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Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:00am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: How would you know she is cheating? Married women they cheat wella....magun wasn't created today Go figure |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:00am On Feb 18, 2016 |
EggovinMma: I know say U be badoo |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Nobody: 12:00am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:03am On Feb 18, 2016 |
pet4ril: brace for impact. No wait till water boil b4 U go begin reason wetin U wan cook |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:05am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Timbuktou: She woudl remarry again or starts cheating too Life is not hard at all 4 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 12:07am On Feb 18, 2016 |
doveda: Kilode gan? You see me for dream? Abeg free me. |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:07am On Feb 18, 2016 |
cococandy: I am laughing like a mad woman at the bolded Biko it should be we lead while they follow 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:08am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Phema: pls upload Ur picture, so I will see Ur face & advice all my niggas to stay away 4rm U |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:09am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: Coming from who has never cheated or dated more than two ladies......sincerely you are in no position to tell what a 21st century woman what to do 6 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:10am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: We are in this together |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Forwetinnah: 12:11am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Annoying thread promoting promiscuity...since its okay for the man to cheat and have an understanding wife, hope the same Man won't drink rat poison when the same wife he "loves and desires" CHEATS ON HIM WITH SEVERAL MEN? And why should a woman remain celibate after leaving her husband? It is better a woman leaves a dog who calls himself a husband than remain in a marriage and get all kinds of deadly diseases that would end her innocent life. It's indeed terrible the kind of things men bring into their marriages, at the end of the day, everyone blames the woman 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:12am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: What stigma? Do you live in a village? 7 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:13am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: I don't know the spirit that makes you think that a woman will die if her husband calls her useless? You need to upgrade yourself. Surround yourself with women not dummies!!! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by linearity: 12:14am On Feb 18, 2016 |
jmoore: It is not there because, it is a fool's paradise. The husband that is unfaithful today did not start off as being unfaithful...He most likely was faithful then, hence you married him to begin with. Alternatively, if he were unfaithful when you married him, what is the point of leaving him on account of his unfaithfulness now for someone faithful? |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by idupaul: 12:16am On Feb 18, 2016 |
KanwuliaJara: who ask U anything |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:16am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Joy1706: This is why I dey tell women to have lives outside marriage. If it comes to the worse, na to ask him to leave the house for her 2 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:19am On Feb 18, 2016 |
njokusboy: Would you say your mum is a zombie? 8 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:21am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: Used who? Are you referring to the consensual act they engaged in? Chai! 2 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 12:25am On Feb 18, 2016 |
doveda: you better wake up from your fantasy world into reality. |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Tolatutu: 12:28am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Women have caught up to men , do me i do you man no go vex. Most of the women who turn a blind eye to cheating are also doing their thing That's why i never put mouth when people start talking about a woman cheating because for the one time the wife would have cheated the average husband would have cheated 10times. The days of suffering and smiling are over, personally i'll rather get a divorce and move on but for the women who choose to close eye and do their own thing i don't judge. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by doveda: 12:33am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: No sir It is you that needs to wake up....21st century has made things easier and almost perfect. I watched two documentaries recently. One was about the rise of GILF and manwhores/sugarboys...Oops! I think I am still dreaming. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Henrique4real(f): 12:34am On Feb 18, 2016 |
There are reasons to call this thread worldly facts of life but I tell you OP, there are more and too many reasons to call it IDIOTIC. I really don't like abusing but jeez! What is wrong with these male mentality u people are selling everywhere. U guys better be very careful cos this whole package is really suggestive of the life u pple have chosen and indirectly forcing the female folks to be complacent about and accept when u cannot accept same as a male. Forget about the deception where u listed options.its clear form the tone that u have already chosen an option for the females. Infact none of ur options are good. Can u imagine? What u cannot take, ur hands are fast to type and suggest! Msheew! 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 12:37am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Tolatutu: Agreed but the question i need to ask os this;..Is any man worth making you stoop so low to a slutty level? Does it make sense to turn yourself to a LovePeddler because one regberegbe philanderer can't keep his kini inside his boxers? Common..i think ladies who cheat as a revenge have smuttiness in them but just waiting for an excuse to unleash it because no one can ever make you do what you are not capable of. |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by banmee(m): 12:38am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: Here we go again. Another chauvinistic article from a chauvinistic prick. You can never end up with an assured and confident woman. I pity the slave you end up with. I strongly believe you should emigrate to Afghanistan or Iraq. You'll fit perfectly over there. At least they think exactly the way you do in matters relating to women. This muthafucker is justifying staying with a philandering husband. Really? Come and say this same shiit in an organized society and see if they'll not throw you out head first. There is something seriously wrong with you. I wonder what kind of environment you grew up in. I really wonder. I will keep bugging you till you receive sense. 26 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 12:40am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Henrique4real: @ Bold letterings... You are very free to cheat back s a revenge dearie so look at this objectively and not dogmatically. A s long as you are ready to drag yourself in the mud cos a randy guy decides to do his thing then please go ahead..no one is forcing any lady to maintain a status quo. |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 12:43am On Feb 18, 2016 |
banmee: This is a thread for men and not boys please... If you want to comment here please do so like a matured person and not one high on liquor or oshogbo weed. Its not a must to make comments an we are not in a palm wine joint so make intelligent comments or keep mum. |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Naikkie(f): 12:44am On Feb 18, 2016 |
banmee: Thumbs up bro, I am glad this is coming from a guy. just as my blood bro would have said it. I am glad! 11 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Tolatutu: 12:45am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: I've told you personally i would rather move on. The women who stay and cheat do so because they need to find their own happiness, You think its easy to live with a serial cheat abi You tell women not to leave so they can die of hypertension abi When they have their own thing on the side they no longer give a flip about the cheating loser. It's basically an open relationship and that's what many Nigerian marriages these days are. Since you people say the husband is the head then don't blame wives for following their husbands leads 4 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Memejem: 12:45am On Feb 18, 2016 |
For you to ask a woman to disregard a cheating husband is for you to ask her to emotionally give up on the marriage. What is the point of remaining married if that's the case. There are many things that women should be cautioned and instructed to forgive and let pass in a marriage but definetely not adultery. If a woman sincerely tries to work on the marital issues that lead to her husband to seek sex outside and he still refuses to change what is the need of staying in that marriage? So the man can now come and give her an STD? Or she shouldn't have sex again in her marriage? So she should face her children and sacrifice having a love life. I understand what you're meaning to say and maybe it would be more likely for a woman to remain in the home and disregard her husbands promiscuity in the olden days but it's not realistic in modern nigeria. People are more exposed and educated. Women have more options and opportunities available to them. They don't have to stay in a marriage by force anymore because they can't afford to care for themselves otherwise. I don't want to speak for all women so I shall speak for myself. I will not take it. Never. No matter what it will leave a negative impact on my way of life. I will not be able to function knowing that my husband is having extramarital affairs and is unwilling to change. It is one thing if we have a matured discussion and decide to move forward and he actually stops sleeping around. With time we will mend. But if his is UNWILLING then Biko no time to waste time. I am out. Peace of mind is free. Peace I made a promise, a vow and a convenant with a man under God and I will keep that promise until they day I die and I expect the man to do the same. This is MARRIAGE not boyfriend/girlfriend wahala. This a scared bonding between two individuals. If this matrimonial home is a Muslim family where men are entitled in the religion to practise polygamy and have up to 4 wives. The woman can now argue that the man should stop having sex outside and marry another wife. But I highly doubt that after 4 wives a man who has the mentality of a serial cheater will stop there. Now if this is a Christian marriage then seriously what is the point? The man will not change. The woman may stay if she is 50± and does not see herself starting life all over again. Perhaps sex is no longer as important to her as it used to be. But to ask a woman below 50 to basically live a celibate life with a cheating husband is wickedness. Because she will not want to sleep with her husband again, the love will be gone, that close relationship is broken. You are living with an enemy. How will this shape the minds of the children who view the relationship of their parents? Unless the wife is unaware of the husbands actions there is no way they can reasonably function as a family unit and remain truly in love unless they have an agreement that the husband is free to do as he pleases and he agrees to always use protection outside. But I don't agree to such agreements in marriage. And therefore I can not be content in such a marriage. The real question here is in a Nigerian household if a woman is a serial cheater would you ask the husband to bear within the marriage? Truthfully, marriage is a commitment and nobody said it would be easy. But, whether man or woman ANYBODY who is not willing to commit to thier spouse seriously is not ready for marriage. We are human and sometimes we make mistakes and cheat on the ones we love, but if the love is there forgiveness will come. The problem is when the cheating never stops. Then there is no need to remain in my opinion. All of this only makes sense if you married for love. If you married for money then of course you will stay in the marriage Na. When ur cheating husband does his own, you go and do your own outside and continue to collect the money. Loooolll. Just jokes But this is my humble opinion. It's a long epistle sha. But you don't have to agree with me. But that is how I see it. 17 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by mizquote(f): 12:48am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Op must be a Yoruba man. 3 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 12:48am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Tolatutu: Apparently i asked an objective question with various options to choose from but ironically many ladies are just attcking the thread without seing the objective side to it. So please what option would you categorically settle for? |
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