Inspired by Pataki's When is "Cheating" Cheating:

Okay, fellow nairalanders, This has got me wondering,

Have you ever cheated on anyone emotIonally and/or physically? Why? How did you feel? How did you handle it?

Have you ever been cheated on emotionally and/or physically? How did it feel for you and how did you handle it?

How do YOU define  emotional and physical cheating?

Come on bros and sis, I want you to open up, share your Secretz with me and Secretz will share hers too with you! 

tel us 1st.ve u ever ?

Well I have cheated emotionally and to God who made me he drove me to it!

The relationship wasn't working so I left, no big secret. I didn't feel bad though, because he wasn't paying me much interest after how many years together, I have been cheated on emotionally too, and believe it hurts like hell especially when it's deep, to imagine another woman (not some famous supermodel/celebrity he can't have) is on your man's mind and he feels for her, ! When things are left to the imagination it can do some serious brain damage lol

yes i have been cheated on emotionally and physically reason i dont know. i felt bad. i had to tell her openly that i dont like it and if she continues that it will be free for all.
i have cheated emotionally. by making her feel jealous. i felt bad cos i knew women cant stand to be compared with anyone else especially being compared to a fellow woman. i told her point blank what i did and apologized for the action.
to me emotional cheating is playing with heart of someone which creates agony for the person concerned.
physical cheating is doing what u promised not to do with your personlity e.g sex with another partner.

so secretz can we hear yours.
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Inspired By Pataki's When Is "cheating" Cheating! Have You Ever:
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Inspired by Pataki's When is "Cheating" Cheating:

Okay, fellow nairalanders, This has got me wondering,

Have you ever cheated on anyone emotIonally and/or physically? Why? How did you feel? How did you handle it?

Have you ever been cheated on emotionally and/or physically? How did it feel for you and how did you handle it?

How do YOU define  emotional and physical cheating?

Come on bros and sis, I want you to open up, share your Secretz with me and Secretz will share hers too with you!

keyene
can we hear or read your experience
we are all eyes

kanayo74:

keyene
can we hear or read your experience
we are all eyes

lol. all eyes o! like poppin!!!


One of my exs cheated on me 3 times, however I did not know about all the three times on each seperate occassions, I found out about all of them at one go! So you can imagine that was a big blow! And to imagine he was never my type in the first place, (sooo pissed) and the girls he cheated with KAI! I didn't see the point oh!!

He really lost his senses, cos now he just now realising am A BLOODY GOOD TING! Olodo, Oloshi, Ode!

Oloshi,ode,olodo that one too much oooo

onDgrind:

Oloshi,ode,olodo that one too much oooo

Oloshi= the first time

Ode= the second time

Olodo= the third time

MUGU= For all 3 times!

@ topic,

Yes I have cheated quite a couple of times. But it is another subject of discussion for another time though.

Pataki:

@ topic,

Yes I have cheated quite a couple of times. But it is another subject of discussion for another time though.

hmmmmmmmm lol

why? what made you do it a couple of times ?

ummm

Emotional cheating - once or twice . . . but really it was because i didnt see a future for us both.
Physically? - Never.

@ topic

i don't really know. Before I used to think it was just a sexual thing, but now I think it starts from somewhere else.

nah have never cheated
i see no point
if i'm not comfortable or interested in the relationship
its better we end it because i dont have time to waste on trash

so i would ranther end it then to end up cheating because that is really taking the pissed i guess

Itz not cal'd cheating. Itz cal'd ''tryìng-out'' or ''sampling''.

Itz not cal'd cheating. Itz cal'd ''tryìng-out'' or ''sampling''.

puskin:

Itz not cal'd cheating. Itz cal'd ''tryìng-out'' or ''sampling''.

Wharreva *eyes rolling*

@kanoyo 74.
u no go skul,d name is keyne. .anyway,am a saint.i've neva cheated

keyne:

@kanoyo 74.
u no go skul,d name is keyne. .anyway,am a saint.i've neva cheated

In that case I shall be the first to cast a stone! (konk!! on your head) lol

Physically and sexually cheated on my boyfriend (b4 we got married) but never emotionally. I cheated for a long while, emotionally attached to my boyfriend now my husband and physically and sexually attached to a man who was sponsoring my education. I dont know how but somehow i was able to play it very well that my bf didnt know. I ended it all with his understanding though when i was about getting married. It was not the best but it service the purpose.

wakagirl:

Physically and sexually cheated on my boyfriend (b4 we got married) but never emotionally. I cheated for a long while, emotionally attached to my boyfriend now my husband and physically and sexually attached to a man who was sponsoring my education. I dont know how but somehow i was able to play it very well that my bf didnt know. I ended it all with his understanding though when i was about getting married. It was not the best but it service the purpose.

nawa o.
@ secretz,evrione is not lyk u.hope u did nt break ur spine while casting?

Physically? Ehrrrm no

When you say emotional cheating, what are we talking about here?

Thinking about some other guy or fantasying about Llyod (music artist) is not emotional cheating right?

nope not done either

Emotionally and Physically. . .Nah!!
I'm too Crazy about One person to notice others.

Missy B:

Emotionally and Physically. . .Nah!!
I'm too Crazy about One person to notice others.

i fil u,

follypimpi:

Wanna know,Is thinking about Arsenal footie games while hvin Sex or on the virtue of hving one,emotional cheating??

hmmm

follypimpi:

Wanna know,Is thinking about Arsenal footie games while hvin Sex or on the virtue of hving one,emotional cheating??

I feel your pain bro! If I had sex after Saturday's game I definitely would have been thinking about Arsenal. I think it is a form of emotional cheating - you're giving more emotion to Arsenal instead of giving it to your partner.

*Toyinrayo:

Physically? Ehrrrm no

When you say emotional cheating, what are we talking about here?

Thinking about some other guy or fantasizing about Debosky (romance mod) is not emotional cheating right?

Nah, that's very natural - you can't help it.

rotfl. . . .if wishes were horses beggars would ride

Emotionally? Yeah. I was in love with one and was in pity with the other, and I was too much of a coward to break the latter's heart for the ten thousandth time. Eventually, I got caught. I suck at those sort of things. Oh well. Nothing spoil. They're both out of my life (thank God) now anyway.

Physically? No.