Antoinne:

You see, turning down the party invitation has nothing to do with being introvert, but more to do with being timid or lacking of will. And that's not a good thing for your future self. If you do want to go to that party, nothing should stop you from going, exercising your freedom while there and not crossing the boundaries you've set for yourself. Bascially, living your life. And if what you want to do is to simply sit at home, then that's what you should just do and enjoy same while at it. Without feeling left out.

Just had to put that out there

dmcdad:

This is spot on.

Bruv, to be frank with you, I love my life like no other. I posted something earlier on in response to someone's post. That, boredom is a non-existing word in my Dictionary. I have friends who call sometimes and tell me they wanna come around as they are bored. Then I ask myself; why don't I get bored too?

When I tell people I have never been to a club before, they say I am missing out. What the heck! Missing out on what? You have to figure out what makes you happy and do that as much as possible to always stay happy. Like you rightly stated, the person you wish to become more like could just be wishing they could be like you.

People need to see the positive side of things. Introversion is not a burden, neither is it a curse. Its a great blessing.

Antoinne:

You see, turning down the party invitation has nothing to do with being introvert, but more to do with being timid or lacking of will. And that's not a good thing for your future self. If you do want to go to that party, nothing should stop you from going, exercising your freedom while there and not crossing the boundaries you've set for yourself. Bascially, living your life. And if what you want to do is to simply sit at home, then that's what you should just do and enjoy same while at it. Without feeling left out.

Just had to put that out there

PunkyVeer:


Excusé moi? Noboby & I mean, NO ONE, would ever describe me as lacking in will, plus being timid. Not even if they were high, drunk or sustained brain injury. Oh & I think I know what personality type I have so you can kindly keep your opinions to yourself about that.

dmcdad:

Sometimes when I attend a party or a get-together with friends, I do enjoy of them and sometimes exclaim; mehn, flexing dey sweet die! The next time you call me for such, I might just say I ain't going. Thing is, I wouldn't even give a heck and no form of regret whatsoever.

Antoinne:

2 gbosas! for you
Now that you mentioned it, I'm actually trying to remember the last time I thought I was bored...
Not when my maaaany books are around me.

Antoinne:

Well...that's how you came across. Why reject an invitation to a party when you really want to go?

Eniqurl:
I hate the fact that people think am proud.

Snowangel4:
I am an introvert,but people say I am too proud and arrogant . It is so depressing

Cutehector:
maybe its becaus ur outward appearance makes dem think so and the airs u giv

mrkay101:

Damn Girl u fine!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Eniqurl:
Prolly. I know am nt proud Sha

Cutehector:
alryt... so urm u woild gv me ur number ryt?

Eniqurl:
No Gimme your needle.

Cutehector:
needle aint working

klassiquette:
I hate the fact that after a tiring semester and I'm back home I don't get to leave my room .. It's kinda lonely but sometimes it just the way I like it.... And worse even in school I don't have friends in always#just there

Lacomus:
I hope yu are having a wonderful time "Happy Birthday"

klassiquette:

Wow... Thanks I appreciate

Lacomus:
ur welcome, one more thing pls don't be an introvert today the day is worth a stroll, party or something.

klassiquette:

Well I'm in my room... Maybe next year

Lacomus:
hahahahahahahahaha,lol, lmfao, I can't stop laughing, wht are yu reading ?

Eniqurl:
ohk, ur digit?

Cutehector:
u seen it?

Antoinne:


All you introverts suckling here like babies need one thing: psychiatric help. Buzz a doc or visit a clinic.

If you having troubles being an introvert, expressing yourself, then you are no different from the extrovert who continually ends up in problems with his/her loquaciousness. Come on, guys!

Introversion is only one side to you. You can be introverted and still have a girlfriend you spend or don't spend hours on end on the phone with. You can be an introvert and still go to or not go to parties. It's as you like it.
You can be an introvert and still stay indoor all day long musing to yourself and engaging your thoughts. And this without feeling left out. And oh yes, you can be an introvert and keep quiet all day not talking to anyone. Ready, though, when needed, to express your opinions and make your stand clear.

Separate being an introvert from being timid and lacking will. Separate them. You guys need to work on yourselves.

PunkyVeer:


I come across to whom? I reject them because I really don't like a place with too many people because it involves a lot of fake niceness & useless chit chat about nothing. Have you ever pretended to be interested in some lame story someone was telling, while inside you're groaning & not really caring? THAT is exactly why I don't go to big gatherings. Not everyone you're going to click with on a mental level, so I'd rather be by myself than listen to someone going blah blah blah about BS I care very little about.

Btw, who died & put you in charge of endorsing who & who isn't an introvert? Hmmm..

Turning down party invitations where I could be having so much fun, just to go sit in front the tv bored out of my mind (when the programming sucks on the day)

Peachess:

Dude shut the fùçk up! What the hell is wrong with you? Can't remember tagging your moniker or asking for your opinion, are you crazy or something? What's the topic about? I only replied can't see where I whined about anything, or do you have comprehension problems? You're actually the one who need a psychiatrist because only a crazy person will go about not minding his business. People have different personalities, okay? IDÌÒT!