jaymejate:
That bum short is what i hate most o. Why will a mother choose that kind of dressing for an innocent child? These causes R ape . These crazy jeans is now something else. I pray this modern parent will be able to control the dressing of their children. Charity begins at home.

SAMBARRY:
I don't see any thing wrong in wearing bum shorts and a tshirt for my daughter. The only issues I agree with is braiding or fixing their hair like adults. That's a no no for me

make up is also a no no.

If my daughter is going out she either wears all this cinderella ball gowns to kiddies party or church and or wear jeans and top.

Halter neck spaghetti and so on depends on the location

MusingsOfALady:



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cococandy:

Thank you my dear. I feel sick when anyone says a child is dressed provocatively.
That's just sad. What's the world turning into?
We try to blame it on modernization and say that's what's spoiling our kids while in truth we are becoming more and more prudish and over sexed.
I don't even know how that combination is possible but it's happening.

Before this so called modernization, we didn't see anything wrong with child nudityy.
Even we as kids didn't know there's anything called sexy until we started maturing.

So what's the real culprit here?

Didn't we all grow up in Nigeria where kids stay outdoors all day only in panties and are non the wiser about their provocative nature? Now we see sexuality where there should be none.
It frightens me.

As for kids' fashion, some thing definitely look odd on kids. And that includes weaves, make-up or anything that makes them not look like kids. Let the kids be kids dear parents.

Below is a child in bum shorts and there's nothing sexy about that. Don't give pervs excuse to justify paedophilia as they've tried to justify rape of adults on dressing.

Hannysmilez:
This issue don tire me. Gone are the days that parents dress daughters in tiaras and dresses. Kids no longer watch disney and the likes and it's the adults that encourage them. I recently discovered that my daughter was engrossed in a Bollywood soap because her teacher said she should watch it and 'gist' her.

nickishire:
I see nothing wrong with with kids wearing bum shorts but i dont approve of them watching such music channels cos of the high level of immorality in music videos.

Generals03:


Its a damn shame if you ask me. Why not get her G-strings as well to wear underneath the bum shorts? Like mother like daughter.

Ezyp:


Let me tell you a true story...
.... Years back, on a faithful evening on my way to the school (university) for reading I saw guys all on blacks. I noticed two of the guys were walking slowly (sure they wanted a lady behind them to be at the same pace with them) then I heard one of them say: ABEG MAKE WE LEAVE HER THIS ONE NA DEEPER LIFE MEMEBER. The truth is they made that statement because of how she was dressed that evening.
Imagine she was on something a little provocative. I strongly believe that at little age that lady was taught how to dress decently. (it pays to cover up the body)

kennedyugo:


That's the issue.
Those that allow their children wear such equally don't see anything wrong with them.
Your view may also be according to way you were brought up.
But the truth is that there is something terribly wrong with those views in the light of our traditional societal morals. I define my own morals

It only gets worse and worse.
In fact, I have given up on this generation with regards to morals.

Everyone, you are on your own. What you sow you reap!

sabi99:
hope ur daughter fine lyk u.....train her well oo abeg

SAMBARRY:
Story story . story . Once upon a time. Time time


this your super story reminds me of the stories I read in deeper life Christian women magazine. Fabricated stories

By the way the last time I checked decent and indecent is relative. What may be decent to you may be indecent to me and vice versae

Hannysmilez:
lol,weall do our best and just pray God does the rest.

Ezyp:
OK.... Do as you wished.. But thank God the story I shared with you wasn't THEM SAY THEM SAY STORY.

SAMBARRY:
if I can I would. Ode! Shame on you too . When you grow up, I mean grow up and have become a parent, come and trade words with me . till then get lost

Generals03:


Lol you don vex.

Listen indecent exposure means the intentional exposure of the breats, buttocks, thigh and other sexually provocative flesh areas in public (in lands where this is not the cultural norm).


You can't do morals on your own. You have no knowledge or sufficiency to decide whats right or wrong, good or bad for your daughter on your own.
According to biblical morals, to wear a bum short exposing the laps of your daughter in public is a sin.
According to quranic standards it is a sin,
According to 99% of Nigerian cultural norms, it is wrong.

So how did you come up with your own morals that sees it as right?

You see the danger of raising kids without morals that you can point to or read in their ears is that it raises weak minded kids. Daughters who are confused at 14, when a boy talks love to them and snatches their virginity. Daughters who by the age of 15 have slept with men including their teacher who always stick his finger inside her at every opportunity.
Why do you think the society is collapsing? And marriages break here and there? And little girls start thinkinj sex, sex, sex while in Jss3?

My point; Train up your child in the way of the Lord....... Your daughter will not believe that allowing the handsome JSS2 science teacher manipulate her privates in secret places at school is wrong SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU HER MOTHER SAID SO. She has seen you made mistakes countless time and it is registered in her subconscious that you are not always right. Meanwhile what the teacher does feel sweet. Dilenma!

In order words sambarry, Im not only advising you but I'm also persuading you to stick to biblical standards as your morals/belief. (I believe you are a christain) Train your daughers with these morals. When she asks why is it wrong? Show it to her in the bible and tell her the consequencs. Ofcourse you also have to 1st embrace this way of life before you can hand it down to her. Hence.......# A unique call this minute to return to the Saviour and His standard. Years from now you will be glad you did.

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