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Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Nobody: 7:58am On Sep 13, 2015 |
angelofurlife: Yes. 1 Like |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by angelofurlife: 8:12am On Sep 13, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:ok |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by ritababe(f): 12:55pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Jollyjoy: thank you |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by MrsChima(f): 1:49pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Sorry I am late! I was uhmm (never mind). Cheating! If my man cheat and what would be my reactions? Hmmm. There are many layers of cheating and I don't condone it all. I think people used cheating to mask pain and frustration. I have heard men say things like weight gains, lack of sex, changes in her appearance, and infidelity. I have hear women say things like lack of attention, affection, communication, no spark, and infidelity. None of the reasons listed are good reasons to cheat. If you are unhappy LEAVE PERIOD. The relationship is broken and if you could fix it....you wouldn't be cheating! Most of the times, the other person do not know the truth and shouldn't be attacked. You can tell them the facts and it is up to them to believe it or not. Once the information is known and the other person still stay then it becomes an issue. Some people purposely go after attached couples because of jealousy, anger, pain, and malice. I tell women, If a man would cheat on his woman with you, he WILL cheat on you with another woman. What would I do? Leave because if he is cheating the marriage is broken and if it could be fixed he wouldn't be cheating. |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by DharmyYinks: 2:33pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Nobody: 3:54pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Behira:oh my my, I wonder what and how bad the thing the guy did to you that left this bitterness, repulsion and Mark In you. He must have been a fkin assholee, your type are so loving and gives your all when in love. damn was he a Nigga or white boy? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Nobody: 9:52am On Sep 14, 2015 |
INTROVERT:Boyfriends. |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Nobody: 6:12pm On Sep 14, 2015 |
MzzTega:and how will you knw he cheated? |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Kassychuks(f): 5:21pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
misspicy:plz i dnt undrstnd y my name z here..... My contribution z;if u rilly luv a man,u shuld alwyz b redy 2tolerate anytin dat cmez out of d relatnship.Relatnship z all abt "ENDURANCE".....If u rilly luv him,alwyz mke him one of ur prayer points. |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Adaeze003(f): 5:50pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
No comment. |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Nobody: 5:58pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
Adaeze003: Yeah, the trust just gets ruined. TBH, I tried staying in a relationship like that. In this case I was the side chic It only lasted for about 2 weeks after I found. I just couldn't stay with him. I felt disgust, deceit & it was just too much to handle. Even in a marriage I think I'd walk because something inside me refuses to be with someone I can't trust. Because I'd always be suspicious of him & that's not fun. |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Adaeze003(f): 6:10pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: To think I pulled down that post ... felt like my opinion should stay with me for some reason. lol. It not only breaks the trust, it's very disrespectful and shameful. Yes, I take it that seriously. Like you're gonna sleep with someone else and come lay on the same bed with me? Cuddle me? And claim you still love me? And expect me to "persevere" and "pray" for you? To hell with you nigga... i'd rather be alone and know I have no1 than stick around to earn a disease. The only problem I think will be the kids. Easier said I guess? All in all, I hope for a good man. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Nobody: 6:20pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
Adaeze003: You pretty much said my mind. Lol @ the pray for me part. That always cracks me up when hypocrites hide behind God & when people expect prayer to solve problems that require common sense. I once told someone here that if I was God, I'd block some people's prayers for real. If he's a cheater then what do you want God to do about it? As far as I'm concerned, there are signs that show that maybe someone isn't the one. The level of disrespect & pretense that comes with cheating is enough to convince me that someone might not be the right person after all. In that case, call in the stand-ins! Next! Oh & you'll find a good man, dearie. He's out there searching for you too |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by henribj(m): 7:21pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
if i cheat on my wife or gf and she chooses to retaliate by doing so, well.... #OYO is her case. |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Nobody: 7:43pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
lemme just drop this... what ever you see in a man when you're dating him will continue till the coming ages even in marriage... so if you see something that you can't tolerate in a man leave that relationship don't bother telling him or making him change cause not only do men not like someone trying to change them,it takes time for people to change so that even with prayer the situation will still drain you emotionally wella.... don't remain there and hope he'll suddenly change when "this" or "that" happens..her can pretend for a while but he's who he is..... when you see something in a man that you can't live with step out of the relationship.. only 1% might change |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by torqque7(m): 12:23pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
Behira:@behira..its sad that a cute girl like u is wasting with a fellow female,mehnn you must have really loved the guy that hurt you enough to turn u a lesbian, well I hope you know females break hearts too?so ur not safe either with you fellow girl,had a few lesbian friends when in school and their heartbreaks where the worse..anyway I wish u luck but personally I think you can do better,the guy that broke your heart is there living his life happily while you are letting him affect your life so much so that you changed your sexuality..hmmm its rather sad than strong.. |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Nobody: 12:29pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
Just walk out of the relationship. |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Behira(f): 4:57pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
torqque7:Really wish i understood all u wrote but all d same. Wonderful article.....cool |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Fmac(m): 5:31pm On Jan 09, 2018 |
Re: An Eye For An Eye Or Not? (ladies and guys only....kids keep off) by Sierusvirus(m): 7:46pm On Jan 09, 2018 |
The second question the OP left out is: How do a guy retaliate when his girlfriend or wife cheats on him. It's obvious she will definitely cheat on him because she knows they usually covers their tracks 150% better than guys and for a guy checking or trying to check, the next question from a girl will be, GUESS HE DOESN'T HAVE A WORK OR WANTS TO DIE B4 HIS TIME. When he finally knows maybe after 20 or 30 years into the marriage. - In a situation like that, did he harm the girl or destroys the her car ( because she's got nothing) and she succeeded in wasting the guy's TIME. It's obvious girls or wives cheats more than their bf or husband codedly and can only be spotted when the guy starts thinking and suspecting like the girls. What do you have to say about those girls and what do you think the guy's should do to those girls. Every lady have greater tendency to cheat more than a the guy's codedly |
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