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The Reasons Why Some Married Women Cheat On Their Husband. by janzguy: 4:53pm On Sep 04, 2015
There have been various reasons why lots of married
women cheat. Here are a few reasons….

1. Complacency:
Most married couples get tired of each other few months
after marriage. Being always in each other’s faces and more
can push many women to welcome attention from other places other than their husbands. This gradually get even the very innocent of them into what they do not want before they could realize it.

2. Lacking:
The Fear of God (Very Dangerous) The fear of God has its
place in every relationship. A prayer-less woman who is not
so conscious of God can do anything just to satisfy her inner
canal desires.

3. Not Satisfied With Sex:
A woman who has been around the block will find nothing
spectacular about the next in line cock. She has seen her fair share and has realised that their is nothing left to explore. It however takes an understanding husband who does not mind going all the way to satisfy the sexual desires of his woman. Ask some women why they engage in extra marital affairs and they will tell you it is because of the need for them to explore more ‘grounds’.

4. Financial Situations:
Women just don’t know how to survive without money and
they find it difficult if they are unable to buy some basic
things such as panties, bra, make-up kit, dresses etc. Usually
with marriage, some of these things come to a halt or are
reduced. She doesn’t get the opportunity to go shopping and
all that and before you know it, she’s cheating with a man
who can satisfy those needs.

5. Limited Expectations:
Quite a lot of women have this high expectation of marriage. The fantasize about how rosy and fairy tale-like marriage will be. When reality comes knocking, their disappointment might push them off the cliff. The look for satisfaction and fulfilment and get into the wrong places.

6. Intimacy With time:
Couples become distant due to children, jobs and economic
pressure, meanwhile, women love the intimacy and privacy
shared together. When it’s not forthcoming, she’s likely to
get someone who will provide her with that.

7. Low self-esteem:
This is the most dangerous. Run if you see this trait in a
woman. When a woman is insecure about herself, she has a need to seek validation from others. This can be in the form of sexual, emotional, or intellectual attention. When you don’t love or value yourself, you may project that onto the person you are in a relationship with, and believe they don’t love or value you. Even if your husband or boyfriend loves you greatly, you still may cheat because you find it hard to accept their unconditional love.
Re: The Reasons Why Some Married Women Cheat On Their Husband. by INTROVERT(f): 4:54pm On Sep 04, 2015
I didn't read all that but there is no justifiable for a married man or woman to cheat on the other. grin

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Re: The Reasons Why Some Married Women Cheat On Their Husband. by Nobody: 4:55pm On Sep 04, 2015
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Re: The Reasons Why Some Married Women Cheat On Their Husband. by MISSNORA(f): 4:58pm On Sep 04, 2015
Hmmmmm men eh
Re: The Reasons Why Some Married Women Cheat On Their Husband. by lordtosan(m): 4:59pm On Sep 04, 2015
Very Informative and helpful.
But i still think a woman who will cheat will cheat even if you satisfy and remedy all of the above just like a man who is inherently unfaithful will cheat even if he gets married to an angel.
Re: The Reasons Why Some Married Women Cheat On Their Husband. by pharmagba: 5:08pm On Sep 04, 2015
INTROVERT:
I didn't read all that but there is no justifiable for a married man or woman to cheat on the other. grin
I think the idea behind this write up is to know the Reasons for this UNDESIRABLE pitfall and not JUSTIFCATION. Try and always read completely to excel in understanding.
Having known this pitfall married couples should try as much as possible avoid all of them to sustain their marital vows. To be honest it is not easy, advances are coming on all sides daily.
One more I will like to add is non severance from ex boyfriend's or ex lover can also put a woman in this situation

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Re: The Reasons Why Some Married Women Cheat On Their Husband. by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 5:33pm On Sep 04, 2015
Some women are just cheat sha.
Re: The Reasons Why Some Married Women Cheat On Their Husband. by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 5:33pm On Sep 04, 2015
Some women are just cheat sha.

Whether tinx are good or bad, whether her hubby satisfied her or not.
Re: The Reasons Why Some Married Women Cheat On Their Husband. by orieoda(m): 5:40pm On Sep 04, 2015
INTROVERT:
I didn't read all that but there is no justifiable for a married man or woman to cheat on the other. grin
How would you read when all on your mind is FTC undecided but wait o, I need house help o with attractive salary maybe that will give other nairalanders hope of FTCgrin
Re: The Reasons Why Some Married Women Cheat On Their Husband. by Appleyard(m): 6:01pm On Sep 04, 2015
What happened to the men? The number one reason a woman can cheat on her husband, is lack of God-fearing. Every other thing are minimal. A woman that fears God can work out the rest if they are not in good shape. But once that fear of God is not there, she can do anything, anyday.

But i find it amusing that only women are single out for this recipe. Truth be told, men are the greatest cheaters. Infact, 90% of them cheat, even when their wives positively meet with all the causal recipes as mentioned by the thread above.

Nevertheless, one of the many reasons a woman can cheat do falls on a particular points as mentioned by the OP; but the real deal centres on the Fear of God.

But like INTROVERT said above, there is no justifiable reason a woman or man should cheat on her husband or wife. That just settles it!

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