morning romancelanders, I have heard people say that as far as they love someone they are ready to go through hell with that person.
Now picture this situation, you have been dating a lady/guy for for a considerable time and you truly love this person, as a guy you have secretly bought the ring to propose to her. Then she/he drops the bombshell,she/he is infected with the deadly virus HIV/AIDS.
Will you still marry him/her?
honest answers pls

Tough one.

Naaah.... D rship was built on lies and deceit so its over

it can't even hapn in a movie...

Likely not. Who knows how many more secrets I'd find out after the wedding?

Why open up @ d deadly hour in d first place...oh, so as to tie me down abi?.
I think im more of d opinion that he shouldn't have kept such for that long and if he truly wants ma happiness,he wudnt even expect me to accept cos honestly i wont..though its a tough and painful decision

ShayGirl:

Why open up @ d deadly hour in d first place...oh, so as to tie me down abi?.
I think im more of d opinion that he shouldn't have kept such for that long and if he truly wants ma happiness,he wudnt even expect me to accept cos honestly i wont..though its a tough and painful decision

What if he just got to know himself?

Oahray:
What if he just got to know himself?

Hmmmm. I reason in dat sense., Given that, it might still be an issue of probability cos i cant seem to picture it happen in reality.

Cutehector:
Naaah.... D rship was built on lies and deceit so its over

so your love for her will evaporate?

ShayGirl:



Hmmmm. I reason in dat sense., Given that, it might still be an issue of probability cos i cant seem to picture it happen in reality.

lol. So it's still under probability, whether it was kept secret for long or not. That would mean his opening up isn't the real issue. It just worsens the real issue. No?

If she don share me d tin oya na to dei screw ourselves dei go...

queencandace:

so your love for her will evaporate?

like evaporated milk darling. Cuz she would hv infected me wit hiv too. Whch I won't forgive her for dat.

Cutehector:
like evaporated milk darling. Cuz she would hv infected me wit hiv too. Whch I won't forgive her for dat.

that is if u guys engaged in premarital sex which i dont support

queencandace:

that is if u guys engaged in premarital sex which i dont support

its just dat I dnt like bein in a rship based on lies, if she is hiv positive den she should leme knw. I"m not an illiterate, thr r lots of coupls dat hav managed dat... Whr one is hiv positv and d oda is not and dey even gave birth to a hiv negativ baby.. We all hav been anlightened abt hiv so its no big deal... So its best she let's be knw from d onset and we would knw hw to take things from there

Sexologist:
But cutehector fall my hand o..... Na jungle una dey live? y'all talking like kids and uneducated peeps.... (no offence)

HIV/AIDS is no longer a stigma in the advanced world and even here in Nigeria..... with some money and counselling they can marry and the guy won't contact nothing, same with the kids too

Una no dey read? or follow news?

sexologist, leme just be civil in my comments as I hav always been.. If u read d op's post well, u will understand dat d partner hid d hiv status from the oda partner until they must hav gotten engaged or married... Nw within this period, they must hav engaged in sex... Sometimes unprotected.. The partner who isn't hiv positive must hav contracted the hiv unknowingly... Den after they must hav married or gotten engaged, d partner who is hiv positive nw opens up and reveals d status to d oda partner.. Nw tell me, won't u feel hurt?

bitch aint gon' see mah brakelights.....

Sexologist:

don't support Na, you people can form here on NL sha....

ur moniker says alot

Sexologist:


sure I will... from the aspect of trust u are right.... but sorry I sounded that way since it was like everyone was saying nope cos of the fear of HIV/AIDS

no problem, I knew u ddnt understand where I'm coming from dats why I had to explain.. So nw we on d same page..