before or after. cheating remains the same

whitelexi:

When u commit adultery. . . Meaning u should be married first. I dont consider anything done before marriage to be cheating.

nice one dear. Me I dey do and I dont mind if my guy do too. @whitelexi. I hope you wont mind if the girl you are dating has another man.  I like civilised people like you. We fit connect.

abbewe:

nice one dear. Me I dey do and I dont mind if my guy do too. @whitelexi. I hope you wont mind if the girl you are dating has another man. I like civilised people like you. We fit connect.

We no fit connect, sorry.

Its not the type you think cos am a guy.

abbewe:

Its not the type you think cos am a guy.

If u be guy why u come dey yarn like woman?

abbewe:

nice one dear. Me I dey do and I dont mind if my guy do too. @whitelexi. I hope you wont mind if the girl you are dating has another man. I like civilised people like you. We fit connect.

y u no talk 'your babe' instead of 'your man'?

He can be a man and his partner can be a man as well, don't be a homophobe lexi!

debosky:

He can be a man and his partner can be a man as well, don't be a homophobe lexi!

I tire oh

debosky:

He can be a man and his partner can be a man as well, don't be a homophobe lexi!

you need to know that on NL, one can assume to be m or f

Whitelexi,

Are you saying if a partner you are engaged to be married to is sleeping with some dude, that is not cheating ?

Feelitx:

Whitelexi,

Are you saying if a partner you are engaged to be married to is sleeping with some dude, that is not cheating ?

The level of commitment is the key here. If we're engaged, then some more commitment is in the picture. . . It would be a good sha, to discover her sleeping with someone else before marriage so i can put an end to it all

@Whitelexi,

So you begin to build another relationship. You must agree that finding and keeping that special someone is serious work.

Feelitx:

@Whitelexi,

So you begin to build another relationship. You must agree that finding and keeping that special someone is serious work.

I dont consider it serious work.  I'm like a hunter, and i have an eye for the right kill. If its not worth my while, i dont bother about it, even if its right under my nose.  I also look good, so i get many admirers too

I prefer to start a new relationship than continue with someone i know has slept around under such circumstances, she will most likely commit adultery when married. I wouldn't even expect a 2nd chance if i made such a mistake!

whitelexi:

When u commit adultery. . .  Meaning u should be married first. I dont consider anything done before marriage to be cheating.

It would be a good sha, to discover her sleeping with someone else before marriage so i can put an end to it all Grin

What are we really implying

abbewe:

What are we really implying

Before marriage but engaged for marriage - there is some good commitment there
Before marriage and not engaged for marriage - there is minimum commitment and nothing really matters

I hope we are crystal clear now

the rate at which we're going in this country, we might start having one night stands where
every partner does as they please with whomever catches their fancy and promptly forget
about the whole encounter the next morning!

dearest george,

wake up n smell the coffee, we already have that happening

its cheating when u spending quality time with him/her/it


hmm am i cheating on facebook with nairaland?

bluespice:

dearest george,

wake up n smell the coffee, we already have that happening

its cheating when u spending quality time with him/her/it


hmm am i cheating on facebook with nairaland?

Honestly? I think u r.

really??


wow,
im going back to my frst love then

NL ur a bitch how dare u lure me away
FB im coming back home!!!

bluespice:

really??


wow,
im going back to my frst love then

NL ur a bitch how dare u lure me away
FB im coming back home!!!

See blame culture in progress
Now u blame NL for taking u away from FB??

yels nau

bluespice:

dearest george,

wake up n smell the coffee, we already have that happening

its cheating when u spending quality time with him/her/it

Now, do we really? I should have known that. Maybe I'm behind the times already.
OK, I better rush out and have my own quickie too while everyone else is at it!

From what I understand, "cheating" is usually cheating when cheating is involved. How else would "cheating" be considered cheating? Wrap your mind around that!

Cheating is nothing cos cheating is only when you're caught

cheating whether or not you're caught remains same: CHEATING!

I agree wit ya.it kills d trust ur partner has for u n if u reali value and respect the relationship n ur partner,u might want to say no the next time such comes ur way.

CHEATING IS NOT CHEATING IF YOU[b] DON'T GET CAUGHT![/b] I CHEAT ALMOST EVERYDAY AND IT MAKES ME HAPPY. MY GIRLFRIEND IS AN ANNOYING B*TCH!

breaker:

CHEATING IS NOT CHEATING IF YOU[b] DON'T GET CAUGHT![/b] I CHEAT ALMOST EVERYDAY AND IT MAKES ME HAPPY. MY GIRLFRIEND IS AN ANNOYING B*TCH!

@breaker, then leave her alone instead of u to cheat on her everytime,
Cheating is cheating when u r caught

Yeah, leave her alone for your own good.

Orimili:

From what I understand, "cheating" is usually cheating when cheating is involved. How else would "cheating" be considered cheating? Wrap your mind around that!

a word is enough for the wise. Take it or leave it.

Cheating;
yeah whatever.
Just save it for the rainy day. :'D

I dont know why some guys believe dat they can always get away wit stuff,and not get caught,but often slips up nd get caught anyways,except d girl is not smart enough

Dats their nature,cheating!breaking innocent hearts