love for someone at least once in a lifetime.Love is that indescribable and unmeasurable feeling of joy that fills our entire body.It’s an amazing feeling that can bring us the happiest moments in our lives, as well as the worst.
You dedicate completely to that person to the point that all your needs are second place compared to her needs. But what happens when that person doesn’t love you back?
1. The pain will come You’ll start feeling that the world is tearing apart and you’ll feel like every single piece of you is shattering into pieces. You can’t believe that after everything you’ve done and all you’ve been through, someone else got that place in her heart. Pain will slowly take possession of your body and eventually you’re gonna cry. Yes, you’re gonna cry no matter how tough you are, because you really loved her and losing her wasn’t on your plans.
2. …and then the denial You’re gonna deny the fact that she’s in love with someone else. You’re gonna try not to face the truth about the situation and will try to convince yourself that it’s just a bad dream. Every part of you knows the truth, but you won’t face it and that will make you feel even more pain. Probably you’ll ask her to have lunch together and she’ll tell you that she has plans with her date and you will be in that awkward moment when you’re left speechless and you will tell her how happy you’re for her, but you’re going through a heartbreak that will make you cry again.
3. She’ll be closer to you than ever To add salt to the wound, she’ll be closer to you than ever. She’ll tell you everything about the guy she’s dating and how nervous she is about him because she’s really into him and you’ll be like “please stop, don’t you see I love you and it hurts me to know all of this…” She’ll tell you how much she needs you right now and even though you don’t like the idea you will support her just to be near her and to make her happy. Her smile will motivate you and little by little the pain will be replaced with hope that someday maybe she’ll be interested in you.
4. One day she’ll introduce you to the guy The day you meet the guy will be a tough one. You’ll question yourself why she chose him over you. It will be really hard to be neutral with your comments, because you’d want to tell her she’s making a terrible mistake, but you won’t do it because you want her to be happy even if that means to let her go.
5. And then comes the moment of truth Either she will be the guy’s girlfriend, or she’ll change her mind and leave him. Let’s be honest, the first one is the most probable option. You will still be hurt, but the wounds will start healing, and the fact that she’s happy will make you feel a bit better.
6. Someday you’ll find someone else in which you’ll fall for You’ll eventually heal, but you’ll always remember her and that will haunt you for some time. You’ll be scared to let love come to your life again. Calm down, it’s normal. When something or someone hurts us it’s difficult to forget it and we tend to be scared, but someone will eventually help us heal. Someday you’ll meet another girl that will make you fall for her and the feelings that once belonged to another girl will awaken and fill your heart with hope. And at that moment, you’ll make a tough choice between giving yourself a chance to love again, or not. Hopefully that person you fell for will love you too.

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by RemyMartins(m): 6:09pm On Sep 02, 2015
Love? I love you too
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by LogoDWhiz(m): 6:11pm On Sep 02, 2015
And finally, you'll eventually move on!

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by ArchEnemy(m): 6:12pm On Sep 02, 2015
You get time o
You love her and she does not love you....
Move on; life is short

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 6:14pm On Sep 02, 2015
Hw will u be sure if someone truly loves u
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by UjSizzle(f): 6:14pm On Sep 02, 2015
^^ You scream "move on" like moving on is easy undecided

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by Mznaett(f): 6:51pm On Sep 02, 2015
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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by Nobody: 7:25pm On Sep 02, 2015
UjSizzle:
^^ You scream "move on" like moving on is easy undecided
its not easy at all.

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by falconey(m): 7:33pm On Sep 02, 2015
no3 almost knock me out!! So frustrating
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by Nobody: 7:54pm On Sep 02, 2015
Hmmmmm
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 11:55pm On Sep 02, 2015
ArchEnemy:
You get time o
You love her and she does not love you....
Move on; life is short
that means you don't love her..I am talking about someone you ask out and she tells you she likes you but she is on a relationship..
she wouldn't want you to go but rather would be giving you endless hope to count on her.
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 11:56pm On Sep 02, 2015
falconey:
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I guess you must be s victim of no 3
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 12:04am On Sep 03, 2015
Blizzyblinkzy:
Hw will u be sure if someone truly loves u
when he cares for you truly and calls,would like you around him and would be so much concerned about you and your future...
these are the little I can say for now.

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 6:31am On Sep 03, 2015
zadok60:

when he cares for you truly and calls,would like you around him and would be so much concerned about you and your future...
these are the little I can say for now.

ok thanks.

So my boyfriend loves me?
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by ArchEnemy(m): 8:10am On Sep 03, 2015
zadok60:

that means you don't love her..I am talking about someone you ask out and she tells you she likes you but she is on a relationship..
she wouldn't want you to go but rather would be giving you endless hope to count on her.
to be a spare tire?
Don't tag along when someone is in a relationship; move on
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by ArchEnemy(m): 8:12am On Sep 03, 2015
UjSizzle:
^^ You scream "move on" like moving on is easy undecided
Queen, it is not like it is always easy, but tagging along may just bring one more misery and make one miss another shot at happiness

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 12:11pm On Sep 03, 2015
UjSizzle:
^^ You scream "move on" like moving on is easy undecided
Don't mind them.....you know talk is cheap and advice is easy
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:17pm On Sep 03, 2015
zadok60:

that means you don't love her..I am talking about someone you ask out and she tells you she likes you but she is on a relationship..
she wouldn't want you to go but rather would be giving you endless hope to count on her.

Then you go without her knowing....simple
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:17pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
Don't mind them.....you know talk is cheap and advice is easy

Indeed it is
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 12:21pm On Sep 03, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


Indeed it is
YOU!!!
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:25pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
YOU!!!

You too!!!
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by ladman(m): 12:30pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
Don't mind them.....you know talk is cheap and advice is easy

But if u dont take the easy advice you will just wallow in misery.
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 12:40pm On Sep 03, 2015
ladman:


But if u dont take the easy advice you will just wallow in misery.
Not in all cases

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 12:41pm On Sep 03, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


You too!!!
Na your way na undecided
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:43pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
Na your way na undecided

Na you teach me na sad....na so you like am na
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 12:58pm On Sep 03, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


Na you teach me na sad....na so you like am na
Learn dey go
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 1:00pm On Sep 03, 2015
ArchEnemy:
to be a spare tire? Don't tag along when someone is in a relationship; move on
nice point you just dropped.

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 1:00pm On Sep 03, 2015
ArchEnemy:
to be a spare tire? Don't tag along when someone is in a relationship; move on
nice point you just dropped.

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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:09pm On Sep 03, 2015
charijee:
Learn dey go

Learnt enough already..... as for going..... well.... I'll be gone sooner than anyone thinks smiley
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 1:11pm On Sep 03, 2015
JeffreyJamez:


Learnt enough already..... as for going..... well.... I'll be gone sooner than anyone thinks smiley
I know
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by Glowstone: 1:12pm On Sep 03, 2015
n then u know u'v been friend zoned and scammed
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 1:12pm On Sep 03, 2015
Blizzyblinkzy:

ok thanks.
So my boyfriend loves me?
hmmmm...it feels good to know someone you love feels same way also to you.

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