banmee:


You know what I think? I think you have a potency problem. You can't function unless you can dominate a woman. I bet if you meet a confident woman it shrinks up. What's with you and male dominance? You need help. Every article you post is always about the subjugation of the female species. I will pray for you. Now close your eyes.

gemale:
op no try @ all. 2 dey advise women 2 tolerate cheating husbands no good @ all. Both partners r supposed 2 b mutually faithful 2 each oda. A cheating partner has already eroded d foundation of trust dt marriage is supposed 2 b built on so y shld a woman cheated on stay in a marriage dt makes her sad? If d partner cheated on decides 2 4gv & move on, ok bt if dey decide 2 end d marriage, u cant blame dem. Its nt everybody dt can tolerate a cheating spouse & being a man or woman is no license 4 1 2 cheat on ones spouse. If op isnt a hypocrite, let him give men d same advice when their wives cheat.

Henrique4real:
There are reasons to call this thread worldly facts of life but I tell you OP, there are more and too many reasons to call it IDIOTIC. I really don't like abusing but jeez! What is wrong with these male mentality u people are selling everywhere. U guys better be very careful cos this whole package is really suggestive of the life u pple have chosen and indirectly forcing the female folks to be complacent about and accept when u cannot accept same as a male. Forget about the deception where u listed options.its clear form the tone that u have already chosen an option for the females. Infact none of ur options are good. Can u imagine? What u cannot take, ur hands are fast to type and suggest! Msheew!

sinizia:
It still beats my imagination how some/many people still take this OP's threads serious. I usual ignore ALL his threads cos of his skewed mindset and condescending views especially against women. He usually hides his misogynistic and pervasive beliefs sublimnally between several avalanche of poorly-constructed dissertations OR migrane-inducing sanctimonious epistles. What a dumb and pathetic thread. Just man up and say you support men cheating.

doveda:

I thought you were a misogynist

What's up?

Toks2008:


Agreed but the question i need to ask os this;..Is any man worth making you stoop so low to a slutty level? Does it make sense to turn yourself to a LovePeddler because one regberegbe philanderer can't keep his kini inside his boxers?

Common..i think ladies who cheat as a revenge have smuttiness in them but just waiting for an excuse to unleash it because no one can ever make you do what you are not capable of.

mizquote:


I'm not surprised you re yoruba.

you see, the world isn't as it use to be where women were treated as foot mat and slaves the world has evolved and its still doing.


women re now self independent, educated and have dignity. marriage is not the ultimate, apostle paul said marriage wasn't meant for everyone.


marriage is a fusion of two brings that is why the bible said the two shall be one, as the man and woman body belongs not to themselves but to each other.


I will never ever stay with an unrepentant philander. marriage is not for cheating and no cheating for in the bible marriage can be dissolved on the basis of sexual infidelity.


I better divorce him because I can never pretend to ignore him if hes a bloody cheat.

I may re-marry to a man I'm sure won't cheat if he repeat same I will do same.


with the kind of women I see now I am proud of how our future daughters will be, strong, intelligent and confident.

Tolatutu:


I'am married, stop assuming we're all single

sinizia:


what made you think such?


Insomnia is slaying me without mercy, and you?

doveda:


I don't know

Same. My fault though

Recherche:
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Exactly, thanks
He expects a woman to tolerate a cheating partner and not cheat, because of stigma, and he went further by saying majority of men cheat.

Then who exactly are those same men cheating with, if not someone else's woman or wife.

Which means on one hand, he accepts that women can cheat too(since we all know men cheat with women), and it seems he has no problem with it because, obviously he was looking at it from a man's perspective or he probably felt like ignoring that aspect.

Yet on the other hand he expects women not to cheat and tolerate their cheating spouse.




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doveda:


I am not a feminist. I am me


The fear of Myn.d44 is the beginning of......

I hate him so much

sinizia:


You got banned for that word only? Or cos of your general harshness and brashness?

doveda:


Ermmmmm.... I am neither

I asked Vanquay to 'STFU' and I added ‘rude thing'. The coward moderator classified it an attack.

Rocktation:
Abi? Like asking if the woman would "shamelessly philander about" when her husband "philanders". It becomes shameful for women when supposedly, it is a natural phenomenon for men.
@skydeep

postmann:

Reading all the response from the contributing women makes me laugh.

Obviously the 21st century woman has taken her world in one giant stride with illusions and arrogance.

But one thing remains: IT IS A MAN'S WORLD! Pure and simple!

Hate me if you must. Call me a sexist if it makes you happy, but I'll say it like it is.

Men like their women fresh! Untainted most times, or after they've know her. A woman who leaves her husband over infidelity and marries another will soon regret it.
Most men who marry divorced women are not faithful themselves. And the chances of a man finding sexual fulfilment from a divorced woman ONLY is very slim.

The 21st century woman believes she is similar to a man, that there is no difference save for the hairs on his face and body.

But in her arrogance, the bitter truth of life sweeps in from behind.

Even never-married single ladies are having challenges getting married, and we are talking about the married and divorced.

Quit the pride and arrogance ladies! The best slot a divorced woman can get in this era, is a glorified sex partner. Or a P.A to an aged man. Hardly any young man will pitch his sexual tent forever with a divorced woman, even in marriage.

Your best shot most of the time is with the husband of your youth.

And one more thing: It's not the same thing when a man cheats and when a woman cheats.

But the shocking thing is, I've even seen men argue this in the negative. The sexual organs of both sex says it all.
Even deities reacts to a cheating wife.


God says, "If a husband divorces his wife And she goes from him And belongs to another man, Will he still return to her? Will not that land be completely polluted? But you are a harlot with many lovers; Yet you turn to Me," declares the LORD

(Jer 3:1)



If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, and if after she leaves his house she becomes the wife of another man, and her second husband dislikes her and writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, or if he dies, then her first husband, who divorced her, is not allowed to marry her again after she has been defiled. That would be detestable in the eyes of the LORD. Do not bring sin upon the land the LORD your God is giving you as an inheritance.

(Duet 24:1-4)

Now we know polygamy is WRONG. And a cheating husband errs grievously. It's infact a mortal sin. But the above scriptures are HIGHLIGHTS of how abominable is the act of a cheating wife. Even when she was divorced and another man has "touched" her she cannot come back to her husband.

If your pride won't let you stay with your cheating husband, then honorably prepare for celibacy. Or you can choose to end up in a far more shameful union with another man who will eventually seek another woman when he is done exploring what is left of you.

A married woman who spreads her leg for another is a pack of shame before man and spirits.

This is no call for men to cheat or opt for polygamy or even divorce. It is simply a response to a lost breed of women.

Phema:
OP, you forgot to include;

6. Would you prefer to marry a philandering man, wait till he makes good money, kill him afterwards and inherit all his wealth?

Now, that is an option worth considering.

jmoore:
"Would you divorce him and marry a faithful man?"

Why is this option not listed?