bestestgirl:
First lemme laugh you small

Second, those gifts are not worth 30k biko, so chillix and stop overthinking things, its just a token she bought you because she likes you.

You, on the other hand, should have rejected it outright since you know that you can NEVER date her. infact, why did you not just greet her normally and pass that day, you had to add all the sweet words and then exchange contacts (all the while knowing that you can NEVER date her)

Ok Now what to do:
1. pack all those things back into the gift bag.
2. Go to her house and knock on ther door
3. when she opens, hand the bag to her and say "Hi, I realise that I am to blame for this current confusion because I may have given you mixed signals, however I want to clarify things that I am not currently looking for a relationship, I would like us to remain friends but I don't want to date you. so if this exchange of gifts means what I think it means, I apologize for confusing you."
4. Turn around and go back to your house
5. NEVER flirt with any girl you know you will never date.


She may be hurt today but she will respect you for not playing with her heart.

louismane:
firstly its annoying that yall are focusing on judging hw cheap or expensive d gifts are... honestly dats not any of ur concern yall and focus should be made on helping him instead of judging and analysing d gifts... na him cause am sef dey show una pics... jealous pple..

now let me give u my 2cents.. firstly she gave u a gift... which is all good n harmless but i dont see wat all d fuss is about.. she didnt ask u to put a ring on her hand n marry her.. neida has she asked u to date her or anytin.. so y exactly r u overeacting?? smh fr nigerians tho... pls its a gift... accept it... n stop reading meanings into anything som1 does.. b grateful... say thnku.. n b a gud frnd to her... should tinz develop bw u both n u still dnt fancy her...(ie if she decides to ask u out) u politely say no and say u only see her as a frnd n nothing more... u cn evn tell her u hve a gf already...

im suprised ur evn askn us dis, cos if it wer d oda way round... dis z exactly wat she would do... ladies do dt a lot... allow u spend cos dey didnt ask u to... and tell u dey dnt want wen u ask dem out..

think like a woman.. thats hw to outsmart dem..

naijaboiy:
Why is the watch not enclosed in the box that they usually keep it?

Looks more like those watches abokì men sell in their show glasses.

Boyooosa:

Am beefing you cos u got 441 likes.... how can?! lil souls did dis am sure!

Lol its 489 now

naijaboiy:

Lol its 489 now

Boyooosa:

Remove d 1 I added after commenting, its 488!

sorry,its 490

ellahzy:
how sweet it will be if that girl was a Nairalander


Omo ur own don finish.



meanwhile u still snap pictures of the items??...na so body sweet u reach?


@ the poster above ___nah, I won't be needing such items pass it to Oga Lalas...

ashmanpolo:
This girl in my area was hanging out with my friends and then she started bitching on me. That she hates me. I like forming. "Everytime he's dressing like an Americana and he doesn't even greet people" That, what am I even feeling like sef?

"Why is he not with you guys today? I always see him here everyday, drinking Heineken and always Laughing out Loud with y'all" She told my friends as she feigned obsessed.

The next day my friends told me about all the swearing so I saw her some days later and greeted her first. The girl is quite pretty BUT not my Speck. I don't do 'yellow paw-paw'. I started the conversation this way:
"Halo swit, my name's Ashman. You' so beautiful"
The young girl started laughing. Every word I said was countered with laughter.
"Are you laughing at me?"
She stopped, whipped her face. Looked straight into my eyes and said:

"I'm laughing because you don't even know how long I've been trying to get your attention" whew!!! I was flattered. For once in my life I felt like the Emperor of Rome. BUT one thing was sure, I can't date this girl. No NEVER.
We exchanged contacts and it's barely two weeks, she walked up to me and handed a parcel to me. "I got this for you"

I got home and opened it this morning. I swear, I saw a brand new Swatch wrist watch; Original Malizia Perfume and a foreign Pee-Jay. That girl must have spent an estimate of 30k. Right now I feel perplexed. I really don't need such gifts from a girl I can NEVER date. I mean NEVER and I also wouldn't want to be indebted to her.

'I know this kinda girls. If they fall in love, e don be for you na. They will remain in your life like Mount Zion that can never be moved. Love go taya you na'

How do I politely return her gifts.
Thanks. Mature responses needed asap.

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naijaboiy:

sorry,its 490

ashmanpolo:


No I'm not.

Genea:
y dnt u want? Is dere something u dnt like abt her

viclawz:
she don come online #ghenghen re u d 1 pls don't mind him he was just joking

Genea:
lolz am nt d one o

naijaboiy:
Go to her house,knock on her door and POLITELY return the gift to her.

That's how you politely return a gift.