jcflex:
Depend on your view and belief about it

naijaboiy:
Love at first sight may not exist, but that attraction a person feels when he sees the girl for him is usually stronger than the normal attraction he has when he sees another girl.

Behira:
Exactly

Yeap!

naijaboiy:
Love at first sight may not exist, but that attraction a person feels when he sees the girl for him is usually stronger than the normal attraction he has when he sees another girl.

bongolistik:
does strong attraction automatically transcends to love? That you are strongly attracted to o someone immediately, does it mean love? Don't you think it can well be an infatuation or paranoia

naijaboiy:

Yes it can. It's a platform on which Love can be built.

I never said getting attracted to someone means love but the attraction you feel for someone that your mind settles for is usually stronger than mere infatuation.

Harbosede02:
attraction to what exactly?? They call it love at first sight??what can yu be attracted to that can build love at first sight/glance...I guess its the beauty or the body,wat if she turns out to be beautiful without brains??would the love still be built based on the attraction that no longer exist??

Harbosede02:
attraction to what exactly?? They call it love at first sight??what can yu be attracted to that can build love at first sight/glance...I guess its the beauty or the body,wat if she turns out to be beautiful without brains??would the love still be built based on the attraction that no longer exist??

Yes it's the beauty and the body.

What else will you be attracted to before? Are those attributes there for fancy? How can you know if someone has brains on the first meet? That is hardly possible.

When you get attracted to the person you can then start getting to know each other and discover other features the person may possess. From there Love will definitely grow if you both agree with each other.

naijaboiy:

Yes it's the beauty and the body.

What else will you be attracted to before? Are those attributes there for fancy? How can you know if someone has brains on the first meet? That is hardly possible.

When you get attracted to the person you can then start getting to know each other and discover other features the person may possess. From there Love will definitely grow if you both agree with each other.

okitikpo:
but am still yet to understand your take from the OP's question. You are standing neither here nor there. In all that you have said, what is actually your stand, cos some of your point I see yes that love at first sight exist while in other of your comments you sounded like no it doesn't exist.

I think it was clear enough. What is your take. Are you for yes love at first sight exist or no it doesn't exist. I just want to understand the direction that you are moving towards

naijaboiy:

Sorry,i don't have the Luxury to explain myself again.

The posts i've made are enough for one to grab my stand point. If you can't,then don't get disturbed by it.

naijaboiy:

Yes it's the beauty and the body.

What else will you be attracted to before? Are those attributes there for fancy? How can you know if someone has brains on the first meet? That is hardly possible.

When you get attracted to the person you can then start getting to know each other and discover other features the person may possess. From there Love will definitely grow if you both agree with each other.

okitikpo:
I don't mean any harm neither am I disturbed. Just trying to grab your stands

The Op stated that there is nothing like love at first sight but mere attraction and I agreed with him but I buttressed further that some attractions may be stronger than the others.

There are some ladies that when you see them the first thing that comes to your mind is sex but for a few others you have a conviction that it can be more than sex for that person while still attracted to her physical features.

I don't know how else i'm gonna explain this really.

Harbosede02:
u are quoting me wrongly i said wat if u find out its beauty without brains later??Would the love still grow??am thinking abt the negative aspects of the so called love at first sight than the positive aspects... It all boils down to what if the attributes u thought were there wasn't?

U will definitely work it out abi??

naijaboiy:

There is no such thing as "PERFECT LOVE". Everything is "TRIAL AND ERROR", you have to take risks before you find the person that will fit your spec.

If a man notices that a woman doesn't have what he is looking for,its better he quits on time. If he remains,then he should be ready to contain the consequences later.

Harbosede02:
lol..u've devaited.... all I got frm wat u wrote is dah ur love at first sight might nt eventually turn out to be wat u thought it would be.that's enuf
Av a nyc day

You never understood my point in the first place that was why you quoted me out of context. Because if I remember clearly I never stated that love at first sight exists.

People who lack comprehension skills should not divulge in arguments and make a muse of themselves.

naijaboiy:

The Op stated that there is nothing like love at first sight but mere attraction and I agreed with him but I buttressed further that some attractions may be stronger than the others.

There are some ladies that when you see them the first thing that comes to your mind is sex but for a few others you have a conviction that it can be more than sex for that person while still attracted to her physical features.

I don't know how else i'm gonna explain this really.

okitikpo:
I get you better now, but when you say strong attraction you always sound as if it will end up leading to true love. Off course it can finally develop into love on the long run and also on the contrary it might not also develop into love. In other words that strong attraction is definitely not love, whether the attraction is strong or faint doesn't entails love at first sight