My relationship of 5years now is almost coming to an end with a lady I met during my undergraduate days. we have been dating for 5years now because I met her in her year one and now she's through with her NYSC this year July to be precise.

However, I have caught her times without numbers with her innumerable promiscuity act and at times if I sensed something weird about her movement, I tried talking to her to see reasons that her waywardness wouldn't help her at all that she would just end up being used and later dumped. That where did she wanna start from after I must have long been out of reach?

Now, the problem is that I know of no less than 5guys that have had a taste of my supposedly fiancé's honey-well. As at the moment am typing this message, my woman's number has been switched off since yesterday's evening and till now still off. I am pretty sure that the most unacceptable excuse these days is that, one can not claim to be having a flat battery due to the massive improvement in power supply. Had it been it was during PGEJ's administration, I might probably still give it benefit of the doubt.

Nonetheless, this would be the second time I'm sure of that she would be passing the night in a man's house even though the first one was just a night (Dec 2012) even though she confessed that the guy didn't have sex with him buh only kissed and sucked one of her big boobs.

Hence, it has suddenly become a norms for my woman to have her phone put in silent, air plane mode or worse still, switched off. She visited me on Wednesday and left here on Friday but couldn't have a taste of my honey because she was on her P. My calculation now is that is it likely for her to have finished menstruating by now which could possibly allow another man to have access to the spicy juice?? The ladies in the house should please help me out with d question while the guys should plz tell if they could have sex with a lady in her menstrual flow...

Fellow N.landers, u might think am stupid but if truly anyone of us have truly loved a woman dearly, u would understand my plight. Thanks

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the way you just put words together against their wish is alarming. get help.

Brother if u are realy saying the truth.then i think you don't want to marry and die early.use and excuse her.

Oboy na craze u don dey craze soooo

Dude, you are just a CONTROL FREAK that is about getting married; that's the sad truth! Just let the poor girl be, okay? quit monitoring her and you'll see her reset to default by herself

It's okay to love someone dearly like u said but when things are not going well, you will have to be bold and take that decision. I believe there is something special about her which you can't let go. it's your choice bro, use your brain and think about the future.

I smell lies

Don't drink and post

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Nonetheless, this would be the second time I'm sure of that she would be passing the night in a man's house even though the first one was just a night (Dec 2012) even though she confessed that the guy didn't have sex with her buh only kissed and sucked one of her big boobs.


Fellow N.landers, u might think am stupid but if truly anyone of us have truly loved a woman dearly, u would understand my plight. Thanks

Jeez!!! What would we not see this early sunday morning on Nairaland. OP, for the record, I don't think you are stupid. I KNOW you are!

Op, you just reminded me of exactly what I passed through then. When ever my ex is passing the night with someone she switches off her phone mostly especially in the evenings and then switches it on in the morning and when I ask her she would start giving excuses of low battery even when its obvious that she had two phones. I understand how you feel right now especially when you love the lady whole heartedly. Well, to me its not proper to have sex with a lady that is seeing her menses. I would advice that you move on if you know that she is not willing to change because what you are dating is a prostitute.

Terrible

@op, she is in my house learning interviews skill now that she is through with nysc. Don't worry i'm a good Christian, she will return untouched.

Lolz.

jus got back from church, dont want to lamblast u 4 that singular reason, so am goin 2 keep it real short n simple ''RECEIVE BRAIN IJN''

Op belongs to APC
Your words combo are just so hillarious.Lol



Well, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. If you not cool with her wayward act, then quit the relationship.
The earlier, the better!

Op if she is a Whorl then you must be a Whale hahaha

Cry of a lover boy ;

Romance section is gradually turning into a joke section. I think the food section will be better because they post real foods and recipes.

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Jeez!!! What would we not see this early sunday morning on Nairaland. OP, for the record, I don't think you are stupid. I KNOW you are!

hahahaha trust me when I say the OP Is sleeping on a moving okada.

Lamentations of a jilted lover. Op, you know what? Don't stop the campaign. You can go to facebook, twitter, and other chat sites and continue spreading this your pained story reeking of sheer frustration. Maybe you might get compensated. Consumate _idiot

I thought today is Sunday.

LOVE IS GOOD.

LOVE IS BAD.

LOVE IS KIND.

LOVE IS WICKED.

TOO MUCH LOVE FOR A LADY CAN AFFECT YOU SANITY.

LADIES ARE KIND BUT WICKED.

LOVE WITH YOUR HEAD BUT NOT WITH YOUR HEART.

A WAYWARD IS NOT WORTH THINKING OF NOT TO TALK OF TAKING TO THE ALTAR

POPULATION RATIO OF FEMALE TO MALE IS 3:1 WHICH MEANS FOR BALANCED EQUATION, MAN MUST MARRY 3 WOMEN.

BE A MAN & LET THE BITCH OF THE HOOK

GoOdLuCk

Op sorry, its not easy dating a LovePeddler, i've been there and i know how much it pains. Its not hard, just make up your mind, can you keep up with her and continuewith the relationship or you can't stand her wayward way and call it quit. Simple as ABC

My own humble advice bro leave her cuz if u marry that kind person you will die young of thinking and wen u think it leads to frustration,you know what next.

issues like this, someone with a brain, finds it amusing and even use derogatory comments.
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if you don't have anything meaningful to contribute, why not read and move on.

It's really sad that she isn't faithful, but b4 u decide to get married to some1, u should endeavour to make God your foundation as to prevent issues as this,

1. Stay off sex wt the lady u intend getting married to, bt that does nt mean u guys shouldn't talk about ur sexual preferences as to know your capabilities and all.

Pls always pray for a life partner, dnt jst dive in one and conclude..

this op is a real funny dude... abeg give me her number me sef go like sample her "spicy juice"..lolzz

Hmm

Tl; Dr
Btw, what is a whorl?

Why must everything in this world today be about sex, sex, sex. Nothing else matters now other than sex. No more morals, no healthy attitudes towards relationships, if it isn't sex, then nothing is happening. How can you be dating someone and all you ask to know is if it's okay to have sex with her while she's menstruating, so you will determine if someone is sleeping with her.

You never asked to know if it's okay to help her get started on her career after her you service.

You haven't bothered to discuss your priorities in Ife with her, all you care to talk to her about is sex.

If you need a wife, change your attitude.

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Lamentations of a jilted lover. Op, you know what? Don't stop the campaign. You can go to facebook, twitter, and other chat sites and continue spreading this your pained story reeking of sheer frustration. Maybe you might get compensated. Consumate _idiot

How is he an idiot? Do you insult everybody that comes your way?