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Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by SAMBARRY: 10:55am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Wow she looks so cute and her age too cococandy: |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by bukatyne(f): 10:57am On Oct 08, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Hair... on point Face on point Dress? A lil' bit longer and no need for the jacket 2 Likes |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by SAMBARRY: 11:00am On Oct 08, 2015 |
and me I was thinking the jacket makes her look more cute.so tell me what's wrong with the other little girl in sunshades and knicker bukatyne: |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by SAMBARRY: 11:04am On Oct 08, 2015 |
@ bukky bukatyne you mean long like Beyonces daughter's own? this type of long? 1 Like
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Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by bukatyne(f): 11:08am On Oct 08, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Sunshades (there is sunshade for kids na) and knickers (I would prefer the multicolored ones and not jeans). The blazers is more of an overkill for me jare. Make the 2 Likes |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by bukatyne(f): 11:10am On Oct 08, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Now this is a beautiful baby girl Knee length or slightly above the knee is ok Though in all honesty, for kids very little (2, 3yrs), the length of the dress doesn't matter All you would see is a short moving object 1 Like |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by SAMBARRY: 11:18am On Oct 08, 2015 |
@ Bukatyne bukky. Too much emphasis on girls jare. What of this cute little boys 4 Likes
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Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by SAMBARRY: 11:20am On Oct 08, 2015 |
bukatyne:bukky too much emphasis on little girls appearance is too much jare. What of little boys like those ones I posted above you nor see as them pocket their hands and cross their legs to pose for photo shoot then the dreads and shades are cute too @dyt come and see fashion styles for your little son |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by bukatyne(f): 11:43am On Oct 08, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Cute boys The shade and dreads is a no no These children will live long ke; let them focus on been kids now... there is a time for everything 3 Likes |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Dyt(f): 11:57am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by SAMBARRY: 12:00pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
the idea is to show that the mother has taste and a sense of fashion ni jare there's an addage that says kids are a reflection of their parents. More like show me your child and I will tell you what the mother is .so the point is to package the kids and make them look stylish yet kiddish too bukatyne: 3 Likes |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by SAMBARRY: 12:01pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Dyt(f): 12:05pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: He needs it ooo Let him.spend all mummy and daddy's money How's beautiful Gold? 1 Like |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by SAMBARRY: 12:07pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
@ bukatyne if you say kids shouldn't wear adult clothing they can as well not wear their traditional outfit like iro and buba like this kid dressed like her mom 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by SAMBARRY: 12:19pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Dyt:she's gone to school. Thanks |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by nickishire: 1:56pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
cococandy:I tire ooo, see as all of em just dey condemn... provocative indeed |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by armyofone(m): 2:12pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
the dread is unnecessary. Imagine the time spent doing his locs which should be used learning his next generation's abc's. SAMBARRY: |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by coogar: 2:15pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
armyofone: doing my 2nd omugwo already.... i don't waste time. |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by MusingsOfALady: 2:36pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
The boys are very cute but not the dreads. That's just unnecessary. SAMBARRY: |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by MusingsOfALady: 2:42pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Yes, Children are a reflection of their parents but children are not toys or decorations for show. The emphasis should be on our kids reflecting our values more than our sense of fashion. We should also take in consideration their comfort as well as the values our fashion will reinforce in them Some parents go as far as relaxing their 1 year old child's hair without considering the impact of the chemicals to the tender scalp, some make their child's hair for hours while the poor child screams and cries in pain. Truth is if you subject your child to pain or discomfort or expose them unnecessarily just to show your your sense of fashion - it is Child abuse. SAMBARRY: 4 Likes |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Stillfire: 5:36pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Popular culture dictates these rules. Fortunately for us we grew up during the time of Michael Jackson, so children wanted to break dance not twerk. The highest sex.ual dance was to do a Patra-butterfly dance . Unfortunately today popular culture is ruled by the twerkers association. And children would absorb these element adults have put out there. If we had such gyrating, sexu.al dancing in our time, we would have done it as well especially without parental guidance. Today's parents have a whole lot more to do in releasing healthy individuals into society, considering the amount of information children would absorb in the current and future generation, most of us didn't even understand it until we were in our 20s. For you to have a headway, the entertainment industry wings need to be clipped. You can also use the way a child is dressed to gauge the mental class of the parent. Notwithstanding, your individual/institutional ideals on decency may differ from others. For example, my church would consider the pic below indecent because they can see your knees, but I can wear this to work without anyone batting an eyelid. And I do agree with Freecocoa on viewing certain items on 4-6yr olds as 'provocative'. Also, A kid can also be covered up, but not wear age-appropriate clothing. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Stillfire: 5:45pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
cococandy: Is that what they call bum short in Nigeria? I was thinking it's the one the butt would be loosely hanging out, lol. I practically grew up wearing shorts like that in the pic. So people find that provocative? Really? 1 Like |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by cococandy(f): 6:08pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Stillfire:Well that's what I know bum shorts to be. On adults the butt may hang out because they have butts that can hang out but on kids, there's nothing there to hang out so that's how it looks on kids. Anything shorter than that is basically a pantie. |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Nobody: 6:20pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
We may want to take this campaign to clothing manufacturers A friend shared a link on facebook where a mum wrote a petition to a departmental store on the shorts available for a toddler the inner seam was less than 6inches so invariably the shorts were more like a pant which where we get the term bum shorts. It was so bad she considered buying the shorts for boys because there was no way her daughter was wearing that. You see designers are making mini me's for kids so they simply scale down adult clothing for kids. Haven't you noticed that even cartoon characters clothes are shorter and tighter. About the music we need parents to insist that DJs music selection is approved by them prior to playing. Better still get a entertainer who will coordinate line / group dancing at parties. All this dance competition is non inclusive and it makes kids want to dance to show off what they saw adults doing. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Nobody: 7:00pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Is it just me or is this a slut shaming thread? 1 Like |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Talon05: 8:30pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Please, it's completely wrong to think a child is dressed provocatively. It is wrong in its entirety. 3 Likes |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by coogar: 8:33pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: it's obvious cococandy does not know what bumshorts are. the base of the bütt has to be exposed for it to be bümshorts! 2 Likes
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Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Talon05: 8:59pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
coogar:Bumshorts on adults, yh but what's called bumshorts on little girls are completely different from the one in this pic, the base of the bütt are NEVER exposed. |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Nobody: 9:04pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
MusingsOfALady: 1 Like |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Stillfire: 9:09pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
cococandy: Lol. |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by Stillfire: 9:21pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
coogar: I actually saw a chic in wearing that at the mall. It was a funny sight. Something like this is OK as far as I'm concerned as long as she's not going to the church, mosque or office. But some people may not consider it decent. https://fashionablestylish.files./2013/05/mid-length-shorts.jpg?w=300&h=375 |
Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by coogar: 9:37pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Talon05: bumshorts are bumshorts kids don't have a special type of bumshorts......the ones we are talking about are exactly like the image i uploaded. and when we say kids, we are not necessarily talking about the 3-6 year olds.....we are talking about those ones in their early teens who wanna become adults prematurely! Stillfire: you would be surprised she would attempt to cover her flying bütt-base with her hands while walking. i sometimes wonder if they were forced to wear it!
hehe! this is super-decent. if ladies leave it like this, no one would raise eyebrows. female footballers wear this types and men don't drool over them. 5 Likes |
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