Am not a good writer, just manage my piece.

Many people have been victims of this even befor my age. Some made mistakes which i want to avoid. Am realy woried because this is the first time me and she are experiencing this. No time for long story so let me drop it.

Am 27 yrs I graduated from school this year and was suppose to be Mobilize with batch B, but due to my school inability i hope by 2016 batch A.
My Girlfriend whom we both love ourselves started datin over 2 yrs now. But i new her Family late last year and she know my dis yr. And she do visit and spend some days until my mum frown @ d developmnt of things, so i told her to only visit and go back without spendinga nite, she has complain to some of my Aunts i respect so much. She said she dont want me to combine relationship and School and i assure her dat i know myself and i wil remain focus.

I travel home for a function and came bak late last month, on the 3rd of Octoba i send her money to by "Always" ladies stuff which she bought i keep on calling to find out if she has seen until 7 oct she told me she has not, on d 8 i told her to buy a teststrip, 2 do d test at first she refused because she ws afraid but did the test on saturday only to cal & tel me dat d test was +tive, i jokinly told her congratulations! she frown and ask y i my congratulating her? i said because she is carrying my baby.

I ask her wht do we do? she said she dont know.
Even me am Confuse because my mum warn me, my uncle advice me, my auntys told me about d danger of this serious Open relationship.

I just graduated stil searching for a job while i wait for NYSC and she is only 21 and hoping to be in school next year.

"I love her with all my life and she loves me with all her Future" but i have never plan to born befor marrying her and it wil distop her school, catering for d baby i dont see it a big problem. Am so worried i cant sleep i cant even eat wel.

Pls mature minds should advice me. No insult, plsssssss............ We are stil Nairaland Brethrean. It can happened to ur broda or Sista.

Thanks
Ajensly.......

it seems u like this song.... everything NA double double.... more blessing bro

Lmao, wen it see posts like this, I laff my brains out

Congratulation it's called ABOLORE baby for both male or female, pls don't forget this name on the naming day oo

lol

Op,

Kill her! Poison her drink or food and let her die a natural death! Or take her for an abortion and bribe the doctor so they kill her and claim she tried to end the pregnancy.

When she is dead, burn her body so her spirit does not come after you!

Enjoy your NYSC

-Vinshu

Congratulations

Pls forget the pregnancy part for now. Which university or polytechnic did you graduate from. That university needs to be shut down for sending someone like you for service.

Lolz...story...u neva plan to born b4 marriage...and zip up no de ur dictionary, that money Whr u use buy teststrip ko buy cd, change ko even remain sef (dpending)...

vani86:
Pls forget the pregnancy part for now. Which university or polytechnic did you graduate from. That university needs to be shut down for sending someone like you for service.

See jealousy

oh! very happy for u

Kai the school wey mobilize you ehn . I will quote a saying of J.M Keynes 'in the end, we are all dead' ..... Go figure

ajensly1987:

"I love her with all my life and she loves me with all her Future"

sorry Op o! Dat part cracked me up!

in nine months time holla at me to come buy una pikin pampers

Congratulations u r about to bcom a father

Wait first......


You dey buy always for her?

ajensly1987:

............ We are stil Nairaland Brethrean. It can happened to ur broda or Sista.
Ajensly.......

..
Op abeg no go there at all abeg which kine brethren are u talking about??, are we in a church or what.
You got ur gf pregnant and ur talkin about breathren, we will become brethren after she deliver finish.
Before some body go tell me say nh brethrens pregnant the girls.

U see how we Nigerians are wicked? A post dat ned solutions you are just commenting Rabbish.... Some of u gave Africans d name black Monkeys. What os some of you dat impregnanted Girls in ss1 while some had children in ss3. Dey lie? Go village and see Children

I forgot how caustic Nigerians can be......

Op There's nothing bad in you becoming a father expecially at that your age, the girl is old enough also. Why don't you just leave the baby? . You consider yourself a father already, and start thinking and working like a family man (father). Afterall, you do not know how your Lord as planned it for you, you could be wrong with your own plans.
We've got some brothers here who got married in their year3(university) they are Muslims tho.

OP when u dey Jigijigi jamjam u no invite us, now u want make we turn Special Adviser...

Oya send mii ur gal make I nack the belle comot, since u no want am..

ajensly1987:
Am not a good writer, just manage my piece.

Many people have been victims of this even befor my age. Some made mistakes which i want to avoid. Am realy woried because this is the first time me and she are experiencing this. No time for long story so let me drop it.

Am 27 yrs I graduated from school this year and was suppose to be Mobilize with batch B, but due to my school inability i hope by 2016 batch A.
My Girlfriend whom we both love ourselves started datin over 2 yrs now. But i new her Family late last year and she know my dis yr. And she do visit and spend some days until my mum frown @ d developmnt of things, so i told her to only visit and go back without spendinga nite, she has complain to some of my Aunts i respect so much. She said she dont want me to combine relationship and School and i assure her dat i know myself and i wil remain focus.

I travel home for a function and came bak late last month, on the 3rd of Octoba i send her money to by "Always" ladies stuff which she bought i keep on calling to find out if she has seen until 7 oct she told me she has not, on d 8 i told her to buy a teststrip, 2 do d test at first she refused because she ws afraid but did the test on saturday only to cal & tel me dat d test was +tive, i jokinly told her congratulations! she frown and ask y i my congratulating her? i said because she is carrying my baby.

I ask her wht do we do? she said she dont know.
Even me am Confuse because my mum warn me, my uncle advice me, my auntys told me about d danger of this serious Open relationship.

I just graduated stil searching for a job while i wait for NYSC and she is only 21 and hoping to be in school next year.

"I love her with all my life and she loves me with all her Future" but i have never plan to born befor marrying her and it wil distop her school, catering for d baby i dont see it a big problem. Am so worried i cant sleep i cant even eat wel.

Pls mature minds should advice me. No insult, plsssssss............ We are stil Nairaland Brethrean. It can happened to ur broda or Sista.

Thanks
Ajensly.......

chai niggasss after all e good to born early na bar

Congrats in advance, call me 4 d naming ceremony

Just don't get an unsafe, illegal abortion. Your girlfriend could die from it.

If abortion were legal that would be an option but sadly it is not.

Op you have come of age go and marry....congras

anigbajumo:
Jst gat yerself prepared as a family man,gat yer family sitted nd explain to dem.They will nt kill or send u away.It has happened and the next is to focus on how to provide the primary needs.




Congratulations and Gooduck.

nice comment

U love her with ur life"meaning u can dump nysc /ur career cos of her.She loves u with her future" meaning she can dump sch cos of u and ur baby.

I don't see where the problem is coming frm...everything seems settled.

gab264:
..
Op abeg no go there at all abeg which kine brethren are u talking about??, are we in a church or what.
You got ur gf pregnant and ur talkin about breathren, we will become brethren after she deliver finish.
Before some body go tell me say nh brethrens pregnant the girls.

Bros i tire o. When he was doing d deed, did he remember brethren. OP pls carry your cross (baby) yourself

A minute silence for Mr English.